Hello, I want to ask you how to proceed? How one day you wake up motivated, full of energy and meaning, and the next day you don't even want to get out of bed because "it just doesn't make sense." Where is the point of existing, of building, of making a career or a change in you, as the person who gave you a vision for the future, took off his towel and moved on without you. Is there for each person assigned another and fate to wait to bring you together. How much waste of time one person has to go through, leaving a part of yourself in the other each time, and in the end it turns out that you just wasted your time because it's all over. How to resist the need to shut yourself in and be just a walking shell, not giving anything to the other person, because he will leave, as everyone does. How to live without fear, to enjoy the good moments with someone without constantly thinking how this will end and you will suffer? Ah, the hole in the soul? How do you live with emptiness that weighs on top of everything? Is this love? To give and take, and finally to remain empty, with full hands? I will be happy for someone who has gone through something like this after the end, to share experience and hope that despite everything, there is light somewhere in the tunnel ..
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The fact that sometimes we can't do the right thing doesn't change the characteristics of love, it remains the most meaningful thing. I always see light, and if love is real, how exactly does one go through it? If you are forced to continue, you just do it.
There is no love, only interests, what they look like, what you have and what you can offer ... there comes a moment when the other person gets tired of what you are offering and starts looking elsewhere. If you will be the kindest, the most understanding, the most and the most ... you will still be abandoned at a certain moment. People like you need to become people like you so they don't suffer and look for reasons.
Off you overdo the whining.
Thank you for the wonderful description! I feel exactly in this perfectly described way. It is interesting for me to see the comments. When some time passes I will join again, I hope I found happiness.
Hello author, don't wait for many comments to be written to you, because your story, or more precisely the feelings you pour out, are real, but no one will understand them. Look now, if you had written about how you slept with your brother's wife or how many times you cheated, you would have received far more interest. Like you, I have asked myself many times and I have come to a conclusion. There are two types of people, one is the one who loves and the other is the one who allows to be loved. Some are those who feel, and others are those who think. I tried to be like the others, but I didn't achieve anything. Fate does not wait for her to send you the person assigned to you, he is not there. She does the balance, in short, as long as you're emotional, I don't think you'll find someone like you. It's just the cold in every relationship one is fucked and there is no real love. It's real when they love each other equally,
How do I continue? Years go by every time. I create a routine. Coffee every morning at 9 for example. Shower every night at 10 p.m. Routine brings you back to reality. Find a simple job. Something to do without any stress ... from those low-paid people who work with their hands. Mental health is more important than money. Put something lively and energetic on the spotifya, not depressing. Paint, if you can - it helps incredibly, if not - sew tapestries, learn how to make cakes ... things like that. The vacuum remains, but focusing on your happiness is a top priority.