I love dating sites. I like to upload nice photos. I'm a crossdresser. I noticed that if I uploaded photos where I was photographed wearing women's clothes, they immediately started insulting me or taking me down by different men. In my profile I always note that I am interested in women. So I decided not to upload such photos and now, if things get more serious to send to the chick with whom I write.
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Because people en masse do not distinguish between a crossdresser and a homosexual. Most do not even suspect that there is such a thing.
Because Bulgarians are uneducated and limited by nature. For them, everything that flies is eaten and everything that stains smells. So keep your head up and don't be surprised. Be who you are and share your essence only with someone who deserves it!
Oh my God, what can a man dressed in women's clothes think of you? To number 2! And you might be some other nationality. Your statement is very unargued and too simple. As a limited Bulgarian, I somehow can't accept it as normal for a man to dress like a woman, to change genders and the like. And even if I ask, is it bad to be a limited Bulgarian who wants to raise normal children, according to the culture and understandings of our ancestors, and not to look at the perverted and totally degraded western "broad-minded" countries ??
In your opinion, if I upload a photo to FB with a glass of cognac, what will people think of me - a drunkard or a sober person?
I'm a 21-year-old woman, I don't wear high heels, I don't understand make-up and I have short hair, but I like men. Surprisingly, I had 2 boyfriends who had no problem with this because I get out of bed. : D) And one of them asked me if I was bisexual. But I'm not.
What is the meaning of crossdressing? I looked it up in the dictionary and it meant a person who liked to wear the clothes of the opposite sex. If you take pictures with women's clothes, it is normal to think of you as gay or transvestite - this with cross-dressing is a new term, so as not to be called transvestite.
Because by dressing in women's clothes you act perversely and you are no longer perceived as a man but as a woman you pretend to be.
Not surprising at all. After all, even if people make a difference, these gender confusions often go hand in hand with a different sexual orientation. More importantly, I think most women are looking for manhood and would probably be repulsed even if they knew you weren't gay. I myself would not perceive as a real man, someone who dresses like a woman, regardless of gender. From this point of view, I recommend that you even stop uploading such photos, to be open with women about this inclination. On the one hand, they will not feel cheated, on the other hand, you will not waste time with women who would never accept you.
If you ask me and if the topic is real (and it is real - if not for you, then for someone else) - upload these photos. Upload them and note that you are only interested in women, writing it in your description. Why do it? 1. Because you have the right to be yourself and to be liked as you are. 2. Because others have the right to know who you are and not to deal with you if this is a problem for them. F31
Number 3 - here is a clean and simple example of Bulgarian restrictions. That you want a "normal" family, who gives you the right to forbid others to be as they are? Or to oblige them to do and want whatever you want, if you don't condemn them as degraded perverts and so on !? It's not nice to put your limited nature under a common denominator, is it?
For the same reason they don't know what "gender" is and use it completely wrong. Limited people, what do you do with them.
Well, what's the logic of taking pictures in women's clothes, given that you want to take off women? I'm not judging you, I'm just curious where the logic is. Do you think a woman would be impressed by a man in women's clothing? You can still be a crossdresser, but I don't see any point in uploading exactly these photos on a dating site, except you don't want a man.
13, no one forbids the author to walk as he pleases. But on a dating site where the goal is expected to be a dump, if he expects women to dump him, it doesn't make sense to dress like a woman. I would not write to such a man, as you can see, and the women on the site did not. It's like going to an ancung opera and wondering why they look at me strangely and askance.
Author, how exactly are you "interested in women"? That is, what do you want to do with them? Swapping dresses or doing hairstyles? Clothing emphasizes a person's individuality. A man with a gender is perceived as a homosexual, not because we are "congested", but because the specimen does not radiate masculinity. I can't imagine men's legs in tights. It's disgusting! I once wanted my husband to feel the quality of natural silk (because I was amazed at the passion for this fabric) and I put on one of my silk blouses. Yes, he appreciated the coolness of the fabric, but he couldn't wait to take it off, even though it was just the two of us. He just didn't feel "in his skin" and was a little embarrassed. This is the reaction of a normal man. No matter how much you repeat, author, that you are looking for women, I personally do not believe you.
I'm sorry, but to a normal person you're kind of a transvestite. I don't think a lot of normal people come in here and the chances of finding like-minded people are high.
Up to 15 The logic is to show a part of yourself from the very beginning. Every woman is different and there are women who are not impressed, but there are also those who are impressed.
People do not distinguish between a homosexual and a transvestite on a large scale, and the two are by no means identical concepts. However, you also have exhibitionism. Most hetero transvestites limit themselves to underwear precisely so as not to provoke public misunderstandings. That is, the individual must comply with society or tolerate its sanctions. Grandpa Torbalan
I am considered a lesbian because half of my head is shaved, I have earrings and tattoos. Not that I wouldn't try a woman, but I'm definitely not gay and I've only had boyfriends - men. The Bulgarian is not yet in the Middle Ages, but directly in the Stone Age when it comes to sexual culture.
And I think it's because people don't differentiate between crossdresser, transgender or homosexual. They know normal and abnormal. Only popular culture will educate them about what it is. And for some of the commenters: "the Bulgarian restriction" is to explain to everyone that it is not "normal" by their standards and that it must be urgently adapted to them.
Very interesting. You upload a photo of yourself with makeup and heels and then you wonder why the hell no one believes you are not a transvestite ?! Do you think that with such photos you will attract women? Or at most to make fun of various teenagers.
