I am a 28 year old woman. An acquaintance and I have long agreed to go to a disco. I wanted him to be in company, not just the two of us. I have no special relationship with him, and I think that a disco is more fun in company. Anyway ... we didn't get organized, everyone was somewhere and we decided to go together. I just wanted to go out and be distracted, it was Saturday night. We went to a bar, then to a disco. He was more distant in the bar, I was dancing. At the disco, I started to play a little. I danced with him, but avoided his gaze. We were quite close, I did not feel any attraction and no physical attraction. Otherwise it is very beautiful and maintained. I suggested he leave at 4 o'clock. Before I took a taxi, he asked to kiss me, but I refused. I said something like ... I want to be here and I smiled ... As you know, I don't suffer from it, nor do I think of him, in fact I am even in love with another, but things do not work out with him. If this man likes me, why don't you call me the next day? Do you think he only wanted sex? Men have become hellishly passive. Apart from offering a kiss and sex, they rarely take the initiative for anything more. Yes, in this case there was no thrill for me. What if he had ... if he was very attracted to me and I had slept with him ... would he still behave like that. I really wonder why men are so passive nowadays ... if he was very attracted to me and I had slept with him ... would he still behave like that. I really wonder why men are so passive nowadays ... if he was very attracted to me and I had slept with him ... would he still behave like that. I really wonder why men are so passive nowadays ...
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When you go out alone with a man in bars and discos, it is normal for him to think that you can like him and try with you. He didn't look for you in the morning because you pulled away when he tried to kiss you and thought it would be cheeky of him to look for you in the morning. In this case, it was good for him to write to you or call and say - I like you, but I don't think anything will happen between us, but we can remain friends.
Maybe he didn't like you. Or be ashamed of it. You should know, men are not that difficult to figure out.
And what if they are passive? And you're too passive, which is disgusting, then you wonder what they're using you for. You hinted to him that you didn't want to go deeper, and it became very clear to him. And you can't write him a message so much that you're interested in him? Is it a great sorrow? Or are you afraid of responsibility and prefer to wait for everyone to write to you at any time? You women have become too slimy, and we need to send you to the barracks.
Why don't you take the initiative? I don't see any problem. Recently, you started with stereotypes again, I can't stand such similarities of women.
I have no words! You are a very naughty person and I sincerely feel sorry for the people you are in contact with. Why do you want him to look for you when you don't like him? Do you really want to scratch your ego by cutting it off again? Don't you wonder what it's like to be on the other side? "If this man likes me, why doesn't he look for me the next day?" "Yes, in this case there was no thrill for me. What if there was ... if he was very attracted to me and I had slept with him ... ”If there was a thrill, then your behavior would be different, he would notice it and look for you again. In this case, you were extremely clear, he understood that there is no thrill in you and nothing will happen, so he is not looking for you. What can't you understand so much? If you are such an egocentric person that you want to have someone who constantly offers and prays to you, and you cut him and you feel good,
You've been pulling on him all night, and in the end why didn't he insist? Are you honest? You don't want anything, do you? The man obviously likes you, you just want to run after you. That's pretty low ... I'm a woman, if you're wondering, 25.
Only a young and naive boy or a total beta would look for a girl after such an event ...
Now if you ask for his attention, you cut him off and he, as a gentleman, has stopped being impudent, I think you're just looking for attention.
He didn't like you enough to bother with anything more.
You both cut it and he didn't look for you ... Well, you know what you want
Well, what do you want ... you tell him no ... he still wants to look for you ... what are you up to? Do you want him to pray to you ... it is very clear that he felt awkward from what you told him ... why should he look for you ... what is the point, you have shown disinterest ... what do you expect ...?
You generally cut it into all sorts of paragraphs and show a total lack of interest, but then you wonder why he didn't look for you? Either you have to be rarely stupid or it's a pure troll subject.
I feel like they will pour you with the big ladle :) and it will be right :)
So when you pulled away, what did you expect?
A boring, hollow story. Like the participants in it ... She wasn't interested in whether she would call. You don't seem to know what you want from him, do you? That was a rhetorical question, don't worry. Did he want sex. No, he is fascinated by your beautiful soul and the depth of your character, do you dig. Very clearly this is what he wanted from you. Because you have nothing else to offer. No one has to pump up your self-esteem. And you wait 3-4 years and it will become less and less common for someone to deal with you. Then you will have to shout "how passive men are". To light you up, not to release such pubertal topics anymore - we are not passive. it's just that some women don't deserve the slightest effort. Congratulations to those who accidentally confessed.
