I came across this site by accident. I read a lot of stories and I really liked this way of mutual help. I decided to add my story too ... I'm 41. I was 28 when I got divorced, we didn't get along and our marriage ended quickly. I was left alone with a 3-year-old child. I devoted myself to her upbringing, I wanted to be an exemplary mother ... I achieved it, I already have a 16-year-old daughter, good-looking, smart, educated and I am happy with what I have achieved. But ... that's how I was left alone! What I want most is to have a family of my own. Unfortunately, men nowadays do not want to bear such responsibility, most are just looking for sex or good company. For 13 years I have never met a man who wants to stay with me for life. I don't miss suitors, but as soon as I feel that it's another flirtation "for pleasure" I leave. And time flies and already leaves visible traces on me. And I see no way out of this situation. Sometimes I think it's just destined for me to be alone and drown in my own loneliness ... who knows I'm tired of being alone now, that's it!
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You should not despair but continue to look for a suitable man. In your place I would try to have a relationship with some of the suitors - for pleasure, variety and a little self-confidence. May innocent flirtation turn into great and beautiful love. I wish you success with all my heart. Be happy.
Hello! I also agree with what was written 1, because although you think that any of your acquaintances is a simple flirtation, and I think that the great and beautiful love begins like that, so do not avoid this, because every moment is unique, as long as you can catch it and appreciate it accurately. I wish you luck and meet the person you dreamed of and who deserves to be happy with you ...
At 25 I am. I was 3 years old. with his former boyfriend. He only wanted sex. I started to confuse him and he left me. I met others. suitable after 3 years We were colleagues. We decided to have a wedding. We had a regular session until they operated on me for appendicitis and I got tired quickly. Now 5 weeks before the wedding he decided to dump me. He hid for two weeks, we finally talked but I didn't understand the reason. I am alone and I know what it is. It is very difficult and I no longer have the strength. I understand what it is. Flirting is only a short moment, but it is not for everyone
Nobody knows their luck! Keep looking. I am sure that you will meet the right one for you. I think God owes it to you after you have raised such a good daughter. DOESN'T HE SEE EVERYTHING !!!
In my opinion, you are looking for perfection .. there is no such thing :) I am 25 soon 26 years old .. there is no perfect person, there is a better or worse .. in this case we are interested in the better .. let us be more good :))))
I am 42, I raised a son of 20 and a daughter of 12. I finally met the right person who accepted my children as his / he has his /. Do not despair, look at dating sites, there are many decent and lonely men who are not just looking for fun. Also look more seriously at your suitors. How do you know that everyone is just looking for "flirting for pleasure"? He does not seek perfection, there are no princes on white horses. I guess you choose too much. SUCCESS!
Hello! You need to have more hope and happiness will come to you. And most importantly, do not get carried away looking for the prince on a white horse. It is only present in fairy tales to make reading more interesting. Look - he is somewhere around you, next to you, you just have to recognize him. And a piece of advice from a 59-year-old woman in love - look for the person with your social status, because no one will understand you better than him. The bachelor will want a child, the widower will tell you about diseases, and the divorce is your air and water. I wish you good luck.
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Hello, whoever you are (Hello, whoever you are), do not despair and do not refuse to wait until the providence for each person is fulfilled. Have true faith, hope and love and you will wait for your soulmate, despite the growing distrust, disbelief and impermanence ... What is more important is not what a person has managed to do, but what he really aspired to and what he really wanted to do. did, no matter how successful he was - of course this is important, but the first is the main thing. That is why "to whom more is given - more will be required of them" ..., and therefore who has good will, good humility and good patience - receives both the good reward and the good joy, even in the end! So everyone who has true, ie unhypocritical love will be saved, even if there is nothing else, and vice versa - even if someone has everything - but if there is no love - then there is nothing and he has not achieved anything ... And love means - to give - without necessarily expecting anything, not to take ... Because some give, but not because they just want to give, but because they want or expect to receive and take ... Is it (more) clear now or yes? :))) Always where, when and who has it - love is the meaning of all good and eternal - visible and invisible. Only it is the real reason to have us ..., and understanding this - we can and should keep it and multiply it, but also to be careful from whom to accept it and to whom to give it, unfortunately it will still be so for a while ... Hopefully more and more people will understand it and want it first in their souls. God - that is, the Creator of everything visible and invisible - to help and protect you in order to save yourself, and help others to be saved. Therefore, never despair, but rejoice! :) P. P. If you read it, even after so long - if you want write something
You wrote it very well, now your child is in 10th or 11th grade