I met a great man, he embodies my ideal of a man - tall, handsome, charming, works in my field, we fit our views, we like the same books, perfect in general. Even at the acquaintance he shared that he was married. However, this did not stop him from looking for me and trying to take me down. We saw each other again, he had a great attraction, but I refrained, precisely because he was married. He kept calling me after the meeting, I didn't pick up and things calmed down. He and his wife have been together for a long time and have children. I found her on Facebook - she is beautiful, she looks nice, good, her appearance is somehow humble and gentle. Why do you think a man would cheat on such a woman? Why do men cheat at all?
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Because we are simple, and there are women who tolerate it.
Because sometimes they see a woman who is more attractive or more beautiful than the current one, and they are tired of them. Not everyone cheats, but there are many cases.
Because he can afford it. Looks good. If you don't want to be cheated on, you will have to be content with the bites - ugly, bald with a small dick. Every woman wants to be with a man like this ... What do you expect. They count on their fingers and just choose. He has both a family and is not deprived of any pleasure in life. But sometimes the greatest beauties are the worst in bed. All the beard pitters I've been with have had small penises. 10 cm.
Because his libido is high and his morale is low. Ie monkey. He has a lot of desire for sex and little understanding of life. His desire for sex subsides very quickly after my eyes and hands are full, but his understanding of life does not change. That is, he will always be simple and probably aggressive. His testosterone levels are high, which makes him act extremely emotionally, spontaneously, recklessly and primarily, just like a primate. And the fact that it looks good and shows an image is pure and simple mask. The fact that he speaks fascinatingly is learned clichés and phrases or pure and simple elementary flat thinking, easy to understand. Ask his wife best, who exactly is he! I answer most sincerely, as a man who knows himself and his friends / enemies
Author, a dream man, but married ?! Strange dreams! As you can see, the number goes with you, and there are some to be offered to them. I bet you'll be in his ranks soon!
"3. All the type of beard pit I've been with has had small penises. 10 cm." Well try with Brad Pitt (not with Brad Pitt) and it can be CENTIMETERS! There was a topic about tits and it turned out that almost everyone likes little ones (for me it has always been so). How come a woman hasn't said she likes small dicks ??? And how little is enough ?! I was wondering about the criteria for male beauty ?! Tall - nothing that is like a monkey in the face - beautiful. Long hair - so. Criteria like a muffin. And is this muffin from the series "Married with Children" coming? There his daughter was especially smart and told her: "muffin"! It is similar for a woman - with big tits - beauty. For me, it is precisely this "criterion" that worsens the overall picture.
n.3- I am also like the author's dream man, and I do not cheat, although I do not lack suggestions. Do you think I'm wrong, do you think?
Well, because he's a womanizer. it is something that is set and does not change. Personally, I would not drink coffee with a married man unless he is at work.
Boredom, lack of moral values, nostalgia, hatred. Like women.
For the same reason and for which many women take advantage of men's money and so on. That is, there are many human animals.
I've met women with whom I shudder to want to own her, she's not a supermodel, but there's something about her appearance, something that elevates her above the smears.
Women, remember: men cheat because there are whores to let them go and tie them to their minds. If there were no prostitutes, there would be no prostitutes, just men would pay prostitutes. Come to your senses, women! You get carried away easily, you spread your legs easily and in the end men are to blame again. No, they just take advantage of your weaknesses. Bai Pesho
"8. Well, because he's a womanizer. It's something that's set and doesn't change. I personally wouldn't drink coffee with a married man unless he's at work." No, he's not a womanizer, he's whore. And that doesn't speak well of his numbers. The second sentence, if true - well done!
Author, are you really interested in the top 3 reasons statistically why men cheat or are you interested in exactly who is willing to cheat? Most people can't resist a great attraction, and if they succeed, they regret it later. It does not happen so often that it is easily overlooked. You sound unmarried to me. You know, marriage doesn't make you a numb tree. By the way, I don't know if you can guess, but at the moment you're sending him a signal that he has to leave his wife to be with you. You take a big responsibility :) Oh, and ignore №12.
And why does the author change her food, why doesn't she eat the same?
