Hello, I am a young man of 23 and I want to know what exactly women want? Some want presence, others approach, others beauty, still others confidence, still others kindness and infinity. But that's very common, what do these things really mean? What do you think, how do you deal with the requirements, what is your course of action? What are the most important qualities of a man that attract women? :) Share :)
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to be loyal and appreciate the woman next to him, no matter how many years their relationship has been.
I don't want to attack you or anything like that, but in my opinion, since you didn't realize what women want, you obviously haven't been with a REAL woman :) There is a difference between a woman and a little bitch who thinks that everything revolves around her. No one can tell you what women want in general. Find the one for which you would do anything, and when you find it, make it so that you keep it by your side. Appreciate her, respect her, protect her, and if she leaves for no good reason, then she was not the woman for you.
I'll tell you what I value and want to own the man next to me. I don't care if he's beautiful, if you're in love, appearance doesn't matter, he'll be beautiful to you. Intelligence is important, to be able to say something meaningful and interesting to someone, a sense of humor is also important, I want him to make me laugh the way he knows, I want to be able to share everything with him without worrying about him. I want him to be himself when he's with me, not to play games and pretend. If he wants to tell me something, just say it, if he wants to do something, just do it ... everything is so simple and at the same time so complicated. It doesn't matter if you are older or younger, whether you are poorer or with unlimited finances, it doesn't matter (at least for some). Be yourself and don't pretend to be who you are not, because you can't pretend for a long time and have a real relationship.
Number 2 - well, we can turn the coin over - maybe the author is not a real man! Number 3 otherwise said it all.
I want him to attract me and be good to me.
I personally want to feel loved, I wouldn't be in a relationship if the other person just wants sex or something. And it is felt whether the other is holding on to you or you are just an adventure. And if I am loved - from there, he will listen to me, make nice gestures to me, treat me in such a way that I will feel this love and I will be able to trust this person and be calm. Accordingly, the same is true for women, they cannot expect love if they do not give it.
8 simple things women want !! ;) See what I think: 1. Stability I think stability has several dimensions. Different forms of stability do not necessarily make a woman feel happy. However, the more forms of stability the man embodies, the better, in my opinion. Financial stability often comes to mind first when it comes to stability Not worrying about where the money for tomorrow will come from is very reassuring and makes you feel comfortable. 2. Trust Having trust in someone and having someone vote for you is a wonderful combination. I am generally trusting, as long as they do not lie to my trust and the feeling that there is someone to trust my thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams is great! 3. Respect I don't know a woman who likes this, someone to belittle her words so much as to lead to a complete lack of self-confidence. With respect comes trust. Respecting someone and getting respect is an amazing feeling. I think people need to respect others in order to gain respect for themselves. 4. Honesty It is difficult nowadays to find an honest person. Sometimes we come up with a little "white lie", but it leads to another, bigger and bigger, and things get more complicated and it becomes a big mess. Being honest isn't that hard, although for some people it is. Requiring a little honesty in your life isn't a big deal, is it? 5. Chocolate I have had many moments in my life when my life gets better with a little chocolate. Well, well with a lot of chocolate is even better! It's amazing how a little piece of chocolate can make you feel happy! It's good to always have someone to satisfy this little need! 6. Friendship There are different levels of friendship in a woman's life. Some friends are great to be around to make you laugh, others can be great listeners. There are also those where you can share even the smallest details of an event for which you need discretion and it will not be available to the whole city the next day. From my experience so far, as well as my girlfriends', I can say that women tend to make different types of friendships. This diversity gives us the opportunity to deal with the impermanence in our lives. 7. Love Who doesn't want love in their life? This can be the love of an adult, or a child, or even an animal. I'm happy when my dog greets me at the door with all the affection, of which it is capable. It shows its love in its own way, or at least loves feeding it twice a day and showing its attention. 8. Laughter In my opinion, laughter cures all diseases. I find that laughing a lot in your life is important and makes things look better. I don't know a woman who misses the opportunity to laugh freely. Most people prefer to laugh than to cry and burst into tears. I think it's easy for a woman to achieve it without the involvement of a man, but it's far more fun when someone else makes you laugh, isn't it? This is a list of 8 simple things that women want. that laughing a lot in your life is important and makes things look better. I don't know a woman who misses the opportunity to laugh freely. Most people prefer to laugh than to cry and burst into tears. I think it's easy for a woman to achieve it without the involvement of a man, but it's far more fun when someone else makes you laugh, isn't it? This is a list of 8 simple things that women want. that laughing a lot in your life is important and makes things look better. I don't know a woman who misses the opportunity to laugh freely. Most people prefer to laugh than to cry and burst into tears. I think it's easy for a woman to achieve it without the involvement of a man, but it's far more fun when someone else makes you laugh, isn't it? This is a list of 8 simple things that women want.
