Why Do Women Like Sociopaths?

   Ah, then it's clear - they like you for one sex.

   Flatter yourself that women liked sociopaths. Admit where you dig these women from - from Gepime or from chalgoteka? The truth is that only ducks come to you, and that's why it's fun to tear them :)

   Look, if you knew how many people dream of being able to live without caring, you would feel anointed. But as always, we humans are designed to want what we don't have. Just because you don't care or fall in love doesn't mean you're a sociopath. And the fact that you were different before may be due to normal changes that come with each person with age. It's just that maybe your character hasn't been shaped before. From what you have written, it is clear that you are a decent person, you just act at the first sign (for infidelity) in my opinion, because you both cheat and then wonder why. At least that's how I understood you. For now, live as you want, still try not to hurt people. And you never know if someone will show up tomorrow to make you feel for her. Other events can provoke other emotions. Let it flow. P.P. If you still start to feel heavier that you do not feel certain emotions - it is best to consult a specialist. It obviously weighs on you that "you can't feel emotions," which is an emotion in itself, though not the most pleasant. :)

   Very exciting:) .... To be honest, well done - few sociopaths ask such fateful questions. What you describe really sounds like sociopathy, but why do you want to be "like others" so much? Just so you're not different or have any idea what it's like to have feelings and think they would bring you something good? And you have only one omission - women did not love you BECAUSE of this possible sociopathic attitude, and DESPITE it ..... You answer the question why women like you - pretend, you know what to do to provoke a certain reaction. Usually a person who does not do so (does not lie, does not pretend, does not play dishonestly) does not expect it from others, so it is difficult to imagine that someone who does this all his life is standing in front of him, without to get tired even. We all need to trust,

   Hello! You may be a sociopath, you may have a schizophrenic character - these are just terms that hardly reflect the depth of what is happening to you. There is a very common symbiosis in married couples - an overly concerned and loving woman and a cold and addicted man. When a child is born into a dysfunctional family - one in which one or both parents are addicted to food and / or substance, they cannot receive intimacy, warmth, quality communication and love. At its core, all addictions are escapes from certain repressed and hurtful feelings, whether it is a feeling of emptiness, fear, abandonment, loneliness. Such parents, who have not solved their personal problems, are unable to fully perform their duties and generally behave adequately, as well as their outward behavior. Then girls become overly anxious and cling to a man, becoming oral (dependent) individuals - that is, they cannot experience independent feelings when they are not attached to a man. The boys become emotionally cold, closed, naughty. Apart from that, both men and women develop addiction to some substance, food, sex. Thus, new couples are formed, which repeat the parental models of the family. Such a woman cannot fall in love with a 'normal' man, because she will not have the thrill of experiencing the situation from her own family (neglect and lack of love) and trying to correct it. It is the deep human instinct to recreate our childhood in order to repair it and thus heal our wounds. That is why, for example, women with more than one marriage / cohabitation get together with the same type of men - infidels, alcoholics, etc. This changes when they themselves change their inner space. For such women, heartfelt, responsible and caring men are just boring. On the same principle, men find a type of women. That is, the masochistic-sadistic model is maintained. When we fall in love with someone, we think we know our motives for having an explanation or no explanation because love is inexplicable. In fact, mental processes take place in us that we do not realize and that largely determine our existence. The purpose of relationships is to get to know each other and get closer to each other, and flowers and roses are just the decoration that makes us enter the store :). You haven't said enough - how long have you been in this state, traumas, etc., so I can't give specific advice on how to become sensitive again. You have barricaded yourself so as not to be hurt, but where wounds can occur, warmth, empathy, and emotions in general arise. The solution is to accept and understand yourself. Greetings! Soul