I will support №12, no matter that I am a woman. No man, no matter how much a stripper and a freak, will hang out with a decent woman, a woman who behaves with dignity. In fact, he may try, but when he is put in place, he will consider whether to continue flirting. An ugly but true fairy-tale bitch, if she doesn't poke her tail, the dogs won't hook her. Men unmistakably smell the scattered women. Here, author, you prove it - you don't pick up his phone and things calm down. He will move on to the next one, who may benefit from the "great attraction". You are surprised that his wife is beautiful, kind, and he is ready to cheat. That she chose her as his wife and mother of his children precisely because she is like that. And the one-dayers will not choose them, she will not marry them. A little variety and things are over. Some time ago I wondered like you - I know men, who cheat on their beautiful and young women with such ugliness, and the funniest - older by ten years. If you take advice, I'll tell you - you don't need married men. Nothing good will happen to them. You know that there are many great and charming single men, look around for them.
№12, isn't that women's work? Seeing someone with good genes spread their legs to procreate? Somehow I haven't noticed women easily spreading their legs for unattractive men. Both sexes take advantage of their weaknesses en masse. But infidelity is not the responsibility of several billion women to keep their feet closed. It is the husband's responsibility to his wife / girlfriend. Equivalent to adulterous women. If you have decided to melt it here and there, at least have the courage to stand behind your actions and bear the consequences, if and when they catch up with you.
No matter how much we say that we are the same .... both as physiology and as morality .... we live in another world, different from 30 years ago ... betrayal, infidelity, hatred, honesty, dignity .... the value system has changed ... some categories have fallen away, and materialism is taking over us from everywhere ... the world is colorful ... I'm not convinced that men or women cheat more ... I'm not sure that denying infidelity will reduce it. ... I am not at all convinced that the dynamism of time will make us wiser or more moral or better. I do not approve of sarcasm or negativity towards this disgusting man (man or woman) who cheats .... this is not a man, but a monster.
Because it could be, author ... Hahaha ... you choose only such handsome men for a relationship or for marriage and then you wonder "but what" ... because the world today is like that - consumer ... you get bored of a man quo you do ... either you change him or you cheat on him. Such is our world now. It's like being mad at a top chick for having a lot of sexual partners - I can - there are. If you want things to be banal and there is no balance, choose a normal man for a relationship or for marriage ... who is not 190 ... not with muscles, not with tattoos, not with any hairstyle or bare head and beard ... He's not a top man, he's not an attraction. Because you will reap the fruits of the appearance of these men. They are like that. Our youth grew up in radically different times. It has nothing to do with morality from before. I do not fall into the ideal for a man or in the category TOP MAN by any criteria. But I've been with cool chicks again - I can safely say, but I'm not attractive. One wife is enough for me, but I can't do more. At the moment I can't find a serious girlfriend, but that's what I want. With which to have a common place to live, with which to have children in the future - no. Everyone wants to be on the top of the wave in social networks and to be commented, "liked". Social networks have led to such things. It doesn't matter how you feel, but how you look. And then on the anonymous forums grumble rumble. Male of 25, networks and be commented on, "liked". Social networks have led to such things. It doesn't matter how you feel, but how you look. And then on the anonymous forums grumble grumble. Male of 25, networks and be commented on, "liked". Social networks have led to such things. It doesn't matter how you feel, but how you look. And then on the anonymous forums grumble grumble. Male of 25,
That men cheat is women's nonsense from magazines and forums.
Why - because he has unaccountable money to spend, because he wants to diversify the "menu", because with his wife - the one who kisses the children on the head for good night can not express his sexual inspiration and dreams, and she probably will. " because he has to brag at the next party with the boys from the university, because he has already smelled a man's perfume on his radiant wife's neck and this is not his scent, because he grows old and screams, because the man is a hunter - not always for a sample and dozens of other reasons and occasions. And you, dear girl, why didn't you cut his aspirations in a moment from the first time, that you were intrigued by his family "situation"? You know - who seeks and finds, so the process is started and infidelity is inevitable. You did not give up but a huge part of the women's team is ready and in favor of this "jump"! However, congratulations on your morale or toughness.
This is his nature and he succumbs to primacy.
Every new relationship for a man is automatically a new relationship for a woman. That is, men cheat just as much as women. Therefore, the question should be "why do people cheat?" Well, because it's cool.
The number of marriages in Bulgaria has sharply decreased. Do those who live without marriage and engagement have the right to cheat? What men, what women, what taxis ....
I have been with my ex-girlfriend for 4 years, we have gone through many ups and downs, but I have never cheated, the same can be said about her ... I guess it's up to the character of the person.
Because they can. Because the other is more interesting, more exciting, more inaccessible. Someone with a vision of a model may be waiting for him at home, but he wants something new, something he can't have. Be it a colleague, an ex-boyfriend, or a casual in a bar. Why would so many men want to sleep with their ex again, or kill a colleague? They just don't want to spend time, not to miss anything.