There are no universal recipes! If you meet a woman who is looking for exactly what you are able and willing to offer her, and she in turn offers you exactly what you long for, consider yourself lucky.
Oh, how they got a bunch here to explain that they want respect, love, laughter, understanding, support, blah, blah, blah, and in other stories they grumble about how they love someone who makes them into mats, but they are waiting for him to change hahaha
Security, that is, to be provided both financially and emotionally (you want men to be the stronger sex, but you do not want women to want money, there is no way for many many centuries it has been so man-strength-income, woman-beauty-fragility-tenderness-children ; To be honest, but not rude. To like her as she is and not to try to change her if you didn't like her as she is in the beginning. You should know that she will NOT change. To love her and to You show her that she is wanted at any moment, that kissing and embracing her even after her past passion has passed, women need that.
Number 11, and what do you offer in exchange for all of the above ??? I can only tell the author to run away and instantly from a woman with conditions. If a woman really loves you, she tries to make you feel good too. "Security" and "stability," as some predictably call material well-being, come naturally because they both strive for each other. Everything else is "I'm stupid, I'm lazy, but I'm a big deal otherwise, come on, support me all my life" :)))
Author. listen to your uncle and get those crazy questions out of your head. If, by chance, let's say number 8 is a woman and she can list these 8 things she described, as a necessity for cohabitation, if you start to fulfill them, believe me, at least 8 more things will immediately appear, which will be in cruel contradiction with the first 8 :) to your question "What do women want", the answer is EVERYTHING and since it is unattainable, the only thing I'm sure suits them as a person is someone who does not ask what women want by sniffing, but an individual who knows what he wants he himself and who knows that he does not need to understand women, but only to accept them as they are :)
Money! F 20
I was a pickle for 3 years, I was kind, romantic and good, my friends and family loved me and to this day I hear from my father and he calls me alabala. And he dumped me like that with the words I just want to see what's wrong with someone else and dumped me. tortures me punishes me and I will get away from her now, I tried to be friends, I'm still good with her she cuts me like I'm rubbish and I think I'll leave her and take the accessories I gave her, including the engagement ring. Because her girlfriends, with whom she became estranged after my separation, call her NOT DESERVING ANYTHING !!! And no matter how much I hope that we will be close again someday, I already understand that it can't happen and I stop and try. I have been with other women before and I came to the conclusion: Women do not know what they want, and if they want something and when they get it, it is not enough for them to look elsewhere. For them, love is a love affair, a thrill and this thrill as time passes and they meet a squirrel and feel something towards him, no matter how ugly, miserable, nasty, black, sweaty disgusting brazier thick or old man if he is going to throw himself like a fish dry. This is my opinion about women already, because no matter how many women I've tried, a man still can't please them! 27г. MAN!
A wise old man arrived in a village. He liked the place and stayed there. The old man loved the children very much and often gave them presents, but gave only fragile things. The children tried to treat their gifts with care, but they were often broken and upset. In time, the sage made them new gifts, even more fragile. One day his parents came to him: - You are wise and wish only the good of our children. But why do you give them such gifts? No matter how hard they try, they can't protect them. The gifts are wonderful, but they are impossible to play with. The old man smiled. "Time will pass and someone will give them his heart." Maybe this will teach them to treat priceless gifts carefully.
