Hello! Please publish the story !! In short, my friend and I have been together for 3 years. Jealousy kills me, I pretend to trust him, but if he talks to someone, he blacks me out, and I don't want that to be the case !!! Tips on how to deal with jealousy? The other problem is that I am ready to be a mother, I have a maternal instinct ... I adore children, I have a brother whom I take care of, and personally I am 17 years old and my friend is 18 years old. Is it normal to think about children ... I know I'm small and now is the time to study, but I've been thinking about these things for maybe 3-4 months ... Thanks if you help me deal with jealousy and with the thought of a baby!
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You are crazy! It is neither your property nor your toy, at least not a living vibrator! You have no future with men! You will destroy everything good and beautiful. Women like you have been pre-convicted. You need to change your views and understandings.
Let 1, does your wooden floor knock? Author, you have a fear of childhood. Tell your friend how he can assure you that he is faithful to you (as long as he wants to). And children, be content with watching your brother for now.
People with low self-esteem are jealous. Do you think any woman who talks to your boyfriend is able to sexually attract him or make him leave you to be with her? Do you think all women are beautiful enough, intelligent, funny, with the necessary qualities to be his friends? Be confident in yourself and what you are, don't act like other women are more than you. The only thing that should be clear to your friend is that if you catch him cheating, he loses you (believe me, if he cheats on you, you will feel it immediately, without having to watch him around the clock). The confident woman attracts and makes the man want her and be with her, not the insecure one, to whom she must be accountable and suffer scandals. This is the way to prevent a man from cheating on you, not with prohibitions - if he wants to, he will find a way and no matter how much you follow him, you will not stop him. Show self-confidence, trust in your boyfriend, have sex regularly, be his best friend, be his partner in every endeavor, if he cheats on you, then he is garbage that does not deserve you and you beat his jester. As for the children, yes, you are too young. Being a parent is not enough to have a maternal instinct. Are you financially independent or are you with your boyfriend? Do you have a permanent job, can you afford rent, purchase of a home, bills, car, clothes for the child, baby food, doctors, etc.? These are all material prerequisites for you to be able to form a family nest with your friend, in which your child can live happily and be provided with all the necessary conditions. I have no doubt that you will learn very quickly to change his diapers, bathe and feed him, but it will be a baby for a short time. You will have to raise him to be a good person, to be confident, to be independent. You and your father will be an example to him. Are you ready for this? At the risk of offending me, you have a problem with jealousy and self-esteem at the moment. The child family scandals caused by your jealousy do you want to watch? From experience I tell you that a person develops the most from 18 to 24 - in this period you understand who you are and what you want from life. Wait until you graduate and find a job (I don't mean careerism, being a director, etc., but just a steady income) and, if you have the right person by your side, make a baby brave - then you will be ready financially, and mentally for raising a child. you have a problem with jealousy and self-esteem at the moment. The child family scandals caused by your jealousy do you want to watch? From experience I tell you that a person develops the most from 18 to 24 - in this period you understand who you are and what you want from life. Wait until you graduate and find a job (I don't mean careerism, being a director, etc., but just a steady income) and, if you have the right person by your side, make a baby brave - then you will be ready financially, and mentally for raising a child. you have a problem with jealousy and self-esteem at the moment. The child family scandals caused by your jealousy do you want to watch? From experience I tell you that a person develops the most from 18 to 24 - in this period you understand who you are and what you want from life. Wait until you graduate and find a job (I don't mean careerism, being a director, etc., but just a steady income) and, if you have the right person next to you, make a baby brave - then you will be ready financially, and mentally for raising a child.
This jealousy is imputed only. As jealous as one is, so is the other. Alone, that one gives grounds real and virtual. The same jealousy has happened in previous relationships. She even deserved physical infidelity. That's all
Author: Number 2, 3 thanks !!!! Your comments made my day! You are right about everything! To have some childhood traumas and great low self-esteem ...! I will try to make things right! Thank you very much! I wish you all the best
They are also jealous of those who have given them their trust three times in a row, ostensibly not worth it. No matter how much you are not, obviously to ruin the joint relationship, everyday life and the atmosphere in the home, it is obviously not something that can be underestimated. Where there is an audience, there are the results achieved. Objectives Something that was more likely to continue after the momentary arguments. If with love it was not worth changing the lie what we are talking about now that love and ashes have not remained where it died.
Sometimes your report is cracked without looking for answers and explanations. Which in itself is a sufficient ground, is covered up and covered up lies and betrayal. If you do not trust a person will not betray him.
If you want to have a baby why not? My older sister got pregnant at 17 and was already married with a child at 18. Maybe this is your calling - to be a mother. Your jealousy will subside over time. The girls your boyfriend talks to mean nothing to him. These girls probably also have boyfriends and don't look at your boyfriend as "their new love." You have no reason to be jealous of him, no matter how attractive they are. Be more confident, talk to them and you will see that they also have a friend or are not interested in your friend at all as a potential partner.