Hello. Without hesitation, I will start straight to the point. I am 15 years old. Sometimes it seems to me that I came across my peers by accident. They all behave, not like big people, but like some 10-year-old pickles. With 99% of them, you can't have a decent conversation (for something more serious) because they are constantly drooling. Not to mention when it comes to sex. They can't talk about it normally. They start to giggle, blush and drool again. And if they accidentally start talking, they replace the words with any ... like "cake", etc. As if it's something shameful and nothing does it ! Tell me .. Am I prematurely developed and smarter and my mind is over the years (at the risk of sounding immodest), or did they reach nothing of a 15-year-old? Because in my opinion, a person aged 15-16 should already have his own opinion and speak freely, and not to act as if everything is something shameful and indecent ... Many greetings: Polly (:
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I think you grew up prematurely. In many families, for one reason or another, sex is not so freely spoken about, and there is an outdated opinion about those times. Very often parents have a hard time realizing that their children can now control themselves and I have my own views on things in life. Few are like you. Greetings from a mother who is free to talk about everything with the children.
Hello, What can I tell you ... I am also 15 and I understand you very well, because I am in your situation too ... I will give you a bit of paradoxical advice, I would call it. Accept it as something normal, as much as we know it is not. Come on, good luck :)))
Hey, hello, I understand you very well. I'm 17 and 85% of the boys around me are in the same phase..so, it's not scary, I'm just convinced that the boys at 15 and 35 and 50 are still the same..there is nothing to wait for development of them ... Otherwise, there is no doubt that it depends on the family environment on the topic of taboo sex ... and as for whether you are prematurely developed - hardly ... just a little or a lot, each succeeding generation is more -advanced from the previous .... that's right - the world is evolving. Come on, good luck and think positively, in the end there are older boys, they don't have to be your age :)
From Polly: Thank you for the comments .. I will be happy if there is someone else to express their opinion .. (:
Hi, it's normal to be slimy, but to be ashamed of sex at this age is not normal, and I think that parents should talk to children about these things not to teach them from the street like most of us. I remember with my sets when we were 9-10 grade how slimy we were, but we settled down - all with time :)
I understand you completely! I'm 16, but I normally have contact with people 2-4 years older than me, simply because my peers are in the minds of fifth graders, and worse. It sucks when you don't have anyone to talk to seriously. Let's leave the mucous membrane aside ... This is a bit strange for sex, really, but they will easily pass when they have to study biology;)
I don't know, I'm 14 and that's how it is with me, that's why I behave like number 6.
I don't know, I'm 13 and the ones I gather at are 15.16 and they behave like little ones and from me .. Ligliovtsi - I talk about boys differently, as I talk about everything with girls :)