It took a long time for the title - I don't know where to put this topic on top. Let's say in Others. I posted dating ads years ago just for friendship - and out of 10 who wrote 8, they offer "help" against sex. I had job postings - the same job. They call back with polite offers for "company". I'm looking for a job - NOT sex. I had male friends - ONLY friends. However, one of them decided that he could tactfully offer me "help" and be his boyfriend. I broke up with this friend directly, because for years he was just a friend, even the brother I didn't have. I am married with a stable marriage and 2 children. Someone will ask why the hell do I need male friends. Most likely, because I lived a very lonely life, with too few friends, a lonely childhood, too strict parents and what not. I have girlfriends, of course. A person is social and needs contacts, friendship, communication - they are not always automatically associated with sex. And intelligence for me comes first anywhere. My last case made me write. After years of working for a company, she went bankrupt ... but it turned out ... insurance. I started looking for a job on the sites, I didn't despair, I didn't lose heart. But the same. I'm looking for a JOB, not sex! And that's what they offer me! What's more, I despise men who have fallen so low that they can't create and maintain a relationship, and with money they have decided to buy it! Or instead of looking after their marriage and wife, they went to pay for sex! To give their money for their children and wife, not to me, or to anyone instead of me. I realize that probably out of 100 women, 90 would accept such "suggestions" - well, what can I do, as I am from the 10? !! I'm not judging the 90's either - they're right for themselves. I do not respect such men and something between me and them could not happen in any way, even if I was alone.
Why on earth do they offer money then? Don't they realize that they can come across another type of woman who does NOT want friendship/relationship / work at the price of "sex" - not for sale? Or is it just an urge and who binds him? !! I can still write for a long time, but I will stop. I'm right about myself, but I want to see how others think. The topic is not fake - I'm just really annoyed to receive offers of this kind and I'm sick that I'm kind of like a piece of meat for sale. And I'm not. I am human. I am a woman. And that immediately means sex. I feel sorry even for such men .. short .. I do not respect such men and something between me and them could not happen in any way, even if I was alone. Why on earth do they offer money then? Don't they realize that they can come across another type of woman who does NOT want friendship/relationship/work at the price of "sex" - not for sale? Or is it just an urge and who binds him? !! I can still write for a long time, but I will stop. I'm right about myself, but I want to see how others think. The topic is not fake - I'm just really annoyed to receive offers of this kind and I feel sick that I'm kind of like a piece of meat for sale. And I'm not. I am human. I am a woman. And that immediately means sex. I feel sorry even for such men .. short ..
I do not respect such men and something between me and them could not happen in any way, even if I was alone. Why on earth do they offer money then? Don't they realize that they can come across another type of woman who does NOT want friendship/relationship / work at the price of "sex" - not for sale? Or is it just an urge and who binds him? !! I can still write for a long time, but I will stop. I'm right about myself, but I want to see how others think. The topic is not fake - I'm just really annoyed to receive offers of this kind and I'm sick that I'm kind of like a piece of meat for sale. And I'm not. I am human. I am a woman. And that immediately means sex. I feel sorry even for such men .. short ..
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Glad you're quoted. In time you will roar to be offered a fuck without money, even you will want to pay but no.
Low from low is the word;) Yes, it has happened to me. But I am brutally direct and sarcastic with such. I both insult them at will, and they seem to realize that I'm pouring heavily on them, but they're not sure exactly how. And in some cases they hate me (sour grapes) but others suddenly turn to respect. I have never accepted a job from such people, although in two cases I was asked afterwards because, in addition to being very good at my job, I also have many contacts in Europe. For this and other reasons, I would not work for Bulgarians under any circumstances. If necessary, I go to the jungle, but work for Bulgarians - NO! Search in foreign companies! If you know languages, search in groups on Facebook, on foreign sites remotely, etc. Success!
