Hello, I am 13 years old, I will soon be 14. I was born a girl, but since the age of 10 I have been considering the possibility that I may be transgender. In the last year I did a lot of tests, online and from articles. I have not had the opportunity to go to a professional. The problem is with my parents. They are truly religious. Mostly from my mother. I'm afraid what will happen if I tell her that I may be a trance. She cried when I cut my shoulder, and when I did a man's haircut, she shouted at me. My father and my mother's boyfriend don't mind how I dress. My mother often got drunk and even beat me. I already quarrel with her quite often, but she is still my guardian and I will be able to go to my father only with her permission. I don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes I even become convinced that my trans sexuality is just a stage, even though I know that is not the case. I don't have a great relationship with my class and my neighbors either. I have no idea how I will be received. Some of the kids next door even beat me just because I listen to metal and watch 'anime', and they think it's devilish and only for babies or perverts. Others, mostly gypsies, touched me, but I almost broke the arm of one of them after that, so I think we are 'even'! If anyone knows how to tell this to my mother without her going crazy or talking for hours about Christianity and sexuality! Thanks in advance! but I almost broke the arm of one of them after that, so I think we are 'even'! If anyone knows how to tell this to my mother without her going crazy or talking for hours about Christianity and sexuality! Thanks in advance! but I almost broke the arm of one of them after that, so I think we are 'even'! If anyone knows how to tell this to my mother without her going crazy or talking for hours about Christianity and sexuality! Thanks in advance!
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I don't feel obligated to inform the world. Just be who you feel without being intrusive. No one has the right to force you to be. If you think they won't accept you, don't tell them.
I'm upstairs again. I forgot to mention that I have a friend who is a born man but feels like a woman. However, he is from a village with conservative parents, etc. and decided not to tell them. Eventually they found out from other people and hell began. After 2-3 years of constant quarrels and visits to fortune tellers, psychiatrists and what not to "fix" him, he simply could not stand it and left his home before he finished high school, having previously made several unsuccessful attempts to suicide, but even that did not pity his parents because he felt ashamed of his son. Eventually she went to Sofia and became a prostitute because she was easy prey for pimps. And his parents gave him up, deprived him of an inheritance, and they have money. He fucked his life everywhere - he didn't finish his education, nor did his parents accept him. Now it's a rag, he goes to such a place in Student City for a lev, as much as he has money to eat, he pays for accommodation because his pimp took it from them so that he wouldn't run away. He even drives him to Student City and waits for him at the door while they take him and takes him back. And he was smart and had the potential to succeed. So think about whether it makes sense to tell them. At least get your education, become independent and then, if you decide, tell them again, although even then I don't see the point.
There is nothing to worry about at this stage. You have to be at least 18-20 years old to fully understand what you want. Now you are in puberty and the hormones are shaking you a lot, you can change your mind every day ... It makes no sense to comment on various online tests because it is not serious!
I don't think you need to say that it is now slightly fashionable for girls to dress like boys, and when you become an adult you decide whether to have surgery. If your mother wants to accept you as you are, if she is a good parent she will accept you.
I don't think you need to say that it is now slightly fashionable for girls to dress like boys, and when you become an adult you decide whether to have surgery. If your mother wants to accept you as you are, if she is a good parent she will accept you.
Hello. It is important to share with a mature person whom you can trust. Try with your mother gradually, little by little after things are like this, for example, noticing that she is in a great mood but not drinking.
I think you became a boy
I don't know why your mother is an alcoholic, why doesn't her boyfriend help her, or does he still care what happens to her? Does he love her? Otherwise, it is not by chance that you become an adult at the age of 18, and in some countries at the age of 21, which in my opinion is more correct. Do you know how many minds change? You still have a lot of time to get smart. If you still want, I can tell you some transhora that I follow on YouTube.