The reasons may be different. You see that his wife is beautiful and sweet ... but you don't know how their family life is going. Maybe sex is lame, they don't understand each other, he feels neglected and they are together only because of the children and the apartment ... such things. Or he may be a womanizer, the typical Don Juan for whom sex is secondary. Women enjoy taking down and seducing women, feeling more masculine, more important and more capable. Their ego is huge. He could be a sex maniac. These are another type of men who can't do without sex for a day. But usually this type of maniacs also resort to prostitutes. Their addiction to sex is like a drug acting on them. By the way, I understand infidelity on the part of married people. Very often they are tied not only to a sheet of paper, but also to a bunch of other obligations such as children, mortgage, business ... It is not profitable for them to divorce and that is why they are together, not because they love each other. And cheating on your boyfriend seems stupid to me. If you don't have enough boyfriend, break that connection and stay free, they didn't tie you up. Cheating on your boyfriend seems illogical to me, I can't understand it.
If you listen to most of the commenters, you will be super wrong. I will try to explain to you why I think this is really the case. Generally speaking, there are two types of men who cheat. The so-called gamblers and those who lack something fundamental and basic in a relationship and are looking to fill this gap with something else, but are indecisive enough to end their current relationship for various reasons, such as an already established family, marriage, children time and effort. In fact, a relationship is very similar to a flower. The more you take care of it, the more angry you will be when it dries, because practically everything you put into this flower becomes meaningless. Conversely, the more beautiful it becomes, the more you will enjoy it. Gamblers are extremely clear, but the other type of men are a different breed. These are usually men, who do not give up easily what they have built, but at the same time have a desperate need to be understood and heard and their needs met. I'm sure this same man, if she'd met him when he was single, wouldn't have had to write here at all. I can tell you that I am currently in a strange situation in which infidelity at one point becomes much more logical and justified than when everything in your relationship with your partner is fine. Being in this situation, I understand why the second type of men cheat. The main task remains for you to understand who this guy is. But in both cases I do not advise you to join the dance, because in the end you will suffer the most. but at the same time they have a desperate need to be understood and heard and their needs met. I'm sure this same man, if she'd met him when he was single, wouldn't have had to write here at all. I can tell you that I am currently in a strange situation in which infidelity at one point becomes much more logical and justified than when everything in your relationship with your partner is fine. Being in this situation, I understand why the second type of men cheat. The main task remains for you to understand who this guy is. But in both cases I do not advise you to join the dance, because in the end you will suffer the most. but at the same time they have a desperate need to be understood and heard and their needs met. I'm sure this same man, if she'd met him when he was single, wouldn't have had to write here at all. I can tell you that I am currently in a strange situation in which infidelity at some point becomes much more logical and justified than when everything in your relationship with your partner is fine. Being in this situation, I understand why the second type of men cheat. The main task remains for you to understand who this guy is. But in both cases I do not advise you to join the dance, because in the end you will suffer the most. in which infidelity at one point becomes much more logical and justified than when everything in your relationship with your partner is fine. Being in this situation, I understand why the second type of men cheat. The main task remains for you to understand who this guy is. But in both cases I do not advise you to join the dance, because in the end you will suffer the most. in which infidelity at one point becomes much more logical and justified than when everything in your relationship with your partner is fine. Being in this situation, I understand why the second type of men cheat. The main task remains for you to understand who this guy is. But in both cases I do not advise you to join the dance, because in the end you will suffer the most.
It's all up to the person. For example, I never cheated when I was in a relationship. Not that I didn't have the opportunity, because I look pretty good, but that's just how I felt. To me, infidelity is disgusting. Although the latter cheated on me, I forgave everything because I loved him and thought I would make him stop. Alas, this did not happen, although I did not deny him sex and did not cheat on him. We finally broke up. However, I always wonder why this happens? Why I have never cheated on anyone, but on me. Sometimes I hear about men who do not cheat monogamous and I wonder why I come across women and vice versa decent men come across bitches who cheat on them and make fools of them and they tolerate them. It may be true that men fall for bitches and chantonies and die for them, decent women and girls,
Number 6, I'm a woman and the small size is not a problem for me, I like small ones. It is easier to oral and does not hurt
Men give love to have sex. Women give sex to get love. That explains everything.
32, in short, both sexes have sex, but one must receive in return and the other must give.
