Why Are Men Prone To Infidelity?

   Rather, I think the opposite is true, women are ready for infidelity much more often than men! Men who love their halves try to provide them with everything they need, and about their shortcomings they try to overcome them and accept them as they are. The problem with this type of women is that they want the prince, and when they find him and he gives everything he is capable of, he becomes uninterested, some prefer to humiliate, reproach and harass her. This is my personal opinion.

   Both men and women cheat. Otherwise it can't.

   You made it great! Well done to your girlfriend! Now on to the subject - you will never trust this person again. His jealousy is dictated by the low self-esteem he has, and the latter may be a reason to try to prove that he is doing well. It is possible that he himself is one of the crushers and thinks that what he is willing to do, you can do. In any case, you cannot have a full-fledged relationship with a jealous person - a sufficient reason to leave him, because sooner or later you will get tired of the situation, which can only get worse if it has not gotten better so far. Why men cheat - not everyone is willing to do it. It depends. Besides, in case of infidelity, things are usually simpler for them - it's sex and nothing more. Infidelity in women is more complex in nature, although you can find such among them, who cheat on men ... But my experience shows that when there is love in a relationship, there is no cheating. It appears when love evaporates somewhere. It may hurt now, but it's better to hurt now, not later.

   Because, first of all, they never appreciate what they have, and it still seems to them that someone else's hen is a duck. Second, they think they are terribly smart and will be able to cover things up so that it is not understood. But of course always. And third, they think that even if it is understood, the woman is almost obliged to forgive them, because, you see, their nature was like that. Tell him in your eyes what you know, ask for an explanation and then - a jester and where to go. With lost trust, nothing can be built. To have thought.

   One falls in love and falls out of love, and this happens once every 3-4-5 years. What infidelities, what 5 levs? He loved her and was afraid of losing her - don't you think you're the big commodity and the others are worse than you? Or that another cannot love? You are very funny to me when you take a calf under the ox to look for it and make an elephant out of the fly ... What do you think that when you hear Mendelssohn or when the children are born, your heart will stop searching? Just stand and watch - time to pass! What you are now judging and "investigating" will come to your head, to see if it is easy. And because you are used to living in illusions and self-delusions, you will also feel "forced" to lie and hide ...

   Abe, number 1, don't you have any deviations? I didn't understand anything from your comment ... Horror. And as for the story - quite mean, I would say. That is, vile on the part of both - first the author puts a trap, then her lover falls into it. Author, what is the guarantee that he has not done this before? What is the guarantee that he is not just looking for a thrill? It sounds pretty crazy to me to accept an invitation to a meeting from a stranger who hasn't seen, etc., and to text her only after he doesn't even know her true identity. Well, that's what I call a complicated situation. But when you get caught up in the dance - hold on, let your girlfriend go on a date, let her see what happens. But whatever happens, the foundations of your relationship have been shaken and it seems to me that this is the beginning of the end ... I hope I'm wrong ... Good luck

   If he finds out first that you did such a trick to him, he may break up with you. Secondly, he hasn't cheated on you yet, rather the person is curious and I would do so without even thinking so much about the cheating :)

   Author, don't listen to the people who will take water out of 10 wells to justify their own weakness. Infidelity is up to the man, man or woman does not matter. There are men who do not cheat, they can just be happy with a woman who loves them. However, there is rubbish that tells you one thing and does something else behind your back. It's the same with women. For me, your friend has already cheated on you without even seeing her. He is not surprised by his behavior, there are many like him, I tell you like a man. It is not a problem for them to spend 100 women, but their partner must be faithful to them. Otherwise, there is no way to look tarikats in people's eyes. Nothing, drawing the line, their wives are far ahead of them, but that's another topic

   Honey, all men are like that. And now I will tell you ... the man is a hunter and this is embedded in his DNA, it is impossible when there is a woman next to him not to be interested in others ... absurd. In the beginning everything is a fairy tale and songs, but then the problems become :)

   I don't think that only men cheat, if you read this site enough you will know that women do too, we are all human and we make mistakes, the unknown, the foreign, what is not ours is always more desirable than what we have, maybe boring everyday life and lack of adventure help people to cheat.

   That's right, this person is not for you when he starts to break at the first opportunity. I am a man and I know that if it starts with infidelity by a man or a woman, the end is clear. In principle, men cheat more easily, but are also more inclined to repent. If a woman starts cheating in 99% of relationships and marriages, everything goes to the movies.

