I have written many times and my story has not been published, I hope this time to succeed. Hello! My heart and soul are broken, so I decided to share my grief with you! A 22-year-old girl I have a friend of 29 years. We have been together for almost 4 years. I love him and he at least thinks so to me .. The thing is that he cheats on me "virtually" I as a woman accept him personally. When he catches him in the act, he denies it to the last and finally admits that it is normal for him to write to other girls about sex, to have sex with them, he calls them "beautiful", "you are very sweet", etc. Because men you keep complaining that there were no decent women, they were all light, etc., for example, I don't write to men, but only to him, because I respect him, at least that's my thinking. I want to ask the male audience here, tell me do all men do it or is it just mine? Is it so hard to hold a woman by your side and respect her after she does? I am very sick when I catch him and see similar writings on his part, I have talked to him many times and each time empty promises that he will change. As for sex, we do it regularly and he is not deprived of it. So what would a man want, a young girl who loves him and cares for him, who does not cheat on him, who is one of the few girls nowadays. Why aren't these girls evaluated? So what would a man want, a young girl who loves him and cares for him, who does not cheat on him, who is one of the few girls nowadays. Why aren't these girls evaluated? So what would a man want, a young girl who loves him and cares for him, who does not cheat on him, who is one of the few girls nowadays. Why aren't these girls evaluated?
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Do not put all men under a common denominator. The reality is this - there is rubbish among men and women. There are valuables among both men and women. The factors for what kind of person you will come across are many - upbringing, the environment in which a person grew up, how social a person is and likes to be among people, luck, etc. I have a lot of friends, some of them are couples and are madly in love (we are talking about long-term relationships, as yours in this case - 4 years is not a short time). There are faithful men, there are faithful women, there are couples who do not cheat on each other, there are lovers who die for each other :) And one more thing: "As for sex, we do it regularly. IT IS NOT DEPRIVED OF IT" women perceive sex as something they give, as some kind of their own territory in which they decide who to let and who not. Sex is not a toy, some delicacy. Sex is not just giving, it is giving and receiving from both partners :)
Unfaithful men are with unfaithful women, so there is a large percentage of unfaithful men, so there is a large percentage of unfaithful women. In this sense, your question is incorrect.
There are faithful men, but they are few, just as faithful women are few. The good thing is that once you find a decent partner, you may no longer have to look.
No, not everyone does! I kept in touch from a distance and I didn't cheat, even though I could! I have been without sex for months, just to be faithful and pure to my conscience and to my beloved. However, there are people of all kinds who cheat even if the woman next to them loves them twice a day. I don't know, you obviously hit a man with a "defective" chip. A man
Here is a candid answer from a man. The faithful are very few. Both men and women! At some point, every man wants to sleep with a cool babe. Every man wants to melt into something nice, the pepper. Some are gripped and others are not. And do it and admit it. And who do you think goes to companions and masseuses, secretly from their halves. Women are the same, but with them, it's not just the appearance of the opposite sex.
Hello, I am a faithful man, has anyone been looking for me? :)
They are busy. As well as faithful and decent women.
Well, you just haven't found someone like you! And, admit it, you are tied to these same chatter and compliments with which you take down the others ...
My unfortunate is ABSOLUTELY the same, but I don't leave him to give it back.
He just hung up. Don't take it personally if it pays attention to you, gives you jewelry or flowers and takes you everywhere with it. If he thinks of children from you. If you are looking for an excuse to run away, do not justify yourself with it, act. If not, this is your man, trust him and don't dig, because for him this may be nothing, but if you continue in the same spirit, you can break even the most stable relationship. I have more to add, but some things are not for public debate. Good day.
You will apologize, but I will be direct. There are many punctual and loyal men, you just ignore them. You want to go with "players" someone who is dominant and interesting. And the fact that he sleeps with many women makes you even more aroused because you think that you will be able to cultivate him. Yes, but no. This porn fantasies of women. If he's a whore, he's a whore, don't think you'll make him love you. These are values and perceptions that man has. Sorry, but hardly, you will change it, for me this is not ok.
And what future do you expect with this man? Tomorrow is your daily routine, problems and children.
They are evaluated, but not by people like the one you are with at the moment. So, if you think that these chats have always been just chats or will be, you are wrong. I don't know why you're with such a person.
Where are the faithful men or women you wanted to write?
Whatever you are looking for, you find it.
Now it remains to say that you yourself do not use Facebook, Instagram, etc. to ask for compliments. Which women do you think he writes to? With the same as you, many of whom are also "bound" ... This is the so-called modern life. Today's man is narcissistic and constantly looks around to prove to himself that he is "still quoted." Otherwise, for truly faithful men - as you grow older and get to know / acknowledge your own nature, you will realize that they are not attractive to women. The man for a woman is a lower quality for them, because to be with only one, he is not a man. Many women revolve around really successful men. We need competition, we need drama and soap opera. When you accidentally hit a faithful man, he becomes boring. "Romantic love" cannot thrive in fidelity, but only in the drama of the pursuit of fidelity.
Well, here I am! In most cases we stay in a warm home ... Ah, let me ask - where are the faithful women, where is the true love and feelings, where is the respect and where is the meaning of creating a real, quality and family relationship .... One 27 years old man :)
That's why
To me, this is because you want the "bad guys" and the others are just your friends.
And I will ask you, are you a faithful and reasonable woman? Somehow I do not accept you to be faithful and honest. My intuition tells me this opinion of you.
21, bad guys want dumb muffins and mercantile women. Or very young people who believe that they will change the "bad boy" and will almost start eating from their hand. Normal women want a stable and settled man who can support a family. Not to wait for him, but to know that he can be their support. Be punctual, responsible and fun. The problem is that men roar about decent women, but when you come across one, you give up. Most of you secretly fantasize about the silicone dolls in question and envy the men they sleep with. I consider myself a normal and monogamous woman. I do not have a vision of a top model, but I am far from being discarded. As immodest as it sounds. I support myself, I don't wait for everything for the man and I am alone. Nor do I have any super high standards for the person next to me. Another issue is that we live in a time when fidelity is a difficult and rare thing between both sexes. But I am of the opinion that finding your man is entirely possible.
Author, if you are a masochist and you stand with this guy, what are all the men on the planet to blame for you? I'm a woman and I'll tell you this: he doesn't love you, that's more than certain, and not because he writes to different pussies, but because he lets you understand him, he sees that it hurts you, but it's in his business and he keeps doing what he likes. You didn't write to other men ... but write what you're waiting for. I have already registered in one or another dating site in your place, although Facebook is enough for you - lately it has become like in "Happy". Your friend doesn't show you respect, why should you show him that? And finally, I will write you a very wise thought, although not mine, it is good to hang it on the wall at home and reread it several times a day: "Do not go with the fool on the road - you are not ALONE,
Garbage is a person who does not love you, but continues the "relationship" with you, because at the moment he is so comfortable for a number of reasons. Of course, during this time, he does what he wants. Unfortunately, most people and men and women are - GARBAGE.