We discussed the topic with friends and I was interested in what you think, because I meet many different points of view. 1. Do you think that once a person is 18, it is too late? 2. And if he looks good and always has the opportunity to do so, but has refused, for a number of reasons, does that make him crazy and immature? 3. If a person has friends and a normal social life, but does not have a boyfriend under 18, is this a bad sign? 4. Should teenagers who have not yet had sex be complexed that they missed the "deadline"? PP - Please write your age and gender. Thanks! :)
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Hello. No, you don't have to worry about anything. You don't have to do anything because you're last in line, as they say, or just for the number. If you like one, act and hope it is mutual. Everything happens at the right time and with the right person.
I am an 18-year-old girl, this year I will turn 19. I haven't had a serious relationship, so I haven't had sex. Not due to lack of opportunities and candidates. I just haven't met anyone with whom I really want to do it, and if I get sick and get pregnant, I'm not ashamed to say who the baby is. I may choose too much, but personally I am, in principle, better alone than poorly accompanied. So even according to today's "society", I don't care if my term has expired. This is my body and I don't think anyone cares what I do or don't do with it.
I'm 21, a boy, and I'm still a virgin. _Ȍ◡Ȍ_ /
I just want to say that after 18-19 it becomes more difficult to meet people your age, to make many new and frequent acquaintances, especially if you are not a student leading to the so-called company - "gang". social and economic differences between us, it's harder for people to learn - what they are, where they come from, whether they are connected at all.Social life becomes as expensive as time and money and adjusting schedules and interests, it's more complicated than in adolescence Chobek is expected to have built a certain network and to be much more adaptable and "with flair" to the new people in life and everyday life, so hurry up, if possible without showing it to you.
I had lost my virginity at the age of 19 or 20, I can't remember anymore. At the time, I thought I was "late." I was bullied and complexed, now years later I find it funny how I thought. In general, I was not one of the coolest boys, but I was not crazy, I was just shy in front of female company, some girls liked me and things could happen when I was 16-17 years old, but out of shyness, lack of motivation and others. nonsense just didn't give me a chance. Teens should not be complicated by the fact that they are virgins. I got complex and that was wrong. I was just hurting my life thinking about it all the time. Don't get complicated and don't blame yourself for being a virgin - it's wrong.
1. Do you think that once a person is 18, it is too late? - No, I don't think so. I lost my virginity at 18 because I decided to. :) 2. And if he looks good and always has the opportunity to do it, but he refused, for a number of reasons, does that make him crazy and immature? - No, at least in my opinion, because I had the opportunity to do it earlier and I was ready, I just did not want to hurry. 3. If a person has friends and a normal social life, but does not have a boyfriend under 18, is this a bad sign? - It depends. If this person is constantly looking for a person next to him and his relationships are not permanent, there may be a problem in him (for example, with behavior); but if he has not been interested until then, he does not make him immature. But I think it's nice to have connections to gain experience, because when you're 25-26 and people push you for a family and you haven't had enough experience with relationships, you don't know what to do and how to develop your relationship. 4. Should teenagers who have not yet had sex be complexed that they missed the "deadline"? - NO! It's a personal choice, don't be guided by being "modern", just as they may make fun of you as a virgin, they may tell you that you are a whore because you listened to others. Live your life the way you want! Girl, 20 years old. so they can tell you that you are whores because you listened to others. Live your life the way you want! Girl, 20 years old. so they can tell you that you are whores because you listened to others. Live your life the way you want! Girl, 20 years old.
This is complete bullshit. My first boyfriend was also the first boy I slept with, and today my fiancé. I just wanted to wait, I did things I like, I had a lot of hobbies while I was a student, I developed myself. Guys I didn't care. One day I went out with my best friend to introduce me to my new boyfriend was a large company of 10-15 people. I liked one of the boys but we only went out a lot as friends almost a year later we left, but I had already decided that he was the man, we decided it was on my birthday. Our relationship has always been special in every way. But such things must be determined by everyone. When with whom, not just because all your girlfriends did it, you have to because you want it. For this there is no age, everything is a feeling. F 20
1. I think it is perfectly normal to have sex for the first time between the ages of 16-20. But even at 35, it's your job. 2. You are not crazy if you refuse. You are crazy if you do something under the influence of other people, because "that's right, it's time for you". Be a rebel, follow your own rules. 3. Optional. Perhaps it is an indication that this person does not know how to behave in a relationship and finds it harder to relax with the opposite sex. In any case, it is better to deal with a person without experience than with one who has had 100 failed relationships and his ex is still to blame. 4. There is no deadline, everyone decides for himself.
On the contrary, it is good that you did not lose your virginity when you were little with the first person you met. And what does it mean to be a bad sign? For what?
A man. I lost her at 35. It hurt a lot ...
I'm a man and at 26 I was stunned. It is neither painful nor shameful, nor do they point a finger at you as a virgin. The problems come later during sexual intercourse, when you are inexperienced and your hands tremble when you open the condom :) :) :)
And why is the topic not released in the children's section? Only a child can ask such questions, which means that it is not time for him to lose his virginity! Child, be calm, there is no time for that! When you find the right person, then do it! God, the world is going crazy!
When you turn 28 and there is no change yet, it will be a little late, but not much. Now it's not that it's too late, but you're in some 30-40% for example (only they don't admit it).