Hello! I am 17 years old. I met a boy on the Internet who was studying at a university next to my school. We wrote to each other briefly. He started complimenting me all the time. He even said that according to him, it could happen between us. He also asked me if I would consider becoming boyfriends. I told him it was too early to judge. I can't just go with the first one. But, leaving everything aside, I'm worried about the fact that he wants us to do it. He says it was time for me. We are not boyfriends, and he already offers me such a thing. He is 18, by the way. I just wanted to know what you think about it. Because I think it's better to get to know each other before we take such a step. I will be happy to read what you think. Have a nice day / evening!
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It is clear what interests him - sex and nothing more. There is no such thing as 'it's time for you', everything is individual according to how a person feels. What interests him is a physical connection, although he presents it differently. A typical 'downloader'. It is better to beware of such.
Well, you've already started to get to know him - he's not shy and he's looking for sex. He does not like romance, but acts directly. That's what I see. And what do I think - if you go with him, it will hardly be your last. :)
He just wants to sleep with you, then he'll dump you.
Another who is only looking for sex. On the Internet, and in real life, 90% of men are looking for casual sex. So see each other regularly, once a week, several times a month ... for sex. Without being boyfriends. And let them go free and uncommitted and take down others. This is the truth. Not that it's bad, but the important thing is to be honest and not lie. Well, that's probably what he wants, sex from time to time. Don't think he wants you to be boyfriends. You will decide whether to do it or not. Just so they don't hurt your feelings. Otherwise, there is nothing wrong with casual sex if you are honest. It is bad if they lie.
Better first have sex and then get to know each other as much as you want.
Thank you very much for the advice and frankness! So, after all, my intuition was correct. I will protect myself! Thank you again! -The author
Don't deal with him, block him from everywhere as soon as he wants sex from the first date, it is clear what his intentions are!
First you become boyfriends, you build relationships, then sex.
At 17 I'm almost an adult I don't know at your age I didn't think about sex I didn't even know what it was - now that I'm old (I won't mention my age) now I realize that sex was a good thing whether it would be with man or woman- man I do not matter
№9 Do not project your own emotional and sexual problems onto other people. Just because you've missed something doesn't mean the girl is missing something right now.
He just wants sex! :)
And I join those who think he only wants sex.
All right, tell him you don't want sex and you feel like you need some more time. If he is the typical stripper, he will not agree and will tell you that you are ready - thorns and hawthorns! If a person is in place, there will be no problems. Most likely, however, he is one of the first people. I'm sorry. I hope I haven't disappointed you. Success!
# 15 he has already firmly demonstrated that he is one of the first people. There is no need to give him a 100 chance to turn things around so as to convince the girl that he is interested in something more in order to take advantage of her.