   First, going out to drink coffee with an unknown girl can not be called infidelity, sometimes a person needs to diversify their social contacts, to learn something new. This is also useful for your relationship. Secondly, when you set such traps for him, you obviously don't love him. A man who loves believes in the one next to him. Third, love is felt and is not questioned, if you don't feel it, then you don't love each other ...

   Why are you doing such dirty stories, interfering with your friends among you. An acquaintance of mine makes such filth and found it. She is alone now.

   It is very simple when the woman next to you is an annoying muffin, who is just wondering what to grumble about, sooner or later her husband gets tired of the constant grumbling, styles, etc. and is looking for something more interesting. Applies to married and just engaged men ... M32

   I don't think it's that simple. For a man it can only be sex, but for a family and a relationship he wants you. But in this case, he may be holding you to a safe option and looking for what else he can catch.

   From the author: In the end, he seemed worried that I might find out something and stopped picking up her phone when he realized that things were going to a meeting. I think to leave things like that, although in this case I am very pushed, but I lost my trust in him because even if he did not go to the meeting in question, he supported the flirtation and hid from me. As for the comments, thanks to someone mostly on the 9th and 3rd they read the most in the sense of the story, and I'm not a muffin, but a girl who has suffered a lot from this man and lost his whole social life just to please of the person in question. And now how I want to shout at him that I know but I can't because he will dig and he will understand what the girl is, he will understand my relationship with her and bad for her and for me too. The bad news, however, is that I lost my trust in a person I trusted ...

   M32, you've obviously never been bound at all.

   "And the BOOM - the unexpected happened" ... I don't know whether to laugh or to wonder at the stupidity of women. Who makes you pull the devil by the tail. It is well known that women do not think adequately, do not act logically, do not think rationally and out of sheer curiosity, they will do some nonsense from which there is no going back. Of all the plays you've put on, only you are the loser. Your friend may be fine, but you want to put him in a situation to understand how important you are to him (complete nonsense). You will hardly understand. If your friend is a man, the relationship is over after he finds out what scenarios you are creating for him. If it happens to be a mold, and stays with you (despite the situation you created), congratulations to the mold, which you will never respect. There are no perfect people, nor are you perfect ... Perfection is only an aspiration. You say you're 25 and you feel mature. First, you are not the age of a mature woman, nor his age of a mature man. Mature people do not create such nonsense, do not ask questions to which the answer will be a lie and hold on to attitude and respect (the priority is you), and everything else is irrelevant. The other thing that is lame in the whole story is that I don't care if there is a man who will hide with the phone because of a woman who has no idea what she looks like (too naive). From the whole story you told, I can only feel sorry for you. Spying on the person you live with is base. Who do you think you are - unique and unique ... there is no such animal or if there is, it is an illusion of people like you who are not up to date with life. to which the answer will be a lie and hold on to attitude and respect (the priority is you), and everything else is irrelevant. The other thing that is lame in the whole story is that I don't care if there is a man who will hide with the phone because of a woman who has no idea what she looks like (too naive). From the whole story you told, I can only feel sorry for you. Spying on the person you live with is base. Who do you think you are - unique and unique ... there is no such animal or if there is, it is an illusion of people like you who are not up to date with life. to which the answer will be a lie and hold on to attitude and respect (the priority is you), and everything else is irrelevant. The other thing that is lame in the whole story is that I don't care if there is a man who will hide with the phone because of a woman who has no idea what she looks like (too naive). From the whole story you told, I can only feel sorry for you. Spying on the person you live with is base. Who do you think you are - unique and unique ... there is no such animal or if there is, it is an illusion of people like you who are not up to date with life. which you have exposed, I can only feel sorry for you. Spying on the person you live with is base. Who do you think you are - unique and unique ... there is no such animal or if there is, it is an illusion of people like you who are not up to date with life. which you have exposed, I can only feel sorry for you. Spying on the person you live with is base. Who do you think you are - unique and unique ... there is no such animal or if there is, it is an illusion of people like you who are not up to date with life.

   you write that you are not children, but you are doing exactly children's numbers

   What if your girlfriend falls in love with him and keeps calling him and texting him, what will you do then? Girl, you're playing fire. This is a double-edged sword. Then you may be terribly sorry for this act of yours. You get into movies on your own. You hurt yourself with the nonsense you do. You push him to infidelity yourself, you help him, don't you understand that ??? What kind of nonsense are you doing? This behavior does not suit a 25-year-old woman. You push men to infidelity yourself, and then roar - Why did you do it ...