I am a man and I have read a lot of such topics from a male point of view in which such men discuss the supply of money. I wouldn't call them low or anything. It's just that these men now have money, they're fucked and they want something new, exciting and diverse without commitment, and because they know that a woman's main motivation is greed and they offer money. Of course, this is not right and I do not justify them, but the relations in society are wrong in general and this thing too. I just don't see why you despise them so much? And do you despise women who accept "help" then, or are they just "victims" of the "evil patriarchy"? Do you despise women who cheat or do they have "reasons" ? Do you despise women who, when they meet a man and ask him what he does and what kind of car he drives, or are they just "far-sighted" and "smart"? Make no mistake - all these examples are grotesque, but this is the situation we are in and those men are just part of the landscape and they treat these women as a "piece of meat" because the women themselves are perceived as current, as a reward with a label with a price for which you have to pay one way or another and because they do not deal with overtures directly offer "assistance".
You obviously make such an impression. No one has offered me money so far, and I regularly had company for one night. Or I just choose my partners better ...
Number 3, the author speaks from the position of a decent woman. Why do you so vilely and brazenly divert her subject by reminding her that there are women who like sex for money. SEARCH determines supply - young children already know this. It feels very clear that you sympathize with these men, and not every woman's main motivation is greed. Everyone is different. In my opinion, all these men who have to pay to be able to have sex with a woman are just low social and emotional intelligence, ugly, crazy, etc., a bunch of other negatives. A self-confident, cool, positive man, even if he earns 1000 leva a month, will not be left without a woman - whether he wants casual sex, whether a relationship, there will be such a man as a candidate.
Luckily for me in my life I have not come across such, but online - as much as you want! And not on dating sites. At one point I was abroad and I was quite lonely and I just decided to make my Skype public, to find people with whom to just talk in Bulgarian. You remember nostalgia! Well, yes but no! It was not vulgar photos of their genitals, it was not an explanation of how to just return to Bulgaria and they will tear me apart from e ... no ... honestly I was disgusted! And immediately I made my profile available only to people I know personally. I don't know why when they see a woman online and everyone decides you're just looking for sex! Well, no, I wasn't looking! I just wanted to talk to someone about home. Otherwise, in real life, I obviously just look too serious and that's why no one allowed themselves to make such suggestions to me. E, except for the whistles of the gypsies on the construction sites, but I don't even reflect that. I don't know, darling! I just don't understand why 90% of men, when they see a decent-looking woman, immediately start thinking with the other head. Disgusting! Especially when it comes to your workplace! Because if it's online, you can just delete or lock your account, but in the office? !! How to work if your boss only has you for a sexual object?
I'm number 3 - Here I want to draw attention to a very, very important point, which will otherwise be missed and reveals the reason why male-female relationships do not work. You can find the reason in the arrogant and arrogant opinion of number 2 and in particular her bloating. If this bloating among women starts, all possibilities for normal, good relationships evaporate as it is now. She received a bit of male attention and swelled up like a man from Michelin, "I'm like that, I'm like that, I'm special, I deserve the best, the tip of the ice cream." Because other women copy each other and don't stay behind and they start behaving the same way and they all think that with this attitude they will get the best of life and it turns out the exact opposite - they ruin the possibility of a normal relationship and then they themselves suffer the most. Here is the root of all problems and why things do not work out, everything starts from here - arrogance, arrogance, a sense of specialty, greed and desire only for the best and contempt for others.
Because there are those who are only looking for sex and do not deal with a thousand meetings and outings until it comes to sex.
Market economy, what to do. Once there is demand, there is supply and vice versa. And you do not accept what you care who offers what. Ignore that much. Everything in this life is paid, author, in one way or another.
