Or rather, why do these girls and women I attract want to be just that? Didn't these stupid women understand that no straight man just wants friendship from most of them? If it's just for friends, I have male friends. I was once the only man in female company and I would go crazy from their conversations about clothes, fashion and men lol, but I was hoping that something could happen to any of them. Lately I only have 2 female friends, which is still a lot, but both are not my type - full and older. I just like to drop them as friends because they are very decent. But these two are the exception. Before that, with 3, I thought that there was a chance for flirting and something more, but it turned out to be another one that only wants friendship. What normal man would not fall in love with such beautiful women who treat her well I ask? (she turned out to be one, that it is written to a friend, and she intrigues, but ...) In general, women are very stupid, they still believe that a friendship between a beautiful woman and a heterosexual man can exist. But I have friends with whom I have common interests who do not talk to me about boys, dresses, celebrities and similar nonsense. I know that there are women who have so-called more masculine interests such as sports, cars, etc., but then if at least a few are my type, there is still no guarantee that I will not sink. Except to finally start going to the gym? I think that such thin and youthful faces as me consider them more suitable for friends than fat women than most men. But I have friends with whom I have common interests who do not talk to me about boys, dresses, celebrities and similar nonsense. I know that there are women who have so-called more masculine interests such as sports, cars, etc., but then if at least a few are my type, there is still no guarantee that I will not sink. Except to finally start going to the gym? I think that such thin and youthful faces as me consider them more suitable for friends than fat women than most men. But I have friends with whom I have common interests who do not talk to me about boys, dresses, celebrities and similar nonsense. I know that there are women who have so-called more masculine interests such as sports, cars, etc., but then if at least a few are my type, there is still no guarantee that I will not sink. Except to finally start going to the gym? I think that such thin and youthful faces as me consider them more suitable for friends than fat women than most men.
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I will assume that your opinion of women that they are stupid, in some way manifests itself in your attitude towards them and then of course no woman will want to have anything more than a story with you. These things are felt. It is also possible to look unreliable for a relationship if you are constantly joking, flirting and getting involved. If I was looking for a serious relationship, I would not pay attention at all to a young man who is constantly flirting. I think if a woman tells you she just wants a friendship, that's the delicate way to let you know she doesn't want a relationship with you. Personally, I definitely do not believe that there can be a friendship between a man and a woman, because one always wants something more. If by chance there is, then one is the opposite.
Because you do not have the qualities to be accepted as their husband. You're missing something - it could be a hike, or it could be more serious. If you were a woman, would you go out with yourself? Be honest, you may not like the answer, but only if you acknowledge the disadvantages you have can you compensate by working on yourself. F 22 P.s. We are not stupid, we know that there is no friendship between opposite peaks. But that's how it is for them to be their friend. To do them favors, to be available to them.
Honestly, appearance doesn't matter. Your character matters. Your desire to have a girlfriend is so great that it even repulses them. You seem to want to own one. This repulses them.
"Once I was the only man in a woman's company and I would go crazy from their conversations about clothes, fashion and men lol, but I was hoping that something could happen to any of them." This is your problem - you hope that they will take you out of the "friend zone". Once you're in it, you drop it and go to the next one! Nalums are more likely to bloom than a woman to take a man out of the "friend zone". Don't waste your time and show them that you don't care about friendship!
Author, don't take offense, but you think a little superficially, and calling women "stupid" won't help you in any way. And women accept me as a friend and I think that's because I don't have the right attitude and approach, I'm worried about leaning on intimate relationships, I lack confidence and self-confidence, and women have a good intuition about these things and therefore are not attracted to me as a man. . I do not know what the situation is with you, but it is not bad to think if you do not have some disadvantage that pulls you down in your relationship with the opposite sex - only then will you be able to move forward, first finding the problem and then looking for a solution. Success! And contrary to what previous commenters have said, I think there can be friendship between a man and a woman.
It made me very angry, honestly! Why do you think all women are interested in fashion and makeup? I dress in sports, I like mechanics and cars are my passion, I never put on make-up and I don't drool. I don't share, I hate to grumble and grumble, I'm not very emotional. And I think I look natural and good. I like all kinds of sports, especially martial arts. And I think you're a sexist because you put all women under a common denominator. I guess superficial. You go to the shallow muffins, why don't you pay attention to some weirder or modest and annoying girl? Do not put under a common denominator, please. Not all women are the same, nor are all men. As long as you judge people by gender, you will not succeed. I don't have female friends, I have men. Even if there is attraction, who said that there is no friendship? Start looking at people as individuals and then you will have a full-fledged relationship!
It's not that they want to be your friends, they just don't like you as a man. And why they don't like you, but only for what is written above I can point out at least a few reasons.
Author, if you treat women kindly from the very beginning, help them in some way or are good, it is very clear that they will accept you as the friend they do not want to lose. Show confidence, but have coverage without being a narcissist. Stand up straight and walk as if the world is at your feet even if you have 20 cents in your pocket. This will give you confidence and radiance. Always be punctual and whatever you say does it, it attracts. Do not show interest in the woman from the beginning and run after her ass, she will show you when to press her for a kiss. Be yourself, honest and sincere and don't care if he cuts you off. It really sucks that good men perceive women as friends, but do not fulfill all the desires of women. Have your life, your ambitions and run after the ass of the woman who gave birth to your children. Just because a woman has a vagina doesn't mean that you have to tie yourself to the games to be on hand. Come on, good luck.
Author, and in your opinion, if you have a boyfriend, shouldn't you have common interests or should you just fuck her and show up with her in front of your friends ...
