So, I am faced with the dilemma of where to go to live ... my parents are divorced and my mother went to live in another city with another man. If I go to her I have to change the school, friends and everything I'm used to, even though I have such a need ... I'm not very good at school, I don't have many friends there. I'm like an outsider there ... If I go to my father, I'll have to do the housework, we won't have enough money ... At the moment I live with my aunt, but my parents are constantly urging me to decide where to go. Please help :( From a girl of 14.
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I would choose the father. Think about who you are more comfortable living with.
His mother.
I would advise you to go to your mother if you get along better with her.
Go to your mother .. !! It's better for you. You are at the age when you need a mother. :)
I am in a similar situation, I live abroad with my mother and her new husband, I have to decide whether to stay here with my mother or to return to Bulgaria and live with my father. Think if you stay with your father you will have to take on more responsibilities and deprivations ... you will probably have to cook, clean. But if you change the city, the situation will be different and you will have to join :)
hello, it means better to your mother. You will use the opportunity to start from school. And make sure you are not an outsider this time :)
I would go to my father, but the choice is yours.
Mine are also divorced and I lived with my mother, but in this case I had no choice. I do not regret it, because it directed me to a good specialty, and with my father I would study a profession without a future ... If the choice is yours, the question is where you will feel best :)
and I am in such a situation. you need to consider where you feel best, where you will benefit more. my choice was my father, because I would be best with him. meaning that doing housework is not a problem for me. my father is fine with money and can afford a lot of things, and mom ... she lives with her boyfriend. they both already have a baby. they are not very good with money and I do not think that I and they will be happy. I would advise you to think very carefully. whatever your decision, they will not be angry. you will also go to see your parent on weekends and you will not lose touch