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When Feelings Die Down

By asy_asy September 11, 2020 2 answers Last updated September 11, 2020

It's sad. I'm sitting alone with a glass of wine in the dark. I met him 2 years ago in the hospital. He helped me and saved my life. I am grateful to him, otherwise I would not have been there anyway ... a series of health problems took me to him and this doctor-patient novel began in my mind. I'm so married and he's so divorced. I did not dare to cross the border and officially destroy my marriage. I wanted to divorce at the birth of the spark, but my husband was adamant that he would not divorce me. And so I continued with my husband, as roommates to this day. Today I went to his office and saw him. For the first time, I relaxed to joke, and he ... was so cold and I realized that for him I was just another patient passing through his office. Now I sit and drink wine, and my soul cries, but his confession that he feels special in my company meant nothing. .. I will probably not look for him anymore, and everyone will continue on their way. And my marriage? It is clear that this farce is over ...

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anklespankin answered · September 11, 2020

   You liked the doctor, and he didn't like you! Too bad this is unrequited love! And your marriage has already gone to the movies!

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torcidajovemdogalo answered · September 11, 2020

   Don't worry, darling, and my "farce" is over. There are only various unpleasant legal details ahead. This is life. I'm curious that he "wouldn't give you a divorce"? !! Wait, wait, it's not just the one who didn't get a divorce. No matter how shoddy our state is, it is still pretty free and NO ONE can force you to have a marriage. There are laws, if you want you will be free in a few months. And your doctor is not the first and last man on earth. There are many more (me, for example ;-)). Love is a hormonal imbalance, it comes or goes unexpectedly. Be healthy and attractive, and she will come, I promise you! Don't stay with a roommate. I did it - a very bad idea. Don't let them blackmail you - they wouldn't give you a divorce - ha ha ha. Egati kelesha ;-) Be calm, healthy, beautiful and everything will be fine. You are not alone, there are dozens of people like you! Cheers!