"Why Did I Give Birth To You?" Mom Said

   You can go to some homeland grandparents, aunt something ..

   If this is true I can advise you on one thing. Turn to child protection! No child deserves such treatment!

   If you have signs of a beating, take a picture of them and go to Child Protection as soon as possible and show them and also record how they are offended and release it to them. Share with the psychologist at school. This cannot and should not continue like this, sorry, I call these beasts should be deprived of parental rights at the second!

   I myself grew up in such an environment. I was afraid to do anything to her so that they wouldn't quarrel with me. My mother even shouted in front of my friends and the whole block heard and understood what was happening in our country and they thought we were full of braziers. I haven't smoked or done anything stupid. Her whole problem was that I was burdened by the fact that she gave birth to me at 19 and did not make a living, and she had to make my childhood a nightmare to pay for her sin. There is nothing you can do for now unless you have good grandparents to shelter you. I endured the humiliation and insults of my childhood and adolescence, and when I graduated I went to another country. It was very difficult, but I managed to shake off the nasty memories. However, the past will always be reflected - I became a stressed person with low self-esteem and a very sensitive soul. Grit your teeth and know that many people have passed from there and yet have become normal people and their parents at a later stage regretted bitterly but it is too late because they will not be forever young, friends leave and only children remain with them. And if they have burned the bridge between themselves and the children and if they have instilled hatred towards themselves, they can expect nothing but to grow old and die in loneliness and oblivion.

   Thank you for the support!

   Talk to the school psychologist and go to Child Protection

   These are not parents but criminals

   What an irony, some people dream all their lives of a child to take care of with all their might, while others give birth to children to tell them "Why I gave birth to you". Terrible.

   At first, don't let their opinion be decisive for you - they are aggressive garbage, unable to take care of a child. Most likely they didn't want you, but it's their problem to be careful. Don't let them crush your confidence and prepare for the outing. Find a good school with good success so that you can enter a good university and have a high-paying job later. University and work go together, it's not a problem to do both first year. Then you can go on a brigade in the United States in the summer to have money in the winter. You have to be financially independent in order to be able to move out at 18 without telling them where and breaking off contact with these toxic people. This is the option if you decide to endure another 4 years. If not, contact Child Protection or the school psychologist (maybe even the principal), to help you get out of this hell. No child deserves such treatment.

   Recently, topics from perfect, studious and good teenagers, who beat them constantly, have become more frequent. Take it and tell people the real and real reasons for beating you, because I don't know a person who reaches out for no reason. This only proves that paint does not help - you do not even know the reason why your parents are boiling to the extreme. To those who advise to turn to "child protection" - don't you think that in the foster families someone will tolerate their ligatures?

   Number 11, why do you think the author of the topic is lying? It is very likely that everything written is true. I was also a studious, meek and good child, but my mother called me a mare for no reason, she had nervous breakdowns, she attacked me. And, no, I didn't have the problem. Years later, I realized that my father had had lovers, humiliated her, and she was unhappy and angry with me. Separately, my father did not love her, he married her in social times, because she was pregnant and so it was right (although he waited 5-6 months hoping that something would happen and she would sweep). After all, because of their immature behavior, lack of sexual culture and socialist morals, I exist, which is not small. On the other hand, I had a terrible childhood, for many years I walked with low self-esteem, and it cost me a great deal of effort to shake off my parents' opinion of myself, which I no longer consider to be true. I can say without a doubt that I was one of the smartest students in school, I was easily accepted into a difficult specialty at the university, and without going to private lessons, I learned several languages ​​almost by myself, I currently work and have an income well above average. But for everything in my life, my parents tried to refuse me even to try, they didn't think I was right for him. They transferred their own complexes to me. My mother beat me, and my father cursed and beat me, hurting everyone emotionally, threatening to leave us. I haven't received money from him for months, I'm talking about the time when I was a student. I saved on scholarships so I could buy normal clothes, because otherwise I walked with a rag. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I managed to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I was able to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me. In our small town, there weren't even second-hand clothing stores where I could buy something decent for no money. My classmates made fun of how many unsupported people, but how can I explain to them that my parents don't care and I'm just an unnecessary expense. Only now, at the age of 30, do I realize how emotionally crippled my childhood has been. I am grateful that I was able to overcome it, and I already have a stable relationship with a wonderful person, although it took me a while to trust enough to build a healthy relationship. Not all people are suitable for parents and not all parents love their children. You have to become a parent when a person is not only sexually but also emotionally mature for the purpose. I know for myself that I would not have a child if there was even the slightest chance of causing him what was done to me.

   I think he's lying because 95% of teenagers lie. There are scandals with teenagers for several reasons and they are: 1. Poor school performance 2. Unwillingness to clean and maintain any personal hygiene 3 Taking drugs and alcohol and smoking 4 stealing money from parents I think that there is no person in this world who instead of going to bed died after work, he was engaged in beating teenagers. To do so, he must be driven out of his skin by anger. (One of the above reasons) About your parents - try to be objective. Shake off the emotional dependence on them. It is unlikely that things were as you describe them. Because your information is really one-sided, a child never knows what is really happening in the family. I wish you luck and a clear mind,