19, isn't it a little early in the profile picture to show exactly this intimate part of yourself? Think about it a little. Or do you just have exhibitionist tendencies?
Up to 17 by the author I am interested in women in a romantic, love and sexual relationship, what every man interested in women.
Neither I nor any of my other gay friends wear women's clothing. Crossdressing has nothing to do with sexual orientation, it is a fetish. 90% of his genes are hetero. Transsexuality / transvestism is something else. It is complicated and confusing and it is not a spoon for the mouth of Aleko's hero, but if we are going to deny everything that cannot be easily understood by ordinary people, let us also deny atomic physics and philosophy ...
28, me as a heterosexual comment you insulted me. Yes, I know what a crossdresser, transsexual, etc. is, but I know it from a general culture. No one has to know all the terms. And just because he doesn't know them doesn't mean he's Ganyo. It will not be useful for anyone to know them, nor is it obligated to be interested, nor is it so important. And from where to where do you become Ganyo, just because you are not interested in all sorts of the opposite? Is this the most important thing to know? No one has asked me if I know the difference between a crossdresser and a transsexual, nor have they increased my salary for what I know. No one has to teach you artificial terms.
Don't try to write to people like number 3. Usually the children of people like him become just like that ... well, far from what they wanted and dreamed of seeing them grow up, to put it most delicately;) On the subject - well, because most people just weren't interested, that there is such a thing as crossdressing. And it is normal to make an association that the man wearing such clothes is not straight. I would also think of such a man as a heterosexual - I'm not saying this for the sake of nagging. I support number 12. Mark somewhere in your profile that you are a crossdresser plus that you like women and you're done.
No one is obliged to understand from anything, but when he does not understand, at least to be silent and not to offend!
33, the only one who insults here is you. I turn off the comment immediately after yours. I don't understand why you had to insult Ganyo.
And what should they think of you? No one has to guess what a natural mistake you are - homo, cross or trance. You have avers like number 2, it's the level of "culture" that applauds sodomy.
Hahahaha, they didn't know what gender was! And the only plural, gender and conjugation do you know! ??
37 - Of course we know what gender is, but it doesn't matter to us because we are not gender. Now, as a heterosexual woman, I feel like a minority and I suggest that heterosexuals make a parade.
The topic is disgusting. I don't understand what some men like to dress like a woman so much? That's ridiculous to say the least. Because of beings like you, some women have a misconception about Bulgarians. They think of us as pedals and that is why they are looking for people of other nationalities. Stop at last!
I watch up to 40 parades every day, pushing at bus stops, streets, etc ...
up to 41 Transformers are everywhere and are not "pedals" otherwise they would be trans. Again, I wonder why they posted your hater comment.
As long as you insult everyone who is not familiar with the specifics of ... your "differences", there is no way you will be accepted, you will only turn more people against yourself until this direction of tolerance, which society is trying to take, is finally reversed. , on the exact opposite side. Author, whatever attracts you, heterosexual women are attracted to men, and there is nothing masculine about dressing like a woman. Whether someone makes a difference is one thing, but you can't expect acceptance to include attraction, because it's against the sexuality of these women. No one owes you, you have to find a way to combine these inclinations with your sexual orientation.
Emmy .... Look now! Since the world began, people have been evolving and gradually forming our notions of normal and not so much. Since ancient times, people have found out what suits a woman and what suits a man. And so it has been established what is masculine and what is feminine in terms of manners, demeanor, clothing, etc., etc., and these notions have already taken root and we are simply invested in accepting some things as feminine, and others — for men, and when we witness something that contradicts these notions, we cannot help but doubt it. That's why it's normal for them to make the wrong impression on you. By the same token, if you see a woman wearing a suit, tie, and men's shoes, you would suspect that she prefers to be a man (hence the opposite). If you perceive yourself as a man, it would be strange for you to like wearing women's clothes. In your case, as in the case of any heterosexual man, this would be normal only if it is a joke or plays a female role in a sketch, as in comedians. Otherwise, I can't take it, given that you yourself say you're not gay. Even more so to appear like that, and on a dating site. There, even if everyone believes that you are not gay, how will a woman be willing to be with you, when you look like one? (After all, these clothes just make you look like everyone else ...) She'll feel like she's really, at times, with a woman, not a man, and she'll feel like a lesbian like she's not. ... And it becomes one .... I understand you and I trust you! Maybe you just like to try, to do something new, different, but ... really ... it's not a good idea to show it on such sites! Maybe you want to understand women better, by literally getting under their skin and there is nothing wrong with that! I even approve of it! But believe me! This is not the way to show it because it will only draw the wrong conclusions for you! Better focus on something theatrical ... This way you will be able to wear such clothes - no one will doubt you and your sexual orientation! I hope I have been helpful!
Every average intelligent person will know and be able to judge why by wearing women's clothing, a man will be perceived as preferring men and why the person in question will not attract 99% of women. I don't see what's so surprising. The question of whether to be honest in the beginning depends on the extent to which your fetish is developed. If you prefer to wear ONLY such clothes, then you should also describe this feature very clearly, because every woman would feel cheated if she expects a man in men's clothes and gets an unsolicited man in women's clothes. However, if you can safely go with fewer demonstrations of the fetish, just mark it as unusual behavior at home. In general, however, this is a mental disorder - perhaps due to longing for the mother or the deification of women, due to the lack of such in your life and many other reasons. Since the mental disorder does not bother anyone but yourself (with this fetish sharply reduces the likelihood of finding a wife), you choose to dig yourself why you are so obsessed with women's clothing and accessories and what past experiences are due to this.