I don't know what happened. I will say it quickly because I know that everyone will understand me quickly. When I met my boyfriend I was madly in love. I thought there would be no other, etc., but I met a boy super by chance and now I have a basis for comparison. One is super concerned about their appearance, while the other is not so much, but both are very beautiful in two different ways. One is 5 years younger than the other. Naturally, one of them is calmer, restrained, kind, kind, intelligent, looks with a gentle look and it is obvious that he is in love only by his look. He has a good job, is educated, mysteriously interesting. The other is doing dirty work and is gone for a long time. He's funny, he's cute, sex is great, but I can't talk to him the way I talk to the other. I'm confused. I don't know, they both have good and bad traits, I'm an angel here, sometimes a devil, sometimes I want something, sometimes I don't want it. Somewhat poor quality. I try to sift through what I think and feel and use my mind. My friend has made me cry many times, he has behaved unscrupulously, but I still think he loves me, despite everything and I can't imagine parting with him, but the other boy is so intelligent and we talk so nicely. I like to communicate with him. Please someone share your experience and advice would be grateful I like to communicate with him. Please someone share your experience and advice would be grateful I like to communicate with him. Please someone share your experience and advice would be grateful
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Everyone decides for themselves .... but obviously when you think that your friend is not suitable for you, then the negative qualities are more than the positive ones. Choose a person who will understand you, will listen to you, will be concerned about you. There is nothing more important than that. I tell you from experience, Before I, like you, hesitated between such a character, I chose the wrong one, over time I understood it ....
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Choose the more sedentary one, don't even think about it!
From the author: And when is it difficult to hurt the person you are with? Yes, the other has everything a man should have, but I'm used to my boyfriend and it's hard. And maybe I'll hold back, even though the temptation is great ... Number 1, who did you choose? Who was wrong? My friend made me cry many times, he treated me very badly, and I fool still hesitate, I know, I realize, but it's hard, it's hard ...
Injured again, something very Americanized our existence. Think about it, I think there are two of you injured. I think it's more profitable for you - with both, and at the same time you seem to be tormented - what if they feel the horns on their heads? It's best to catch another naive person to have a bigger base for comparison.
Naturally, one of them is calmer, restrained, kind, kind, intelligent, looks with a gentle look and it is obvious that he is in love only from his look, choose this one, you will be happier with him :)
There is no complete happiness, but everyone chooses with what / whom exactly to compromise .... And my grandmother used to say: be with the one who is madly in love with you ... and not with the one you are in love with! She was right .... but I didn't listen to her :)))))
And I hesitated exactly between the same types. I chose the "bad" boy. I am now with a 1 month old baby and for a moment I am not happy with this person, I feel abandoned and alone. I don't know if it will help you, but I think security is very important. Maybe it's not the habit that keeps you close to this person, namely because he is interesting and you don't know how your day will go with him. Whoever you choose, know that you will always miss the other, there is no way to mix them. Just choose and do not regret your choice.
Evalata № 5, it is very bad for a man not to know what he wants, not that women are men !!! and not that they know what they want !!! and then the others are to blame !!! edit nice people