I am married for the second time and have two children. But after 5 years I accidentally found out from his friends that my husband cheated on me while I was in the village. And so far I have not doubted it. Now he makes fun of a woman on the computer and even talks on the phone. After reading what they wrote to each other, I became very sick and cried for two weeks because I love him very much. We had no problems at home, everything is fine. I never cheated on him. I don't want to ruin my family. But by chance I've been writing to a man from our city for a week now. His wife has also cheated on this man, now he wants us to meet and do it. We look forward to writing to each other every day (we liked it). I've never done it, but on the other hand I want to. I don't know what to do.
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Both you and your spouse need to diversify the relationship - this is what you are doing right now and this will give a new emotional charge to your relationship! If you act wisely without putting feelings into your extramarital affairs, this will help you to realize at some point that when you are together as a family, you feel better and you can move on! But in order to reach this stage, there must be equality in your actions and the effect of the affected feelings must not be obtained, and you will avoid this if you and he have committed the same sexual acts outside of your marriage!
A friend tells me. I'm fucking my wife. I pretend to be a man and at one point she tells me. DID YOU KNOW I DIDN'T DRINK THE COWS. That is why there are infidelities. I am 50 years old. I have not been left without a mistress. I fell in love. It's getting scary. Believe me, I've never met a more stable woman than my wife. Fuck you. Do not care. And without falling in love until divorce.
I'm in your position. Will sleeping with this man change the situation in your family? I doubt so, you will just forget about your problems for a while, but that will not solve them. Moreover, men on the net are mainly interested in sex. I think it's better not to do it, no matter how sick you are now.
Do it...
Do it if you like, but don't you want it to get revenge on your husband? !!! If so, it doesn't make sense, and if you like it and you really want it, do it and don't hesitate, be careful not to ruin your family, of course! Success!
And what if he cheated on you? Is that the end of the world? Such infidelity even helps marriage, in my opinion. It is important that no one is injured. He needed to do it. If he hasn't changed his attitude towards you after that, I don't see where the problem is. And if you bother, you can't change something that has already happened. As for you, if you need to do it, do it. But don't do it just to get revenge. There's no point. I would also advise you to tell him at the right time that he has no friends. By the way, are you sure that what "his friends" told you is true?
You are doing the same as your husband, darling, then you can exchange experiences as a modern family, seriously!
You will get over it. Do it, but be careful your husband doesn't understand. And mine just cheats on me. At first I was in pain - but then I found my favorite activities and I think he was wasting my time. It sucks that I don't love him anymore, but after so many infidelities, insults and rudeness - it's hard for me to be his wife.