Hello! I am a girl in 10th grade and I entered a new school 2 years ago. In my last school I had no problem with communication, but now I am an outsider and I talk to 2-3 people in the class. They don't like me because I don't talk to them and that's why I'm "congested" for them. There is a large group in the class, which are the NDPs and go to parties and are all together, and I'm sick of not being able to fit. When one of the cool guys was put by the lady in physics to sit next to me, everyone started laughing and I said I was sorry for you. This made me very sad. I can't even look people in the eye (I don't know why). I don't know why they don't like me just because I'm quiet, but outside of school I talk a lot and calmly. Help me what to do :(
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Show confidence begins to read and you will see everything change! Speak loudly and strictly, you will leave the impression of a strong character.
Hello! Why don't you get one ... in mind. :) Such complex jerks "I love them the most". Have fun, don't care that they don't talk to you - it's for your own good. Do you want to communicate with such people? What is it for you to have any communication with such individuals? Think about it. What is your dawn? I understand from what is written that you are not delighted because you are not part of the "herd", but I do not understand what the problem is. You are the black sheep (in the best and coolest sense possible) as in the song of Agate - rejoice. There are all kinds of idiots in a teacher - these teenage years are both the coolest and you don't even know what's going on. : D I know that all this probably sounds super easy to you in words and I just throw advice left and right, but in fact only you know how you feel and what to do. But let the change, which she would do, whatever it was, to be for you and not for others, to be for you and not for others. Others can do whatever they want. So do you. :) Think about what you really want - to get closer to people you haven't seen a good relationship with? Or try to find other people, in other places, who are pleasant company for you? You can eat in the chair - the real complexes think that the "bison and the" blown "go there, but in fact hungry people go there - it's a chair. There you can probably meet rare individuals of the endangered species" normal teenagers ", with whom you can to find a common language. :) You can enroll in a club at school or dance, sport outside of school. Look for ways to find your people. Those in your class are obviously not your people. Don't make him try to pour water into the sea. I sincerely advise you not to sleep, be yourself - other roles do not make sense. ;) Good luck, darling! Enjoy the life! Alqska5