Hi, I have a problem. Well, I'm in love with a boy, we've been dating for 9 months ... today it's 9 and today we broke up. We quarreled and I just told him that I can't do it anymore ... but all this happened because of his behavior ... The problem is the following, he treats me nicely, however, when he is with his friends and starts behaving badly. He gets rude, he insults me, but it's not always like that, it's more in the mood ... and I don't know what it's about ... but I'm terribly in love with him ... I'm right next to my ears, and yes you ask me what and I can't tell you. True, the boy is nice, but with this attitude ... My question is what to do ??? He has strong feelings for me (at least that's what he says, and I think so too ...) but why he behaves like that, I can't understand him, I can't ... I try, but I can't ... what to do? He just behaves terribly nice when he's in a normal state, I just melt past him, but when he's otherwise he just can't stand it. He insults me, behaves horribly, swells up ... I don't know what anymore, but I love him so much ... Please help me, give me advice, please ... Thank you in advance !!!
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Well, if your friend is behaving badly, then he is willing to do it and, obviously, this is his character, otherwise he would not do it, whether he is alone or in front of other people ... You say that he sees you ... what you talk?! One thing I know for sure: when you love someone, you are attentive to them ... yes, obviously he is, unfortunately, no matter how much you don't want to ... And you will decide what to do ...
I understand that you are very much in love, boy, but what is the point of being snowy after behaving in this way. When you truly love someone and have been together for so long, you have already known each other more or less, each trying to make the other happy, not hurt. No matter how strong a love is, when the other behaves in this way, being influenced by his friends, as a result of which you suffer only, it is better for you to part with such a person. It is better to suffer now from parting with him than from his eternal attitude towards you. What good is it when you're both to tell you how much he loves you and then to treat you badly in front of others? In my opinion, this is not love. Of course, everyone decides for himself. It's best to think things through, but I think that you made the right decision by breaking up with him. It hurts now, but time heals. It sounds pretty worn out, but it's true. Good luck and just look ahead! :)
I broke up with my boyfriend this morning for the same reason. He is very kind until he scrolls. We had a terrible time. And when I get bored, I remember the moments when he behaved badly. This will make it easier for me to experience it.