   imagine, they both liked each other, the service you wanted from your girlfriend was a chance for her, all the work was left dry,

   Although I'm a girl, I think you acted very mean. His potential infidelity is not to be ignored, but do you think that playing with him like that is acceptable? And as for who cheats more - men or women - I think it depends more on a person's character and values, not on gender. F20

   Girl, no traps are set! If you go to watch yourself, you will get caught! When you love someone, just love them and don't look for a calf under the ox. Such situations only strain the relationship. You liked certain comments because they are exported to you, not because they are real. Remember from patilo-old, this connection is exhausted, and when you catch someone already thinking with his head and try to think like him, ie not to be a shadow of someone, but when there is a situation try to anticipate it - without to set traps and prevent it. Good luck with the next one - this is a beaten cause already, now his self-confidence will force you to separate - You pushed him towards him, you poured it for him!

   19, and mature people also write competently, NOT like you, merged. How can you NOT KNOW that the negative particle is always separate from the verb! ?? It's just funny and unfortunate to read morals and teach by writing so ILLITERATE (it's merged because it's not a verb!). She can do the trick for him, but he doesn't fall below ...

   Just accept that men go abroad to scratch their scabies and boost their self-esteem, it's called instinct and has nothing to do with love. After two years of relationship, no matter how nice, beautiful and giving in bed you are tired of him, you are tired and your man wants to fuck something new. This has nothing to do with love, because if there is an opportunity, he will draw a three-letter book for your girlfriend, but he will not love her. He will not become emotionally attached, he will use it as a urinal to quench his lustful passions and nothing more.

   19, * staging * shows how much men can be trusted. The author only won - she needed someone who was ready at the moment to respond to the one she underwent. This is no man. It could not be her friend, but another she didn't know about at all. The losers are just such fools as descriptions, because they drop the tame to chase the wild, and then roar. But late. And when you advise women not to think of themselves as unique and unique, answer me why do you roar when they cheat on you? Don't you think of yourself as unique and unrepeatable ?!

   19, you shout, he is hiding about sports. It doesn't matter to me that she doesn't hide as a student. His man's work. It is low to be watched, but it is not low to hide. If you don't do anything wrong, what are you hiding, Janam?

   From the author: Hey, you just ruined me with criticism, most of you, and did you think that in order to get to the point of trying it, obviously there was reason to doubt, I do not want to be with a person who will it restricts me from going to have coffee with a friend, and for him to spin it as he pleases, without even being able to catch it and deceive himself with false fidelity. I hope you never get into this situation. I also think it's a mean act, I'm not proud of her, but I realized what a hypocrite she is… .. Don't do anything because I told her to stop looking for him, in a week his curiosity will prevail and his words how much he was afraid of losing me, they would lose their meaning.

   For the same reason that women are prone to infidelity!

   Author, I'm number 9 and as I told you before, don't listen to what people are saying to you. You may not have done very well, but the mean act is his own. Your friend is obviously the typical country character, without taking offense. I'm also quite jealous and I admit it, but I've never limited my girlfriends to anything. Of course, a woman should be able to see friends, go back and forth, and so on.

   Number 31! Are you a man or an onion head. Don't be a mutated species with female inclinations. What girlfriends and what coffees. What freedom are you talking about. He was jealous. If you were jealous you would see your horns, but you don't see them. The woman should not be given any time, otherwise if she starts thinking, she will invent some nonsense, and the first is how to put your horns ... Tomorrow my dear friends will start pouring water on me ... Well, why do you get up early to make him coffee. Why do you give him blowjobs and take him anal, as he cares. Why only you lead and pick up the children from the kindergarten. Why do you go to work, can't you not work .... Safe from Mutants. What if he goes to his friends, who will cook and clean ... who will serve me the salad and pour me brandy. There may be girlfriends but meetings only at home, they are under my watch, I can even be democratic, by letting one of them participate in the sexual growth of mine. It seems that there are almost no real men left in this country, but mutants like you predominate, who cover up their weaknesses with some kind of democracy. There is no democracy in the family. The man is the boss, and everyone else should be like "Ginko Pruzhinko".

   32, you speak in the very past tense. You will, but now most of all to ask for a springy initial without the possibility of return. He was a real man! Laughter. And in more advanced countries, you can bring a court of law with your sexist statements and efforts to restrict women. Put up with the fact that you can't control women and that's it. With or without control, if you decide, your horns will fall. In most cases, even closely monitored and controlled women make fun of the * controlling * men.

