Girl of 14. I had a "boyfriend". He was very handsome, smart, he treated me very well. We have known each other for 3/4 months. We left, but he lived in another country and we had to physically separate. The distance did not stop us from talking on the phone, video calls on Skype, and around the clock. I knew that his attention would gradually diminish, but I didn't know that he would suddenly stop taking an interest in me. Suddenly he stopped writing, calling, showing interest in me. About 2 weeks ago I logged in to his Facebook account to see if he was there, if he was posting, what was going on. I see that some girl shows quite a strong interest in him and I decide to see her profile. I see it's in a relationship with whom With a man with the same name and surname as my boy. It turns out that he created a second profile to connect with her. Quite unfortunate of him. Too bad or not - I take it quite hard. Without writing anything to him, I blocked him and lost him everywhere - Skype, Facebook, I blocked his number so that he could not contact me. Now my friends tell me that he writes to them all the time. He asks about me and makes them connect with me in some way. I know that he is rubbish and that there are probably 5 more such profiles, and that he may be tied to seven other girls, but the feelings I had for him were stronger than ever. The way he lied to me is brutal. Someone lie to me like that? I feel terrible. I pull away from all the boys, pretend to be inaccessible, and suddenly what? A knife in ... the heart ... I know I have to keep going. I know I can go on. But I don't know how to get on my feet. Depression had overwhelmed me. I stood up slightly, but the most difficult thing is ahead - to face the problem, that is, to "
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it's hard, forget it, forget it exists and find another smart, sweet and beautiful boy who won't betray you
Find another boy and don't care about him. Stop thinking about him. Upside down :)) There is life without it. C .... :))
I want you to know that you have to move on in life. At such a moment all your girlfriends or your closest friend should be with you, don't think about him, have fun, now your life begins. I believe it must hurt a lot. I hope I helped you at least a little.
I'm not at all familiar with love ... I won't give any good advice ... But there may be several versions of his deception ... Maybe the girls are his good friends ... You know how girls get engaged or marry for your best friends, maybe he did too ... that's absurd, nooo it may be true: D I think for now you have to wait for him to come back and talk in private ...
Forget it, but not by pretending to be inaccessible, but on the contrary! Flirt with the boys, find a friend. Go to parties with friends, have fun! The worst thing is to always start with depression, he wondered if he deserved to suffer from it. I do not think. So head forward and everyone will be OK. And how many times have they lied to me and right now I'm bad too, but it's been a long time and I've almost overcome it, except that my case is very different now! Success :) MP =)
I think the way he lied to you is just awful. I don't think it's worth failing because of this boy. But if I can advise you, then my advice would be to listen to what he has to say, and if you think that the way he justifies himself or whatever he says there is pathetic, I don't think it's worth it!
There are such moments in everyone's life. And those who do so. After such an act we feel ... underestimated, hurt and so on. No matter what happens, you need to know that life goes on. Whether it will be with this dude or with another, the fact is that life goes on. Don't get depressed. Go out with friends, in the park, play sports if you don't already. Find entertainment, this way you will forget it. About how to confront him. What do you have to face, he decided so, he did it. He realized later. Think about whether you would want such a person in your life.
Everyone in this life has the right to a second chance!