I'm a 33-year-old woman. Sometimes when I get something I wanted (or find the person I was looking for), I realize that's not exactly what I wanted. Maybe I imagined it in a different way ... For example: I want the man next to me to be confident. But I've been in contact with overconfident men, which repulses me. I'm a very sexy man who is a little worried when he approaches me, but not so worried as to turn the roles around - to have to be gentle with him to predispose him. I think it is important who likes what, whether you both look in the same direction, whether you like to do the same things (no one expects you to want to embroider, ie you do not have to have exactly the same hobbies, habits, preferences, but you still have to have points of contact, otherwise you will diverge in everyday life).
Trust, love and loyalty - this is what I hold and give in return. To the men who wrote the nonsense that women wanted everything, I will say that for one * everything * means one thing, for another - quite another. And these men will hardly ever have a wife with them for their own sake. Because it is obvious that they themselves do not intend to invest anything of themselves - for fear of asking for more. So that they don't wonder why he retaliates with the same. Love is just that - to give of yourself.
You ask your question very relatively. Every woman is different. We are not talking about pickles aged 13 to 16 (without being offended). I can't understand them myself: D Their generations are such that everyone thinks only about the number, money, parties, you remember;) There are few girls their age who want to meet the serious and be able to keep it. Personally, I go with a 24-year-old boy and I can safely say that he is the dream boy or what I always wanted. First of all, we talk to him for hours and share as friends, laugh, have fun and so on. Sometimes we are like small children, but this is a joke. He is always by my side when I need him, we shower him with compliments for no reason, we make him feel special and unique :) I trust him more than I have myself. Kind, good, understanding, what more could I want :) And as for you, you may not have met a woman who knows what she wants so far. Besides, you have to get to know her first to understand her, it's not easy, but don't think that it's easy for us to understand you either. With time and compromises, everyone gets used to the character of the other, still there are no perfect people :)) You just accept her as she is if you want to be with her, if not "I broke, throw and continue" !!
Number 15, you have no idea how right you are! Indeed, most women do not distinguish between falling in love and love. When they are in love, they will turn the world upside down because of you, but because the love is over and gradually passes one day, the woman says to herself: "I don't love him anymore". However, this is not love. Falling in love is a passion, it is an emotion in which the mind is practically absent. Sooner or later, however, sobriety occurs and if the woman does not accept the man as he is, then he is not able to truly love and does not know love. Such women fall in love passionately, madly, completely mad at a man, but after a while their relationship falls apart because the next level is not built, which is lasting and real - love.
What women want is a mystery to themselves. In the general case, they say one thing, think another, and do a third. Women don't know what they want, but they want it right away. That is why for us men our life is so complicated and full of problems. If women knew what they wanted, everything would be very easy, but ...
Women want men to know the answer to this question! : P
If you understand what women want, you can share it with everyone, you will become the most respected man in the world. The most interesting thing is that they themselves do not know what they want, they are always insecure, they always lack something or they are not very good .... This behavior is typical for 95% of women. You can see them in the malls, in the shops and in life ...
Love stares at money, so yes, they want love the most.
What do women want ... Almost all men's comments have seen the details, but have not indicated the exact answer and the consequence of it .. They want you to be like Santa Claus every day and your bag is bottomless (most comments are in this direction). If you ever show them your bottom there (the consequence if you give them everything) .... Women want to WANT. The moment they realize that they have nothing to ask for a read book. NEVER GIVE EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO A WOMAN so she has something to ask for.
They want ... I'm starting to laugh .... You must look like Brother Pete, have Berlusconi's money and fuck like a porn star ... more ... Have a three-story house with a pool (on the outskirts of Sofia) and a few cottages (one in Greece, the other in Italy and the third on the Black Sea coast, so that I don't forget that she is Bulgarian). Have you bought a stroller, like the Q7, or Cayenne, to make it easier for her to move around. You must have a butler and a maid so that you do not spoil your manicure while cleaning and do not smell of eating while cooking. Yes, you gave her two cards (Visa and MasterCard) to make it easier for her to go shopping. To be able to give birth to at least two children (if it is possible for someone else to wear them or by caesarean section so that the squirrel does not stretch), and to have something to manipulate you and not to think, that you can ever leave her. And when you fulfill all her wishes, she will catch 2 idiots from a chalga club, who will push her hard and she will find an excuse that they are not like you ... Good luck little one :)
there are only two types of women> powerful and submissive, the former like to crush their husbands but secretly dream of someone superior to them and crush, and the latter are crushed and used as secretly dreaming of dominating their husbands. In general, whatever you do, you should be aware that no matter how soft you are, you must be hard at times! And most of all, don't let a monkey make a fool of you because if a woman feels that she can play tricks on you in some form, this becomes her favorite activity.
