Hello people! I want to share a problem, or rather a thought, that has been tormenting me for some time. There are probably many more who feel like me. I am an ordinary person with a very ordinary life. I'm 19, if that matters. I have great family and friends, I have fun, etc., but somehow I feel misunderstood. I constantly feel out of place; that I cannot find the place where I belong and where I will be truly happy; that there is not even one person who is like me and who has my interests (musical, etc.). There is actually such a person, but he is thousands of miles away from me. So ... I feel at a crossroads; I have discovered myself and what I am, I know where I want to be and what environment I want to be in, but I cannot find this desolate environment anywhere. I know that I'll probably find her sometime and somewhere, but I haven't yet. I just wanted to share my so-called sorrows: D and thank everyone who paid attention to read them. And for those who are in my position, I want them to know that sooner or later you will find where you belong. Don't think it's impossible. Search and you will find it.
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You are NOT the only darling! I have always been like that among people, I am always even more lonely and misunderstood than alone and I am looking for the right people to share, wonderful moments of pain, sadness, but the truth is I have come across hypocritical swindlers and sometimes I even feel more comfortable I am alone. I am beautiful, well-mannered and cool, I catch people's eyes, but people fail to grab me except for the family, which is the most important thing!
Can you give me some advice? If you ever get the opportunity to be in a different environment than the one you want to be. And if this other environment is good and it is clear that you will have a good life - do not enter this environment. Keep looking for yours and when you find it - settle there. Because otherwise you won't be as happy as I am. I dreamed of marrying a man who loves to travel and go fishing, for example, to be in nature. But I met a wonderful man who, after years of marriage, did not disappoint me - he is very kind, helps me in the household and loves me endlessly. BUT HE IS A DOMOSHAR, he doesn't like to travel at all. Then I married him because he is decent, but now I am not happy, because this is not my environment, this is not my life - to stay at home in winter, summer and autumn, and every day with him, of course. . I wish you success! :)
For nothing, and we thank you G, 16
You ask and you answer yourself. Most people probably ask this question in one form or another. They wonder if they should be with these friends, if they should be with this partner in life, if they should be at this job, if they should do this or that in their free time. There is no single answer. And life is everything that happens to us as we make plans for the future.