90/100 of women would accept? Well, that's not respecting your own gender! :)
From the author. I want to answer number 3. Do I despise women who accept the offer, who cheat, who ask the man what he does. I don't judge them - that's it. They make their choice and he has his price, material or not. Whether they are poor, lonely, complex, they know. I don't interfere with them, I don't ask myself why they accept. It is not in vain that I mentioned known / unknown women in the title. When a man knows a woman, say, likes her, wants her, even if she is engaged, and offers her no relationship, notice-one of the FIRST things is "helping" against sex? !! Somehow I would understand it and I will refuse. And when it comes to a woman on the net, for a job, he hasn't even seen her, he doesn't know her - it doesn't occur to me at all how and with what eyes he offers money. Here, I already think that this type of men are stalking more ordinary and poorer women because they probably think that as such women are directly obliged to accept. Why not offer a businesswoman with a company and expensive clothes ?? That she would cut them off angrily, not to mention they wouldn't dare. And here comes to mind something else related to the mind of men. If they know the woman they are offering "help" to, do they have any psychological sense that she would never accept it? Just try, for variety, the urge? And if they don't know her, then everyone is under a common denominator! Yes, but no! I already mentioned 90 to 10. I'm one of the 10. Number 6 is quite right in my opinion, but I have had such a case - rich, intelligent, confidently offers me. I refused. I am an ordinary person and I have nothing to do with such people. It happened to me that at number 7 the phone call to work started with ... centimeters of his penis. I closed directly, and he drained my battery from ringing. It was years ago. The other reason for ME to offer personally is because I am an open, direct and understanding person, without a gram of arrogance. Add to that the fact that I have modest means - I am targeted with "suggestions". It's like they have radar on their head! In men, physiology plays a role in the frantic search for sex by all means. It is clear to me that this is so ... but they also have an upper head, a little sense, mind, psychology are not superfluous. So that they can better judge WHICH woman would accept and WHO would not. In men, physiology plays a role in the frantic search for sex by all means. It is clear to me that this is so ... but they also have an upper head, a little sense, mind, psychology are not superfluous. So that they can better judge WHICH woman would accept and WHO would not. In men, physiology plays a role in the frantic search for sex by all means. It is clear to me that this is so ... but they also have an upper head, a little sense, mind, psychology are not superfluous. So that they can better judge WHICH woman would accept and WHO would not.
In the last sentence of comment number 8, I saw my last link described 100%. The only way out was IGNORE.
How do you look for a job on the sites and they offer you sex? Obviously you are not looking for a job on the right site. The job site is one of the most famous. And there the companies are looking for employees. You send St. and if they approve they call you. I don't know how they call you for sex after reading everything to you. And the fact that a friend offered to help you financially, obviously decided that you needed it. And when men offer it to you, they obviously think you would accept it. How come they didn't offer to sponsor me? And I'm not complaining about the lack of suitors. I have a profession, I'm not looking for a job and obviously it doesn't cross their minds that I ran out of money.
Why do men think about sex - well, because we are men. You despise us because we do not seek the same as you. Well, I'm sorry, but we humans are not the same, no way. m34
You're sick, seek help.
Refuse boldly and wait for time to pass. At some point, no one will give a damn penny for sex with you. They will then be born I tell you;)
Why do we offer money for sex? Most likely because we have sex and for one reason or another we do not have the happiness and luck to get it for free, and the alternative of just masturbating it does not seem tempting. Everyone has reasons, mine is that I'm anxious and I have some talent to repel women without wanting to, and at the same time I have an athletic body, I'm beautiful and fun, but alas it doesn't work. And it is somehow much easier to give a hundred levs or whatever price the ladies of the industry have put there, to get excited and leave. And when you feel sick and feel like a piece of meat for sale, at first glance people are just a thinking and moving piece of meat, and as for whether you are for sale, yes you are for sale. You may not be selling sex, but when you go to work to get paid, there you do what they tell you and actually sell yourself. So, there is no point in feeling nasty from your nature. But there is always the option of standing on your imaginary throne and despising us because we have "fallen low", but we are afraid of heights to do. м22
I just want to see him who will dare to offer me money for sex. But no one will be found, because neither my vision nor my behavior suggest such a disgrace. Author, maybe you need to change something in the clothes, the hairstyle and especially in the manners and in the way of expression in general. Radiate authority and uncompromising. The dress - to the knee, makeup - discreet and chin up. You can buy a dress in the year, but it should be high quality and stylish. The quality is always evident. You need more confidence, I mean. And communicate with men from the position of an independent woman. You are not "looking for a job", you are "offering a deal", namely you are negotiating the conditions under which you will provide your work if the other party is interested. I guess your problems come from radiating helplessness.