My question is to everyone (both men and women): When you go somewhere with your partner, say to mutual friends or when you go out with other people, both of you do not feel well, physically feel sick, or just is very tired and wants to go home, the other stays or you leave together - why and in what cases? Please indicate gender and age in the answers.
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In my humble opinion, it is to leave together. Moreover, if one of them gets sick, as in your case. It is unacceptable to be a couple and not show concern for each other. I personally do not understand how to one of his couple is ill, and the other leaves him to fend for himself and continues with the fun.
I'm a girl of 19, my boyfriend is 22. When we go out together - we go home together. It's not gentlemanly to go out with a lady and not take her home, I don't know couples who go home separately, but I'm sure there are some. My boyfriend and I only have personal time with friends, but if we go out together, we go home.
If it is at the beginning of the relationship, it is right to leave together. If you already have a year, two behind your back is not necessary, unless he is sick, because then it is foolish to dump him to take a shower while you have fun. Genesis 25
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We have been together for 8 years, there has been no case of leaving somewhere separately - it is simply not acceptable and it is not an option to leave your partner. If you want to have fun alone and you have more fun without him / her (the case where your partner is sick and you stay to have fun I will not comment at all), then what is the point of being together at all. F 34
My friend and I have been together for 4 years, we are 28 years old. I don't see a problem if one of them is dumb to leave. I myself have a much smaller need for social contacts than he does. He can stay with friends for 10 hours, I start to get bored much faster. I'm not going to rush him, I pick up my rags and go to sleep. In case either of you feels bad, it is mandatory to accompany him and help as much as you can. Not in other situations.
What are you blabbering on about? If you are a couple - of course yes! If you are just friends, or one of the two has to help someone else with something (for example, to bring a drunken colleague / friend home from the party) - then things change ... But for example, one of them leaves that he is asleep or it is bad for him, and the other to stay to dance and have fun (and God forbid he fishes with someone) - this is absolutely unacceptable ...
The only good option is to have friendly couples gathered in the block and for the women to fall asleep or get tired and let the men finish their drink for an hour or two. But to dump you to go home alone in a taxi, and for him to drink and dance in pubs - he's a pig! The same goes for the woman - if she frowns and leaves demonstratively, she speaks of a very bad attitude and country manners.
I'm twenty-four, my boyfriend is twenty-five. We go out often for dinner, a bar, a movie, a walk in the park, when we're just the two of us going home together, but if we're in company, I see no reason to take him home if I'm bored and he comes home. Also, if he goes to work first and I come later, he doesn't expect me to go home with him. It touches a person, someone breathes the foreign air, so as not to miss anything. I don't ask the questions "Where have you been?", "Who?", "Why?". Most people forget that the person they fell in love with was a separate person before they met him, continues to be a separate person after that and has his own needs and desires, even something quite ordinary, like going out to drink beer alone or a piece through the streets aimlessly.
G32, M41 For 7 years together. Whenever we see friends, we go at the same time if possible and leave together. Then one may decide that he wants to go through a store or go for coffee, and the other to go home. We also go out separately according to our needs.
Absolutely, if one person gets sick, no matter what stage of the relationship you are in and how long you are together, it is mandatory to go with him. This is human behavior. Not to have fun and have fun while the other handles himself. This is not moral in the least and is a sign of some great selfishness. Even if it is not something serious, and the person is just tired or does not feel like it, you still need to show understanding and care. After all, a guest, celebrating or going out is no more important than the other half.
A frivolous boyfriend of two months dumped me like that (it wasn't his first time) with a friend of his and I guess what happened. Then we even got angry ....
The rule is: you go together, you leave together. But every rule has its exceptions. We are older people - around 40. We have known each other for 20-25 years and more democratic relations have been established. It happened that I had some social commitment later and left my husband with the company in the restaurant, apologizing to the others and explaining what it was about. It also happened that he left because he was called by the company that there was an accident. I stay with our friends and then order a taxi. But we only do this in a close circle of friends. If we are in a more formal place, the principle is: we are very sorry, but we have to leave, have a good time!