Hello! I sincerely hope you will give me advice because I do not know what to do. I'm dating a boy, but I'm worried about my very good friend liking him. If she finds out, she'll be mad at me. We are still hiding, but we cannot go on like this. We write to each other every day, we see each other very often, but when she is with me I don't even greet him, she doesn't suspect anything. The bad thing is that the few people who know about me and him are against it. They say it was rubbish and not for me. When we are together, he is different. She treats others very rudely, and with me as a princess, she showers me with compliments and gestures. I know I'm still very young, but I feel like I'm in love. When I'm with him, I stop caring about absolutely everything and I don't stop smiling. He had squeezed me once while I was tickling him and I was screaming. Then every 5 minutes he asked me if my hand hurt. So my questions are: Will my friend understand me if I tell her? ; Should I continue to deal with it or withdraw, as others say? Thank you in advance! :)
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Talk to your girlfriend and explain how you feel, it seems difficult, I know, but it will be even harder and naughtier when she finds out from someone else, and it will happen at some point. You may get angry, but it's still better if you tell her
It's best to stop seeing each other. Friendship is eternal, and love is always there! Friendship is the most precious thing.
I think he'll be nice to you for a while, then he'll be the same garbage that others have. Open your eyes, because when you are in love, a person is blind to many things. Think about it. The easiest way to understand how he will treat you is the way he treats his mother. Personal experiences ..
Tell her, and if she doesn't understand you, then she's not such a good friend.
Sunshine, I don't know how old you are, but when I listen to you I'm like that .. If this friend of yours is your best talk to her .. now you're blinded, but it will pass and you will realize ... talk to her explain and , things are in her hands: if she decides she will leave you with him, if she gets angry be ready to choose her, but if she doesn't want you to choose and you are angry despite everything you leave her ... remember that she will be with you when he is gone .. friendship is eternal and love is not ... PS I had to make a choice .. but not exactly in a situation like yours ... remember that there are no mistakes .. everything has a reason