Hello, everyone. I want to ask you, what would you do if you listened to rock / metal, but you have to go to a wedding or a funeral of a close person, for example? That is, you can not miss or refuse. I preferred to ask here, where there are all sorts of different people, and not in some metal forum or group on Facebook, for more objective opinions. Thanks in advance to all who responded.
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What does a wedding or even more a funeral have to do with the style of music you listen to !? I guess you mean you can play other music that you don't like? You go to the event for the people, not for the music. You endure 1-2 hours and so much :)
I go to weddings of relatives, I can't refuse to be a part of a special day for a person I love and find important. Of course, there are songs at every wedding that I don't like. Good thing I don't go to weddings because of the music! When a song sounds that irritates me in every way, I just don't get up to dance. If at some point I get very nervous because I don't like loud music and a lot of people in one place, these are two stressors for me, I go out in the fresh air for 5 minutes and come back. And so far we haven't been played music at funerals, to be honest, I don't like music at all at such events.
I only thunder metal and rock on the columns, often until 6-7 in the morning, when I am alone in us and my neighbors knock me to stop. I am a sworn fan, I often go to concerts, I watch, etc. But! I have almost no friends like me, nor are ours like me. I can also have fun on chalga, strange as it may sound, I will not sit at home and go out anywhere. I've also been to rock bars, but I just rarely have anyone with me. Yes, it's true that I don't have as much fun at a disco as I did when I played my music, but still. Nothing will happen to you for an event, pay attention to the company you are with or just respect the person, that's what I do. For example, I would not go to a disco alone, but if the company is nice and I can abstract at least a little from the music, I have no problems: D
You serious? You're just saying that only Rammstein and "grandfather metal" (that's about the border) and the point will be listened to at the funeral or the wedding. :) :) :) Yes, I have your problems
Meaning? What are you going to do in this case?
Be more tailored! So when you listen to metal and what? How are you different from the others? Take some in your hands! Firstly, at a funeral I don't think that music will be your biggest problem and secondly, at a wedding - you listen to different music, you will listen to whatever they play. Ankle.
I don't understand what this has to do with going to a funeral? Funerals are generally not one of the noisiest events ... your problem is out of respect for the deceased to hear the priest sing for 10 minutes or what?
I just didn't understand what listening to rock and metal had to do with going to family events. Maybe you're worried that other types of music will be heard at the wedding? Well, you'll have to put up with it for a few hours. As for funerals and memorial services, no music is supposed to be listened to there at all, after all it is a mourning event, not a party. So I really understand what your problem is, to go to pay your last respects to a deceased relative.
If you ask this question, then you are still in your teens, when you are hell-bent, that this is the only real music and everything else is rubbish. I also wrinkled my nose if I had to go to a place where "righteous music" was not played, I considered the rest to be uneducated subhumans with bad taste, victims of commerce and other nonsense. Now such things arouse only laughter and regret. Otherwise, it is very easy to go to such events - you just go, sit quietly and that's it. Do not get so involved in the metal film, from the side it looks very ridiculous and creates the exact opposite of the desired effect.
What exactly is the connection between metal, rock, weddings and funerals ... I also listen to metal but I go to weddings and I also listen to a white rose and so on. I even get up to dance when I'm drunk enough. And there is no music at funerals as far as I know.
So, look - I have a ticket for a concert of a very, very favorite band, which I have been able to see and live for many years, so to speak, all my conscious life, but recently we received an invitation to a wedding of relatives of the stat. date. What would you do - what would you prefer? The author
If they are scoundrels, just stop corresponding with them !!!
What we would prefer to you will not work for you, it is different for everyone. Do what YOU choose and prefer.
12, try to combine both. I guess the concert is from 18:00 onwards and the wedding is during the day. You can go to one during the day, to the other - in the evening. In general, relatives are more important than one concert, but if they are not so close to you or you are not on very good terms, then you can choose the concert in case you cannot attend both. Another option is to go to the wedding and wait for the band to play again in the coming years or to go to another country where they will play (if you are 18). Many fans travel to other countries for concerts of favorite bands. Black Sabbath
15 - The band is Children Of Bodom, it is about their concert in Plovdiv on June 30 at the festival Hills Of Rock. And the wedding is on the 1st paternal cousin and just my choice is really very difficult and complicated. The author
16, I haven't been to a metal fest so far, so it's hard for me to give advice. If you can combine the two in some way, it will be best, even if you go to the wedding for a while, out of respect for your cousin, and then travel to Plovdiv (if you are not from there). Black Sabbath