Because for men, unlike women, NO means NO. And he's obviously a dude you don't deserve at all, because you don't know what you want.
"I can feel how they will pour you with the big ladle :) and he will be right :)" "Please? Who are the ones who will pour? Will there be dinner? I don't understand!
The author, for a woman of 28, how can I say it - naive, if I use another word you will be offended. And for you, the story is "Both hurts and itches." If you have no attraction to this person, you are not in love, you do not want sex - according to your writing, what is it for you? To pump up your confidence at his expense? For the reserve, as things do not go with the other? Doesn't it cross your mind that he also has dignity and is not a toy in your hands? It really must be the last way to look for someone who cut it off. There are other women besides you that are more attractive if you haven't noticed. Get used to it, the world does not revolve around you. And as the years go by, there will be less and less people wanting your attention. The men are like that, knocking on the door that opened for them, they are with her. What to waste time with others? He must be completely in love to insist and with this I do not see such indications. Did men want sex? And what do women want? And what do they offer? The same, but in order to play, they must first play the inaccessible, very important ones, honor their pride, etc. The banal game, as old as the world. Yes, but smarter men don't play, at least not with every muffin who doesn't know when they want it. They are passive with people like you and rightly so. With women who deserve to be very accurate even. We are talking, of course, about valuable men, not about some Liglevs, minors or village defenders. who doesn't know when what she wants. They are passive with people like you and rightly so. With women who deserve to be very accurate even. We are talking, of course, about valuable men, not about some Liglovs, minors or village defenders. who doesn't know when what she wants. They are passive with people like you and rightly so. With women who deserve to be very accurate even. We are talking, of course, about valuable men, not about some Liglovs, minors or village defenders.
Haha ha she refused him a kiss then he wants to look for her so what else can you refuse? Well, let's be passive when we come across an active woman only in the mind!
From the author: We talked a lot about going to a disco and every time I insisted that she be in company. I did not show any sympathy for him. Rather, he began to press as we danced. I did not say that I like him very much and I want him to look for me the next day and I do not pump up my self-confidence. I speak purely theoretically because it seems to me that men give up easily. If I liked him, we would kiss at the disco. He is handsome and sexy, but he has no physical attraction. If I had slept with him, you would have spat at me for being a whore. After all, what do you want? When you are pulled - ooo you are a hollow watering can. If they don't pull on you - oooo you're a hollow watering can again hahaha
So you don't like him, you've shown that you don't like him, but you want him to chase you ... surely so you don't get bored? So that there is someone to go around you, so that others don't think that you are not quoted? I wouldn't go out with such a muffin even once, honestly ...
Apparently he really should have just torn you apart, at least not to feel neglected. I sympathize with you, don't get me wrong - it's probably hard for the number of your brain cells to match your age. Any of the lesbian aunts here to give advice to poor Penka? The case is clear: she cut off a man, he respected her decision, men are passive ligglers. To reverse the thread except, the male half will not lose.
) The gossip aside - I was personally impressed by why the author went out with this man. Because he was "beautiful and well maintained." This is the essence - this is exactly what the men in you see. This is exactly her and the number 18 strengths. With people like them one should not try to talk at all, they have the emotional intelligence of a barbarian with a clear egocentrism. Their job is only to "maintain" themselves. I guess ... Their job is only to "maintain" themselves. I guess ... Their job is only to "maintain" themselves. I guess ...
Author, the more you write, the more you expose yourself. How many men do you know that you make such general summaries? We already found out about the one from the disco, he danced one night with you, you have no interest in him, ok. And he did not dare or annoy you. And what do you expect more seriously - to offer you marriage or eternal love because you went to a disco once? As the men are persistent - they were impudent, as they do not pay attention to you - they were passive. How active are you that at the age of 28 you are not dating a boyfriend or husband, but an acquaintance with whom you have nothing in common? Men are indifferent, passive as you say only to women who do not like and do not make any impression on them. Maybe you are like that?
every man who respects himself, respects the opinion of the woman, you do not want it, he leaves you alone without annoying so as not to be an obstacle to your possible future relationship with other men you like a man 45 g
I would make you fall in love with me and then lose you