Hello! For the first time in my life, I decide to write a post about my personal life. I am 27 years old. I have a high opinion of myself - of my intellect and personality and I dare say that I can learn from your mistakes ... in short: I had a relationship for 2 months, after which my friend infected me on the day he died the woman who raised me. I was out of my mind while she was dying - I was nervous, angry, I couldn't sleep, etc. It was quite hard, I was in love, but I was getting on his nerves, he left and I lost a very close person. I learned that you don't have to make people angry about a situation. Your helplessness is helplessness, as well as grief .... You save yourself, but it's still nice to have someone with you. But it passed. I met another person, much better in personality and character. It's been two months that I can safely say, that I was real and quite right: I respected his friends, I didn't expose him, I behaved well, I laughed, I enjoyed his company until the day came when he told me that he was emotionally "damaged" and could not feel feelings, I was showing him with each passing day how great a person I am, and he could not make me happy, respectively, he wants us to "end" our relationship. I was not angry. I reacted pretty well and I don't even feel guilty or guilty about anything. How do you see the situation ?? and he couldn't make me happy, so he wants us to "end" our relationship. I wasn't angry. I reacted pretty well and I don't even feel guilty or guilty about anything. How do you see the situation ?? and he couldn't make me happy, so he wants us to "end" our relationship. I wasn't angry. I reacted pretty well and I don't even feel guilty or guilty about anything. How do you see the situation ??
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He is very likely to be telling the truth. If he just wanted to get rid of you ... he would say something like that he needed time, or that he wasn't right for you, but to humiliate himself by admitting that he was hurt ... You, for two months with him, did you find out about his past, his childhood, his relationships, the things that are important to him. Are there no indications that he is "damaged"? - I know from experience that if it is, it will be obvious.
I'm sorry for the loved one you lost. As for you - I personally would not deal with a person like you. And as for your new friend or lover (whatever you call him), maybe you weren't nice to him either. That's why he left you. There are a lot of funny things like "I don't deserve you", "I'm not for you" ... "you're great, but I have the problem" ...
This is not a situation, but a system! If for short periods you show qualities that scare men and they run away, then something in your behavior is lame, pay attention to that! You may be the greatest beauty, but if you have an irritable character, no man will stay with you! More often the opposite happens, not to be very beautiful, but if you have a kind soul, every man will want your closeness! Unfortunately, there are no women with a good soul lately, so the number of single mothers is growing, why? In my opinion, misunderstood emancipation is ruining the lives of both women and men! And if that continues, the genders will win!
Well, if you are calm now and you are ok, you do not feel guilty, grumpy, as you write, what is your opinion? People meet and separate when they stop wanting to be together. As a person who considers himself intelligent, which you may have wanted to write because intelligence means otherwise, you should take it for granted and move on.
Men in Bulgaria are oligophrenic. They only want to fuck, if you behave normally you get bored. They do not fall in love. I have no words for the first example. To dump you in such a difficult moment, consider what a mold it is. I can't stand it, I don't compromise on anything and they crush me again and treat me badly. Men only want sex. You didn't mention if you did. Ahhh, there are some species who are desperate because they are not tied to sex, either because they are ugly, or because they do not, or because they are crazy. They are looking for a serious relationship. I don't tie ties for two months, because the cool playboys say, I'm only looking for sex, and I don't like ugly, fat and bald people. That's life. These women who are seriously engaged have no idea what compromises they make on a daily basis.
And why do you think you deserve to see your situation at all?
Up to 6. Because the idea of the site is to help each other. Not to pretend to be interesting.
By №1 - thanks, I also think he's telling the truth. I just wonder how I do everything the way I think is "corrected", if I can put it that way compared to the previous one .... Until №2 - You don't know me at all. There is no way to know, the heart and the feelings know their own. The expressions you wrote I did not use. By №3 - You're right. That is why I thought a lot and acted in a radically different way. A friend tells me that this time I just didn't really make a mistake, but I did, I quote: "wrong". (She never spares me anything. Even if she's rude.) To №4 - I meant I didn't feel bad that I was wrong somewhere, because this time I really know that my every move is judged by what happened to me. be before and real. To №5 - To you: think and observe. We women are much stronger, than we suppose. By №6 - Thank you for reading. I hope you do not "put on the shoes" of the people whose torments you consider unworthy. I wish you to be a better person in the future! Until №7 - Thank you. I am of the same opinion.
You're right, it's not good to get angry where they don't deserve it. But he also reacted too much, I can't believe he was so insulting, he rather found a reason for this / a truly complete manipulator /. The second is no different. He resorted to such an explanation because you did not give him a reason for anything else. You see, the problem is not in you and your behavior. You just haven't met the right person. These two definitely didn't deserve you.