Hello! How can we find out who our real friends really are! I have girlfriends, I share everything, but from time to time I get disappointed in them, they ignore me! I want to know how I can find out who I can trust and find out that he will never betray me ... I just don't know what to do anymore! Please share your opinions! With what actions we can understand who we can rely on and be our true friend, which nowadays is minimal .. Thank you!
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The one who doesn't look at your financial opportunities, doesn't oppress you, doesn't humiliate you when you have difficulties, doesn't make you a monkey because he wants to be liked by other clowns around him ... I can list a lot, but I will affect someone. A true friend shows understanding, criticizes when he worries about you, and when you hear him say that you have to take care of yourself, that no one needs to help you, he is able to pass on in the future. Hypocrites as much as you want
The only person who will not betray you and whom you can trust unconditionally is your mother. :)
A true friend would sacrifice even himself, not to mention his free time, for his friend. There is a very nice saying "a friend in need knows each other". Everyone is your "friend" when you are well (materially, power, success), but how many are when you fall to the bottom? From there, find out who your real friend is. I support №1.
True friendship survives over the years, so now you can't see who your true friends are. I have neglected my girlfriends as well as they have neglected me, but everyone has these moments, as long as it is most difficult for you to have them by your side. A true friend will support you even if you are on the other side of the world, a true friend would always understand you and will always tell you the truth no matter how painful. Thank you that I have such friends and I have always relied more on them than on Everyone else. And this for the mother I can not agree, not everyone feels his mother as a friend, for me in the most difficult period of puberty my mother was the number one enemy :). But fortunately now our relationship is friendly. Friendship must be earned and proven, it does not come just like that. There is no way to know in advance. You will get burned,
Your friends are the ones with whom, in addition to being pleasant, they also love and support you. They give you advice when you ask them, they don't criticize you, they show you your mistakes and keep your secrets.
In my 26 years, unfortunately I have been disappointed many times with "girlfriends" and to be honest, I no longer believe in the so-called female friendship. My mother has 3 girlfriends, with whom she has known since her school years, all three are very close, and they are now almost 60 years old :) Seeing them together, I forget that words like "malice", " envy '', '' hypocrisy '', '' betrayal '', etc. exist. True friends must be infinitely devoted to friendship. Dedicated to your friends, people with no second thoughts, open, people you can trust. Of course, in order to have a valuable friendship, you must also be what I have listed. Unfortunately, people who are worthwhile today are extremely rare.
... the definition of a true friend can be given by anyone, it is difficult to give examples ... in my opinion friendship is like love, strong and emotional, but it also runs out ... with age friends decrease and remain in the past .... no accidentally only for 2 comments was voted, because it is so .. ZARA
In my opinion, a friend is one who is ready to be with you when you need her, no matter what she is, and to give you her own time, whether you want to accept it. Judge for yourself how you treat your girlfriends, that you want them to treat you the same way. Another question is whether she wants you for a girlfriend or not. Usually, this is the case with me, I recognize people from the very beginning, when I find out that I have a valuable person in front of me, I talk about character and behavior, intelligence. These are qualities that immediately impress me, I choose my girlfriends like that, because with them, I can have common topics of conversation and interests. Then, I notice if he is a good person and if at some point, he would support me, or he would gently mend out of fear, or so as not to compromise himself personally. If he is ready to intercede, to be with me at such a time, so he's my friend. Of course, this is mutual, not only one can do it and the other cannot.
The one who shook your hand.
Bulgarians have a very good saying "a friend in need knows each other", the British also have it. She says everything. Until recently, I personally had not thought about real friends, I just believed that I had them. It so happened, however, that two of them, whom I considered perhaps the closest, and with whom we literally grew up together, stopped contacting me for absolutely no reason. With one we even live on the same street, about 30 meters from each other! There have always been users around me, but I always thought I could judge who I could count on and who I couldn't. Well, in those two cases, I've obviously been wrong for a long time. I'm not sorry that happened. Although late, I am glad that such people are no longer with me. I just wonder how you can be friends with someone for so long, and be very good, and decide tomorrow,
These are real friends who are by your side in difficult times and who do not want anything in return. Otherwise, there are many friends at the table, but they are from day to noon and usually run away when the benefits are over. A few years ago, I also got burned by one who claimed publicly how good a friend I was to him.
The real people next to you are the ones who will NEVER leave! :) PLEIADIAN
Well, it may be so, but if you have a real friend and if he killed him, they helped him because you can feel great, well, ideal, but how does he feel, you are happy to have real friends, but most of all think about him what's wrong with him, how is he, how are his feelings, have you ever said that you love them I have traitors in this life I haven't had real friends in my life what happened to me but they sit in me I haven't told anyone what I have I want just to be all alive and well, and to have at least one true friend, that's one thing, you have everything, I'm a 14-year-old boy from Ruse,, and one more thing, and when you find a friend on Facebook, on the net, games. , and he is great with you and after a while you say to yourself ”he is a real friend of mine and he decides to say everything that happens where he studies and other things, this is not Friendship but common .. Interests and can be done to another person what not, it's not nice to look for friends I've been past this and things have become hyper bad long story and without that I write from my body. If anyone wants anything or advice anything will help you and even if I don't know you
Friend ... This word means a person who holds on to you, always tells you the truth, supports you, helps you, loves you (most importantly). There is almost no friend in this world. If you know a lot of people, that doesn't mean they're all your friends. Only max 3-4 people will want you in their life. Guess the traitors by these signs: they come to you when they feel like it, they lie to you, they show off, they talk behind your back, hypocrisy ...
The one who is your friend is by your side whenever you need him, supports you, does not humiliate you in front of others, loves you, likes you as you are, never speaks behind your back and does not make fun of you, he is always interested in how you feel and always tries to be useful to you, he always shares with you, who has a problem to help him, because he knows that he can trust you, he is always ready to cry with you, he never lets go of your hand when you suffer he protects and loves you, he always respects you.
You can't be friends with everyone, but if you have friends with whom you can say anything, even the worst, after 5 minutes you are together again, then you are real friends ...! A friend with whom you can tell yourself everything and not be afraid of how he will react and be 100% sure that he would not criticize or humiliate you for something he did not approve of or is not interested in, because a true friend is almost always would neglect his own interest for your .....! My advice is to be on good terms with everyone, only you to know who your real friend is and to be broadly smiling for everyone, because some unique people you have and you have no idea how close they are to you deserve your wide smile !! Do not reveal your feelings yourself, but let your soul do it in a beautiful way ❤