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Why Didn't You Look For Me Anymore?

By sharethis August 18, 2020 9 answers Last updated August 18, 2020

Hello. I am a girl of 17. Some time ago I met a boy (strongly speaking) of 23 on one of the social networks. In principle, he is from Cuba, but lives in Bulgaria to study and work. We saw each other and at our first meeting he came across me, so to speak. We kissed, but because I still don't know him and I have no feelings for him, it didn't seem right to me. Then he started explaining to me how he felt about me, asking me what I was looking for from the person next to me and how he wanted us to be together. It all seemed kind of hasty, but I agreed to see him a second time. We talked normally and everything was ok. I told him we could be friends for a while at least to make sense of things. He was terribly nice all the time and didn't seem to have a problem. Well, he didn't write to me after that. The next day I removed it from friends, because I had a birthday and I didn't want to see the pictures my friends were going to upload (stupid reason, I know). The next day I found that he had blocked me everywhere. I texted him to find out why he did it, but as you can guess, there was no answer. I have no feelings for this person, but I'm just burning with curiosity to find out why he's just blocking me everywhere for no apparent reason and after explaining to me how he wants us to be together. What do you think?

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itsmclaughlin11 answered · August 18, 2020

   The fact that he came across you from the first meeting explains everything. It is obvious that he is just a foreigner who came to Bulgaria in search of easy sex and beautiful women. Once he realized that you might not be so easy, he just gave up. I will give you some personal advice as a man. If a man starts attacking you, wants to kiss you, flirt with you, be super nice to you and explain his feelings to you from the beginning, he just wants sex. Everything that seems strange and abnormal behavior in the person you are meeting has cause for concern.

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queenabby5 answered · August 18, 2020

   After you removed him, he removed you. And probably, when you didn't let him go, he decided that you were a dumb duck and there was nothing to go around.

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deep_yuichiro_official answered · August 18, 2020

   , he wanted to take you down, it didn't work out and he broke down. He must have a girlfriend.

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bigcocksoldierboy answered · August 19, 2020

   You can look at Matthew Hussey's role on YouTube - he talks about just such topics, it can be useful for you to understand the basic male behavior in meetings and dumps ... To turn on the red light when someone behaves like this guy. Good thing you were sensible and pushed him away.

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brody.janos answered · August 19, 2020

   I totally agree with Number 4, he just wanted sex from you. If he had feelings, he would court you and not give up so easily. : P

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somsomi0309 answered · August 19, 2020

   He only wanted sex! It always happens like that .. Recently I experienced something similar only that it turned out that I have a third person as well as conversations about marriage .. You don't need such a person ..

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slimbodyboy19 answered · August 20, 2020

   Darling, upstairs you will not suffer for a tailor who wanted to use you only for sex! Even rejoice that in time you understood what kind of person he is and got rid of him. And please be careful with these acquaintances on the Internet, because a child lost his life a month ago - you must have heard about the case of 11-year-old Nicole from Burgas! Number 5, why are you insulting the girl on a dumb duck? In your opinion, in order to be cool, a woman has to go to bed with everyone she meets on the first date and half of the city has passed her? Apparently you are the same as the boy the author saw? If you don't want to help, at least don't interfere and insult! g. 24

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jessie83337 answered · August 20, 2020

   Your man rushes on a first date. The day after the second meeting, you remove him from friends, and then you wonder why he blocks you for no apparent reason? And you have no feelings, but you want to understand something obvious? How does that sound to you? Do the questions contain no answer? Ž

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gumdropdelight answered · August 20, 2020

   Or maybe he didn't want you to see his pictures with the other girls.