Hello, I am facing a dilemma and I want people who are not from my friendly environment to give their opinion. A 30-year-old man from a big city, Girl A. We had a relationship for several years. We love each other a lot, but I cheated on her and we broke up. A year later we met and she was the same, forgive me and she was with me again, even as friends. She is very good, loving and caring. He is always by my side when I need him and supports me in everything. He comes home, helps me cook, clean, tidy. Very responsive and loving and I know she loves me very much. And my family adores her. Now I'm pushing her away because I don't want to hurt her again. It is too tender and easily brittle. Girl B. I've known her for years and something happened between us recently. But a week later she was the next one who couldn't stand me and we broke up, but for a short time she wanted us to be together again. We did a few trips, but something is still wrong. Sometimes she is annoying and makes unpleasant comments, but I explain it by the fact that she is sincere in her relations with people. It is difficult to adjust our schedules and the most difficult thing is that she has a big child, a student already. I have told her before what irritates me in her and that I do not want to take care of another's child and take him to live with me. I want to watch my own one day. Advise me what to do.
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Definitely the first, sounds naughty, but a woman with a child, if nowhere
You sound like a big egoist, I'm sorry. And do you care what the two women want, huh? He cheats on the pickle and tells me he doesn't want someone else's child. I hope no woman falls for a man like you! If the latter prefers you to the child, I think what kind of product will it be and what kind of mother? Julian
Girl A.
So, if His Majesty chooses girl B, she will have to drive her child out into the street?
Well, I think the first one ... but I think it would be a mistake for her to get together with you. :)
My, you have already chosen - the woman with the child. :)
You give the answer to the question yourself, in the description of the second girl: ".... that I do NOT want to take care of another's child and take him to live with me."
I don't know whether to choose A, but in no case choose B. You have the right NOT to want another's child, but you have no right to separate a child from his mother! A mother - a child of her parents
Don't choose either. You are looking for a person with whom you can live well in time, know that even the best housewife, the most caring if you will, will fade, because it is not love. Leave them.
The first one doesn't happen ... no matter how much you loved her, you totally fucked her up, alone. She'd better let her be happy with someone else than bother you with whether you're going to cheat on her today or tomorrow. The second does not happen either. My father raised my brother from an 8-year-old pickle. He never divided us, never showed that he preferred one to the other. She helped him at school, helped him at university. My brother has always said that for him our father is his real father. So don't mess with this woman's life, she has enough problems already. Find with some idiot - not to catch you when you break her, and not very beautiful, so that she doesn't break you
These two were born on Black Friday. Which one will be lucky to get rid of is the question ...
You serious!? What do you expect the girl to do with the child !? Throw it somewhere !? Either you accept the child as your own, or you do not deal with girl B at all. They are in a set and a point. Estimate yourself, but for yourself, without issuing ultimatums. As for girl A .. if you have realized your mistake and you will not repeat it, then you could be with her with a clear conscience. If not, look for another girl.
Which one to choose? Boy, choosing a woman is not like not choosing whether to wear boxers or briefs in the morning! From what you have written, I understand that you do not want either of the two women - one was vulnerable, the other had a child ... if you loved them, you would accept them as they are! What do you expect - to cheat on the first woman and she will always forgive you, or the second woman to give her child to a foster family because you don't want him in your house? I'm sorry, but this is the truth, you don't love either of the two women and I think you should look for happiness elsewhere - with a woman with whom you will love each other! You are still young, from a big city, you will meet love, and I guess the women you are talking about now will also meet it, but in the face of other men! I wish you health and success!
Male, but you are a big user and lazy - you use your ex to clean and tidy you. I don't know why junk like you attracts women.
Both are not for you, you are not for both. Complete asynchronous.
Man - and you don't know what you want anymore! Regarding girl A. - continue to be only friends, as long as you hurt her more and do not give her new hopes, because she has such expectations as soon as she has swallowed everything and continues to help you! For a girl, B. will certainly not leave her child because of a selfish fool like you! In my opinion, the best option for you, as well as for the ladies, is either to be alone / for me personally this is the best option /, or to look for a girl V., without children, in whom to fall madly in love with her. to cheat on you, to see what's wrong with girl A. Come on in health and burn your brains! :)> М. 31г <
None. You deserve neither A nor B.
Neither. Leave them alone.
I'm sorry to have to tell you in plain text - I see that 15 more comments are waiting for approval before mine, but you're a liar who doesn't deserve either. "Girl C" is the most suitable for you, to hang yourself on your neck with "your" child, to run wild, to put your horns on you and to eat your steam. I wonder to these girls A and B how they haven't figured out what kind of mollusk they are, especially the one with the student - and you dare to call yourself a man, even from a big city. No aver, you are a small village trickster and if you know where in BG the word aver is used, you will know how big a city I am from - you are mistaken that a big city means a big job, a big job is in the upper chapter (bigger), and you think with the smaller one. Looking for "C" class, shiny, reliable, economical - "A" and "B"
If you want a girl C, choose ... just don't choose a girl B with the child, because if she is stupid enough and in love with you, she will abandon her child because of a mold like you ... there are many such cases. Go now and pour yourself cold water, and I hope you come to your senses and best leave them both! And don't forget .. there is a God and he watches .. he doesn't separate a child from his mother by giving ultimatums!
If you are hesitant between two, choose the second, if you really loved the first - you would not see another. Don't poison a good girl
First, you are not in a position to choose. Second, neither is so stupid as to choose you after such cracks. In both cases, you fucked yourself. Do you get it?
Have you already chosen an author? I wonder about the minds of these women. "A" - if someone cheats on me I will not look at him anymore, and "B" if I have a child and wants to leave him somewhere I will tell him to see a psychiatrist. "B" - that she will not choose you will not, but if you choose "A" think if you love her or want a maid. Because you can always rent one. I may ever accept infidelity, but I would not accept a man to consider whether he is with me or with another.
Neither. If you have hesitations, then you do not love either one strongly enough. True love strikes you, and in your head and bed there is no room for a person other than the one in your heart. Open your heart and allow yourself to truly love and be in love. Then you will not have any hesitation, if you want 10 women to pursue you. Life is too short to waste time in calculations and calculations, which would be better and which would not.
Neither of them deserves you. Take a doll and stop burdening undeserving girls.