"I've only had 2 female friends lately, which is a lot, but they're not my type - full and older." You must be very young and thin, and beautiful girls like to be dumped, even though you're not. their type. Now seriously ... From the things you have written, we can write a whole book why no normal woman (be she beautiful or ugly) would ever look at you. But you obviously don't have very serious requirements "... but I was hoping that something could happen to any of them," so keep going. There are passengers for each train. Success!
Number 9 can you indicate the reasons why they do not like him as a man. And I have two friends who complain about the same problem. Educated, with their own home, car, good job, ambitious, responsible, generally dream men with opportunities, but they also do not have intimate girlfriends.
From №9 to №13 To begin with, excessive grumbling makes a bad impression. He doesn't like female conversations, but at the same time he hangs out in female company, hoping to do something with one of them. That makes him pathetic. The women were stupid not to understand that he didn't want to be friends with them. So what, throw him out of the company? When he is not happy to tell them or not to hang out with them. What is this invertebrate, someone else is still to blame. At the same time, he liked to dump his two "girlfriends" because they were very decent. First, it shows how real his girlfriends are, then, doesn't he do with them the same thing he accuses women of? So he is also a hypocrite. He was both stupid with women, but they were beautiful and well-behaved, so he fell in love. This shows a very childish attitude towards both women and relationships. It is obvious, that he doesn't look at women as personalities, but obviously at himself as well, when he sees the way out of things in going to the gym, and at least once he didn't go looking for a reason somewhere in his behavior or character. Nothing masculine is felt in the author. I can't tell you if your friends are the same. It is good that they are financially independent, but if they rely only on this, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. as soon as he sees the way out of things in going to the gym, and at least once he didn't go looking for a reason somewhere in his behavior or character. Nothing masculine is felt in the author. I can't tell you if your friends are the same. It is good that they are financially independent, but if they rely only on this, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. as soon as he sees the way out of things in going to the gym, and at least once he didn't go looking for a reason somewhere in his behavior or character. Nothing masculine is felt in the author. I can't tell you if your friends are the same. It is good that they are financially independent, but if they rely only on that, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. and at least once he didn't go looking for a reason somewhere in his behavior or character. Nothing masculine is felt in the author. I can't tell you if your friends are the same. It is good that they are financially independent, but if they rely only on this, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. and at least once he didn't look for a reason somewhere in his behavior or character. Nothing masculine is felt in the author. I can't tell you if your friends are the same. It is good that they are financially independent, but if they rely only on this, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they apply, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. that they are financially independent, but if they rely on it alone, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. that they are financially independent, but if they rely on it alone, they will not succeed, except perhaps with certain women. That they are ambitious and responsible is also good. They have to ask themselves, do they have an approach to women, good social skills, do they declare themselves, do they know what they want, where are their priorities, do they weigh in, are they decisive, are they proactive, do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man. do they take on men's responsibilities? If he allows a man to get women on his head and dictate things to him, he stops being perceived by them as a man.
Here are just two reasons for you: "Stupid women" - a complex "Someone of them" - an omnipresent complex, even if you are desperate. !! It just means you're stupid, among other things.
Author and I are in a similar situation, but I keep my female friends, because along with them I meet other women and I have even made some flirtations from time to time. :) Keep them to your girlfriends, but you should be aware that unless the woman herself doesn't like you, things can't happen (or they must be very desperate when you probably don't like them for anything more than sex).
I think there is something in your behavior that makes them treat you like a friend. Not the appearance (at least for me this is not a factor)
Women are not stupid at all, you just don't understand that they kindly get rid of you with the most worn-out joke in the world - that they only want friendship. And who is stupid now?
18, that's right, but I'm not stupid because I cut all three of them the moment they told me that. I don't do services to women I don't sleep with.
Well, since you don't have a gram of respect for anyone female, I don't know what to expect. Stupid, stupid, no matter how stupid ... And the fool smells the mold. If I approached every woman as if she were my doormat, no one would look at me, not seriously. First fix your behavior and try to re-educate yourself, then torment yourself with the difficult problems in life. :)
You have a great quality, author. And that is that you are not hypocritical at all. You don't think women are equal to you - you say it. You think women are stupid, you say. The moment you realize that they will not tie you - you cut them. "I don't do favors to women I don't sleep with." Thanks for the honesty, BUT: 1 / You forget that we are the 21st century. In civilized states, the most ancient profession is forbidden by law. 2 / There is something very wrong in your upbringing. 3 / You are too likely to be the first person with a negative IQ I say this with good feelings, of course. All commenters repeat the same thing to you, and you stick to yours. Understand that women are actually people. Stop looking at them like a hole between two legs. You need a general change in your worldview. Otherwise, your chances of not dying a virgin tend to 0. Let's not forget that you have competition, which you cannot overcome. In fact, there are educated, intelligent and respectful men. Even if a man has only one of the listed qualities, he will still surpass you. I don't know how you're going to deal with that. You are not at all competitive enough for someone to pay attention to you. Good luck, author! Forward and up. You're great, just be patient. When they turn 40, women despair of being old maids. Hey, he can tie you there already, have you tried?
20 does not know what he is talking about, the gym will fix all your problems. Go bold!
To the three with topics lately about "not walking" with the girl! This is your problem, you are looking for YOU to GO with the girls, not LOVE WITH A GIRL !!! If you are looking for ANYONE to BIND you, you will never find HER!
Author (19) you are also ridiculously stupid :) They, the girls, do you a favor by offering you to be their friend. It does not mean to be a FRIEND, but tactfully (this is the service) you are beaten by a jester on the left. And it's clear why, I wouldn't want to know anyone like you! And you keep insisting that you take a little lesson ... you have no choice, you will stand alone. He didn't do favors ... hahahaha