Because they are much, much, much bigger whores than women. Countless examples. Extremely sad, but true. From a woman
Up to 34. The opposite is dear. If the women stood still, there would be no scoundrels to shove it between their legs and then, fed up with them, throw them away like rags and go looking for the next one. How many such cases? Unfortunately, your mind does not come to mind, and you keep taking off your pants, and then you ask - why do men cheat? Well, because there is someone to let them. Simple and logical.
Bray, # 35, you men have been very helpless creatures, you obviously have no control over yourself and your desires, so all women should keep you on the right path together. So, women cheat because they are whores, and men because they are victims.
"Dear," light years from reality. And these "scumbags" in question, who makes them take off their pants ??? Is someone forcing them ??? If they had morals, honor and dignity, they would not be beaten, but they would look for valuable women. Yes, they are few, but they have not completely disappeared. And, yes, there are a hell of a lot of whores among women, but there are many more among men. They also confirmed it with their nonsense. Some just soak and are ready. And the fact that he mentioned male infidelity is simply absurd. They cheat, not because there is someone to let them, but because they are purebred whores and have no values. I don't want to offend anyone, I don't generalize for everyone, the exceptions excuse me, but what I say is what I saw. By the way, over 40, right? Or maybe 50? This is how your generation and those before you put it.
I would add that most men are purebred whores and smell like their own kind of women. That's why they cheat
Because they are traitors, cowardly mice and vultures. The same goes for unfaithful women.
Because everything is forgiven, as long as the other half doesn't understand. An ex recently tried me, no matter that his girlfriend is a very beautiful girl. But ours decided he wanted me too. He was going to cry when I told him I would betray him because she was safe and didn't want to be left alone. But otherwise on the social network his profile is flooded with statuses of how amazing she is and how much she appreciates her. I skipped the ladder with this one, and I'm not sorry. Trouble awaits the new one. Try it on me today, another tomorrow.
I would like to ask: if you are 40-50 (as the author ... it became clear from the analysis of post number 37) and one in marriage (regardless of gender) does not want sex, and the other has needs .... then discreet sex with each other is infidelity, but is it justified ... is divorce required (after 20 years of marriage) or infidelity should always be punished by stoning. Posts that offend men or women are immature, hysterical and speak of strong dissatisfaction with life, the truth is that infidelity is equally distributed between the sexes and it is not good to generalize and stigmatize one or the other, there are individual cases with many nuances.
Up to 37. Thank you for "enlightening" me. I am 39 years old and I move in different business circles and I have a very good view of the problem. Most recently, at a banquet, a Turkish businessman (from Turkey) with a business in our country, watching our Bulgarian women play on the dance floor, simply told me: "There is no other country (except ours) in which you can easily find a married mistress. and without any commitment to you. " I then diverted the conversation in another direction, but this is the judgment of a foreigner. I can give many more concrete examples, but I will let you live with your ideas about things and about the pure and unblemished moral halo of the Bulgarian woman. Unfortunately, our women have reached a level where they are becoming more and more self-humiliating, but apparently they like it that way and it's not the men's fault, it's just that the scum are taking advantage.
41 - If this, if that ... and from 10 ravines to carry water, a lie is a lie, infidelity is infidelity. Nobody was stoned to death here, we are not in such a society, thank God. When you are not happy with your partner, you say goodbye and break up, then do whatever you want. This is how it is civilized, honest with him, this is how worthy people act, who respect themselves and their partner, instead of lying and hiding like rats. I do not cheat and I do not accept or forgive me for cheating on me. A matter of principles and self-esteem. And it doesn't matter if the marriage is 2, 10 or 20 years old, even worse if after 20 or more years you are such a scoundrel and traitor that you cheat on the one you have chosen. Such behavior is unacceptable and whoreful to me, no matter what gender the infidel is. For another it may be normal, his job.
Until 43 ... when I read your post I remembered the ingenious verses of Veselin Andreev: Not a man, but iron - hissed the fascist agent. The dead man said quietly, "No, communist!" I admire definite people like you .... Unfortunately, most people are small, ordinary and do not have such qualities.
To 41. Answer the question - how many more years will you cheat to satisfy your instinct without being caught? Apparently you are a woman around 40, at least until 50/55 you will have an active sex life. 10/15 years of infidelity ... you're wasting your time. Get rid of your husband, it's clear you don't love him. Get a normal man with whom you can both have sex and grow old together and in love. The other is sorrow and excuses.
№ 44 - make fun of me as much as you want, I don't care, as the Serbs say. Just to note that Vesselin Andreev is quite far from genius, I tell you as a person who studied philology. And don't compare me to the communes, if you like, I have nothing to do with them and I don't want to have anything to do with them.