At what age would you allow your child to move out to live alone? Regarding the fact that I have a child who in time will want to live alone, which is a natural course of events, for this purpose we have reserved one of our properties - an apartment for when he grows up. How do you proceed with your children? I have only one child and I have no experience with such a situation, and I am already thinking. Thanks.
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The law specifies it - at the age of 18! But it also depends on how he is brought up, if he is brought up and mature, he can live independently. And if the apartment you give him is in the same city where you live now, the transition will become quite smooth. There are children and at the age of 14 to live independently, they go to study in colleges, how do they manage on their own?
Not earlier than 18. Exception only in cases where he went to study at a high school or college in another city or country. It is good, when you move out, to provide him with housing at least for the first few years, until he gets back on his feet and starts to manage only with life and the household.
Depends on the "child"
When he finished high school, that is, to be 18 years old and to have completed his secondary education. Then he can easily find a job, as long as he has the desire. So I will be calm that I will cope. If necessary, I will help, of course, but we must know that he has taken his life in his hands. If the child wants to live alone, he must be responsible enough to make an effort to be truly independent. Otherwise, I have a great desire to finance higher education, and I have no problem helping other needs during the training. Since we are not from the capital, and there are more universities there, I guess that during this period the bird will fly out of the nest. After he graduates, he will be used to living away from his parents and I don't believe he will want to live with us. I think this transition is happening smoothly and somehow naturally, that's why I don't worry too much. In no case will I allow a minor to live alone. When he turns 18, he is an adult, he is responsible for his actions and it is assumed that it is not at all up to me where he will take.
At 16, as long as you have the financial means to support a 16-year-old outside the house.
First condition - to work. Second condition - to start paying a bill with money made (easiest phone / internet). Third condition - to be able to tie the month without pocket money: food, sports fees, the library,: D If he lives alone at your expense, the work is doomed. Growing up an apartment is a bad investment. It's the same as a country house for growing up. Will it be obligatory for him to live in this apartment? Independent living is most useful to start renting.