You have no idea how much it made me laugh with number 26. Unpleasant and slightly cynical, but still true. Congratulations!
Thanks 28. I'm glad I made someone smile and others think. After all, this is the idea of helping the uneducated and exchanging thoughts with the knowledgeable. Some ask questions they are not mature enough to understand the answer to, while others know the answer and play the game because they like it. I write fairy tales about a reality show where women compete, how much more they can get and be what they have always dreamed of, giving their best and waiting for the story to become true ... yes but no ... Every story there is a beginning and an end. I wouldn't be a writer if I wrote a fairy tale, at the same time, I wouldn't be sure that the main character is suitable for the next fairy tale, so I have to replace her to have interest. Only grandmothers like series with the same artists. Life is a show and it can't be interesting if you use the same attributes. We are all children of nature and we remain so until death. Every child enjoys a new toy, and when he gets bored, we parents buy him a new one. God forbid, the neighbor's kid shows him his toy ... hahaha ... ours starts thinking how to take it from him secretly (no matter how much it costs). The eternal things are for the naive and the real ones, for those who can enjoy them until they run out and so on, until the beginning of the next story .... N26 ours begins to think how to take it from him secretly (no matter how much it costs). The eternal things are for the naive and the real ones, for those who can enjoy them until they run out and so on, until the beginning of the next story .... N26 ours begins to think how to take it from him secretly (no matter how much it costs). The eternal things are for the naive and the real ones, for those who can enjoy them until they run out and so on, until the beginning of the next story .... N26
It's not complicated at all every woman wants only attitude external beauty doesn't affect us who knows how much but inner this is what the real woman is looking for if money is looking for in you external beauty then she is not a real woman because the real woman doesn't want an object next to her to be beautiful and a rich man who loves some people have such a beautiful and rich man next to them but they have no love. Just be yourself, this is who you don't like, so it's not for you and when you meet the right woman she will accept you as you are and will be with you despite your shortcomings because no one is perfect and will be with you despite everything and everyone. So don't overdo it, don't think about it in time, it's coming ... Things that can help you behave kindly and be different from others and most of all have the confidence to keep your word, they like it, so they say before you prove something, think well because there are consequences ... So don't give up, everything will just be fine don't pretend to be like you don't be yourself in all cases and situations !!! GOOD LUCK!!
It's not complicated at all every woman wants only attitude external beauty doesn't affect us who knows how much but inner this is what the real woman is looking for if money is looking for in you external beauty then she is not a real woman because the real woman doesn't want an object next to her to be beautiful and a rich man who loves some people have such a beautiful and rich man next to them but they have no love. Just be yourself, this is who you don't like, so it's not for you and when you meet the right woman she will accept you as you are and will be with you despite your shortcomings because no one is perfect and will be with you despite everything and everyone. So don't overdo it, don't think about it in time, it's coming ... Things that can help you behave kindly and be different from others and most of all have the confidence to keep your word, they like it, so they say before you prove something, think well because there are consequences ... So don't give up, everything will just be fine don't pretend to be like you don't be yourself in all cases and situations !!! GOOD LUCK!!
You have come to the right conclusion - every woman wants and / or is looking for something different. The question is not what women want, but what kind of woman you want and what she wants. F 28 with two children
There was one such movie. The man went crazy when he learned what women really wanted. I want him to be good, to show me that I am the best and most beautiful girl for him, not to smoke and drink, to behave like a gentleman, to be intelligent, not to have been with a hundred girls before.
As a woman, I want the one I am in love with. What made me fall in love? I do not know. I have fallen in love three times in my life. All three men are very different from each other. I know wonderful people with many positive qualities that I respect with all my heart, but I have not fallen in love with any of them. There is no rationality here. I don't do bills. I am not interested in money, positions, appearance, etc. Only Love is important. I don't know what caused it. A man I'm not in love with doesn't stand a chance with me, no matter how wonderful he is, no matter what he does. Alpha, w. 26
I want attention, attitude and love