I ask everyone: do you always protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases? Does it matter if you do it with a casual, mistress or in a relationship? If it is in a relationship, how do you know when the time has come not to guard against disease? Just when you already trust yourself? Are you doing any research? Or do you karate on intuition? Or do you use a condom all the time just in case you don't want an unwanted pregnancy? A neighbor claims that he never did it with a condom, he had a lot of lovers before the divorce, and then he had casual sex with all kinds of women and only once in his life did he get a rash, and that was from the woman who most she expects little because she was the smartest and most educated of all.
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I usually use condoms because I don't drink contraceptives. It seems appropriate to me, with one bullet two rabbits. You both have protection against unwanted pregnancy and you also protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases / infections. I have not been with a man who wants us to use another method of contraception. Sometimes in a long and serious relationship I have sex without a condom. When we already know our partner, we feel at ease with each other, we trust each other and we do not worry about diseases or babies. Frankly, I don't have indiscriminate sex and I haven't had many partners at all. So far, I have not slept with a person with whom I have not been in a relationship and whose thinking and past I am not familiar with. I was not worried about infections, I had no indications for such and my examinations are going normally. However, no one is insured. Women can get an infection from the pool, and men often have no symptoms or they are late in time, so ... everything happens. I haven't asked anyone to take tests, but I guess every person who is interested is examined often enough.
Not using a condom for sex for 1 night or if you have many partners is like playing Russian roulette. That's why at the beginning of a new relationship I must use condoms. Let them be angry with me, let them grumble, but for me my health is most important! Well, when we become a couple, we have been together for a long time and we trust each other, then we no longer use condoms. I'm not worried about unwanted pregnancies because I was taking birth control pills, so it's never been a problem for me. And now I am in a long relationship and although we do not plan to become parents at the moment and it will not be so scary and we will raise him with love. So I've always taken care of my health and used condoms for at least the first few months of every relationship I've had. Luckily for me, I didn't have any illnesses or abortions, so I think I acted quite sensibly. In the end, a condom costs about BGN 1, and saves so many problems! So for me there is no room for hesitation.
I used to be very careful, he just fell for me from a woman who wants to be without. But then I started putting it that way, directly. Probably 70 percent of women have never even mentioned a condom ... which shouldn't be the case, but hey ... get a little wet and forget to think. But this is stupid. It is better to have peace of mind with new partners. Otherwise, in my opinion, one or another month is enough to trust someone, noooooo six months is the incubation period of most sexually transmitted diseases ... so much ... half a year is the golden mean. Brother.
a friend has a serious girlfriend of 9 years and fucked while he was with her with hundreds of whores without protection and it is not natural with her, but she loves him and does not know. one day he will not be able to conceive this girl from some sexually transmitted disease 100% and one day she will pay for his whore and stupidity, everything is paid for one day
Allowing myself to enter into such topics is more than a health interest. But when I read the answers and the questions, I also have a question. People, how old are you, are you a hundred young people and do you live up to two hundred? What are these tales, that for one, that for the second, that I don't know what kind of partner, when do you have time for such experiments? Don't you work, don't you have children, what are these contacts, that they were bisexual, that they were married, that they were in a relationship, that they were not in a relationship! And for diseases, you never know where it will come from. And diseases are not just due to an infection. When the body itself is not healthy, when for some reason the intimate part of a woman is strongly acidic, which can be due to many factors, then the man can be affected and vice versa. Sperm also has properties that, if compromised, can also cause a woman to become unwell. Therefore, to be faithful in the family, which is the best for a healthy intimate quality life, you still need efforts to avoid problems. This from me!
For a woman, the most appropriate age is after giving birth to children. For a man, it seems - too (unless he wants to infect his wife and become anointed ...).
"A neighbor claims that he never did it with a condom, he had a lot of lovers before the divorce, and then he had casual sex with all kinds of women and only once in his life did he get a rash, and that was from the woman who least expected because she was the smartest and most educated of all. " - very stupid thinking, even if this idiot does not get infected, he can become a carrier of the infection in other women. The good thing in this case is that such people only brag, without having real actions. It is no coincidence that he slapped the smart and educated woman, because he is a simpleton and no smart woman will deal with people like him.
I've absolutely always had sex with a condom. When my relationship became serious, my husband and I both took the Peace Test. Since then we have been having sex without a condom for 9 years.
№1 test your knowledge of sexually transmitted diseases in women and men. "Women can get an infection from a pool, and men often have no symptoms or they are late, so ... everything happens." It is often in women that there are often no symptoms because the vaginal canal is much wider than the urethra in men, so you women can get infected from the pool. In addition, you women have other secretions in the vagina, so your symptoms are delayed in time, not in men. If a man is infected with a venereal disease, he feels it after two or three days, and when women become infected, they continue to carry the infection for many days without any symptoms. Only when the infection reaches a later stage do women feel it, and by this time they have already infected the man or men if she has changed them more often. Don't pass on your shortcomings about infection (due to your anatomy) to men. A man will never be infected by a pool because his urethra is always closed. In addition, when urinating after sex, the man "washes" if something accidentally entered the beginning of the urethra. This is impossible for women because you have the infection deposited in your vagina and often after sex most women just wipe without taking an intimate shower, probably due to lack of conditions or laziness.
With a condom, when we live together it's different. I've tested myself quite often before I stop using a condom in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with playing it safe.
and don't beware if one of you is a whore and fucks everyone secretly from the other, but he seems to love you very much, there is never a guarantee for anything