   He gave up on your girlfriend just because she became very cheeky with the constant ringing and saw that it would cause him a lot of trouble. However, if she was discreet, she would be very happy. Listen to those who tell you that this is NOT normal and NOT all men are like that. This is a soft man without values ​​and absolutely incapable of love.

   From 31 to 32 Dude, if you think that by restricting your wife she can't cheat on you, you're wrong. How do you know what she's doing while you're at work ??? You don't think he's thinking of making you a salad tonight. Hey, thugs like you have the most fucking women

   Author, well done for revealing it, and I'm sorry you ended up lying. I'm like you too. My man and I have been together for 4 years. At one point I started to be jealous of him, I can't remember why, but I felt something ... And I was right. At any convenient moment, she downloaded each one on Facebook. Later I found out that he also went to the cafe and cheated on me. It's been a month since I found out. I wanted to break up, he didn't. I told him ok, I'm staying, but to see for yourself that there's just no point in continuing. I'm still with him, but I can barely stand it. I understand that I don't own it, but the fact that he put it on someone else while I was thinking about him all the good things is awful, I can't describe it. I'm tired of men, really. I have the feeling that everyone is like that. I don't want to trust anyone. And I can't anymore. But I'll give it back to mine :) Or not me .. life will give it back to him! I wonder if I already love him or hate him. It's hard to explain in a comment or post how I feel. It is very difficult for me to understand what I want. We don't get along with him, very often I can't stand him, especially myself that I put up with him humiliating me. And why I continue to be with him - I have the feeling that later I will regret that I left him. I want someone to come and tell me: come out alone, you will have a happy marriage with someone, nice and good children. I have the feeling that I will not find another. :( Oh, not that I'm ugly! On the contrary, I'm liked .. but I don't have a gram of self-confidence .. I want to be naughty! that I tolerate him humiliating me. And why I continue to be with him - I have the feeling that later I will regret that I left him. I want someone to come and tell me: come out alone, you will have a happy marriage with someone, nice and good children. I have the feeling that I will not find another. :( Oh, not that I'm ugly! On the contrary, I'm liked .. but I don't have a gram of self-confidence .. I want to be naughty! that I tolerate him humiliating me. And why I continue to be with him - I have the feeling that later I will regret that I left him. I want someone to come and tell me: go out alone, you will have a happy marriage with someone, nice and good children. I have the feeling that I will not find another. :( Oh, not that I'm ugly! On the contrary, I'm liked .. but I don't have a gram of self-confidence .. I want to be naughty!

   (36, 31) My comment was a kind of joke in which I set out the motto of the Balkan subject to the family. Kind of provocation to provoke comments. In general, however, the same motto is still the most successful option for the existence of a family. Emancipation and democracy ... complete nonsense. Imagine a company without a director, without bosses and subordinates. There are no rules, no discipline. Everyone determines their own salary, according to the contribution they believe they have made. The effect will be catastrophic bankruptcy. Another example in the field of sports. Football club with two coaches with equal rights. If the status quo is maintained, then the football club is doomed to fall into a lower group. Equality in the family does not lead to success but to its destruction. Isn't there a leading figure (whether in society or in the family) everything is doomed ... Infidelity is embedded in us at the moment we are born and it is built on the basis that man is created to develop and want more than he has. Only the fear of losing what we have built and the unknown future makes us stick to some framework. Eternal love and the only one and unique are tales from 1001 nights ... About the author and her topic: Another muffin, which out of stupidity creates a problem, for which the way out is a flight to the planet of monkeys with a one-way ticket ... Since the topics include people of all ages and different matures, what I have written will not be understood by teenagers or immature people (believers in fairy tales and ideals) but only by people who ask questions and look for answers. , based on logic, experience and the influence of the society that surrounds us.

   From 31, 36 to 38 Even so, I don't particularly agree with you. A woman, if she wants to cheat, will always do so, whether her husband is the last mold or the biggest tyrant in the house. Well, in the second case it will probably be much harder for her, but that won't stop her. As for the need for a leading figure in the family, I think things are quite distorted again. Of course, in some areas one is more active and in others the other. However, for the man to come forward and declare himself chief is quite foolish. I don't like someone doing something for me under duress, interest or something like that.

   I am a woman and at the moment scary women are dragging rubbish on the streets, ruining relationships and marriages. And they change whole destinies - of their husbands, of their lovers, and very often others besides children burn around them. It's scary - emancipation another time.

   I agree with 40 .. How can there be such women ?? !? !! I'm a woman too!