So hello. My story is almost gone, but I'm asking for help because the others didn't help me. I'm a girl from a big city. Now I am 7th grade, ie 13 years old. Only two months have passed and I am starting to worry about these graduations. I know that if you have studied you have no problem, but just as much as I try, I only earn 4 and 5 as I have a white and a mat and some other six (we get a lot of grades to improve our success). I am heading to the high school of natural sciences and mathematics. I love biology. I like. In principle, I am an excellent student. My mother moved me from a very strict school, where they gave us a lot of homework and made us study a lot. I was an excellent student there for 6 years. I have many prizes and 1st places. But something changed when I moved (1 year ago, now I drive a second year in the new school). I started to get excited about boys and smoking. I started smoking myself not for myself, but to pretend to be a collar. But I really like the hookah. I have walked 4 times and it is very cool. I have wonderful friends. Please give me some advice. I forgot to add that I stopped smoking cigarettes two months ago and started them before 4. The hookah too. If you understand anything from my complicated story, please help. Please publish my story.
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First I want to tell you - calm down! The fact that you feel speaks well for you. Graduation exams shouldn't scare you so much, because they are made to be taken by all kinds of students - both smart and not so smart. If you study your lessons systematically and with understanding, you should not have a problem. If necessary, attend private lessons. It is good that you have stopped smoking, there is nothing good in them - you give money for something that is absolutely unnecessary and very harmful. Like you, I used to be in a company where everyone smoked, but I controlled myself. Let the others serve as an example for you - how not to behave. You can live your teenage years happily and without alcohol and cigarettes. It's good that you're analyzing your own behavior. Next year you will be in a new high school, you will find new friends and you will start to change. My advice is to control yourself and do only what you really want. And in general - read books (genres that you like) to enrich your vocabulary, talk to your mother like a friend, drink plenty of water, eat healthier, practice a favorite sport, take care of your appearance and do not intrigue. Don't forget to smile, your life will be great!
And can you tell me why your mother moved you?
Don't work so hard for school. It was created to discipline and make people think alike, without having their own opinion and without opposing, because this is the perfect working class. We've been wasting people in this prison for 12 years. You are currently in your prime and need to have fun because you will never get them back. And no, don't be guided by the thinking of the herd, this is the biggest nonsense and you will only lose. A truly intelligent person has his own opinion and is not influenced by others. And for smoking, he also doesn't do it at all. Of course, this is a personal choice, but you are deliberately harming not only your health but also your pocket. It's pointless, take care of yourself, your body, you don't need all this nonsense. After all, there are no positives in smoking, only negatives. Even if you think that somehow calms you down, believe me in time you will be even more nervous. There are much better ways to relax. DEBBY17
From the author to number 2. Well, move me, because it was very difficult in the school itself. Although I was an excellent student, I was always tired and did not have time to go out and spend more time with my family. Thanks for numbers 1 and 3
The problem is that your head is washed to be the first, that you are special, that you are the best, and the others are a mess, a herd ... In fact, you normalize yourself by getting rid of the mania for greatness. Stop the race, don't focus on the details and enjoy life.