   I don't always do it, but it happens ... I just somehow know exactly how to make things work, but it seems to me that other acquaintances of mine don't do it. I'm not saying I like to lie to them, I don't actually do it ... for me it's not a lie, it's just a cover-up. I don't try to spend them for one sex, because for me it's been a long time, I can do it if I decide, but I want to experience the "feelings". Number 2, they are not girls from chalgoteki, there are also quite rare ones, they are usually quite decent girls who are tired of everyday life and jealous men and want to break away from it. They find something in me that they obviously lack - frankly I don't know what it is, it's hardly just a lack of jealousy, because according to the things I'm telling you I'm not a commodity - only according to them. And I don't intentionally hurt women, I don't even hurt them at all - I don't lie to them to go to bed with them and then say "I was pleased", on the contrary, even if they realize that I don't love them, I still come out of the water dry, I still know what to say, but not to hurt them (I won't be terribly naughty if I do, but I know it's not good, I've been quite hurt in this life since I was little, before I got here), but I don't I hurt after that, even if I can help them, but somehow I just "know" how to react, not that I want to react like that. I'm not sure you'll understand me, but I'm doing something because I know it will work, not because I feel it, but it doesn't necessarily involve hurting people. I want to be like you, because I remember that as a child I fell in love and loved (or so I think), sex has not been on my agenda for a long time, I prefer to have it, but also for the woman to reach me (to the heart as they say), and it doesn't happen. I can't get to myself, I live very strangely - I have emotions like being angry sometimes, or something like that, but I can't fall in love ... and that bothers me because women like you to be in love with them, I don't even lie to them that I'm in love - I never tell them "I'm in love with you", they know it's not, they know that there are other men who will appreciate them 100% more, but they want me? And I just want to be "more normal", not to break up with someone else the same day and know that I can have more women if I decide and even know that it's bad to behave like that. .. I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. I can't get to myself, I live very strangely - I have emotions like being angry sometimes, or something like that, but I can't fall in love ... and that bothers me because women like you to be in love with them, I don't even lie to them that I'm in love - I never tell them "I'm in love with you", they know it's not, they know that there are other men who will appreciate them 100% more, but they want me? And I just want to be "more normal", not to break up with someone else the same day and know that I can have more women if I decide and even know that it's bad to behave like that. .. I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. I can't get to myself, I live very strangely - I have emotions like being angry sometimes, or something like that, but I can't fall in love ... and that bothers me because women like you to be in love with them, I don't even lie to them that I'm in love - I never tell them "I'm in love with you", they know it's not, they know that there are other men who will appreciate them 100% more, but they want me? And I just want to be "more normal", not to break up with someone else the same day and know that I can have more women if I decide and even know that it's bad to behave like that. .. I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. because women like you to be in love with them, I don't even lie to them that I'm in love - I never tell them "I'm in love with you", they know it's not, they know that there are other men who will appreciate them 100% more, however do they want me And I just want to be "more normal", not to break up with someone else the same day and know that I can have more women if I decide and even know that it's bad to behave like that. .. I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. because women like you to be in love with them, I don't even lie to them that I'm in love - I never tell them "I'm in love with you", they know it's not, they know that there are other men who will 100% appreciate them more, however do they want me And I just want to be "more normal", not to break up with someone else the same day and know that I can have more women if I decide and even know that it's bad to behave like that. .. I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. if I decide and even if I know it's bad to behave like that ... I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad. if I decide and even if I know it's bad to behave like that ... I don't feel it. I just know it's bad, not so bad.

   and the time will come for you to experience all that you do to the girls you are with. The time will come for you to see indifference and reluctance in the eyes of your potentially beloved wife and you will have to suffer and fight, fight even an innocent smile will be hope. lovers are masochists

   You are not a sociopath, you are just a narcissistic person, which is typical for mentally retarded people. Just a mask of insensibility with which you manipulate people and are glad that they like you for one sex.

   I think temerut or moron suits you better. I like just such men. The reasons are many. Maybe because I'm part of it. I don't think you've found the master, that's your problem.

   Different people different ideals! The answer to your question is easy! At the time you loved a real girl just like me, they hurt you a lot, it's been a long time since you experienced it, at some point, subconsciously it became a protective reaction! To be careful, not to suffer. This is the inner shield of, consciousness. You hardly want to suffer this love for which you have suffered, precisely for this reason you have it for everyone, you say what you want to hear, you don't care when they say something because you don't care about them! Don't worry, this will pass in time :) postscript: Hey people, this is my opinion, I don't impose it, I just think so! A guy of 23 :)

   Thanks for the fun reading! From the connections you describe, I came to the conclusion that you only went out with sociopaths, which answers your question. A normal woman would not tolerate you. The group of muffins on which you draw conclusions is not a representative sample of the female population, and therefore your question should be paraphrased as: Why don't the women I fuck care about me?

   What does "go out dry" mean? Do you think that if someone doesn't cut his veins or calls you five times a day to ask you to love him as he loves you, then he doesn't suffer? He suffers, he is just a human being with pride and a sense of dignity :). The worst thing is not to say "I'm in love with you." It is worse to act as if you are in love for a very long time. And without that, if you say it directly, few women would believe you. But if day after day you show a need to communicate, a desire for intimacy, the joy of knowing things about the other and getting to know each other - this is already serious. It's a time bomb. For the woman, of course. It doesn't matter what you declare - I am insensitive, I have not met the real woman for me, etc. What matters is what happens in your specific relationship between you and a certain woman. Because the constant showing of interest and desire to know her better, for example, is already an emotional concern, and if it is not sincere, then it is a crime. This means millions of moments of lies, falsehoods, untrue feelings that very few people can imitate. And why do it. This is a burden .... Why don't you try to stop in time after it becomes clear to you that one does not excite you more than the others. Or do you still have a thrill that makes some women fall in love? Apparently you don't associate with stupid girls. That's what I understood. So they hardly get carried away because of a few kind words ... So you just cross the line and the glass of cool mind runs out and you leave them no choice but to fall in love with you. Is there anything true in my assumptions? and if it is not sincere, then it is a crime. This means millions of moments of lies, falsehoods, untrue feelings that very few people can imitate. And why do it. This is a burden .... Why don't you try to stop in time after it becomes clear to you that one does not excite you more than the others. Or do you still have a thrill that makes some women fall in love? Apparently you don't associate with stupid girls. That's what I understood. So they hardly get carried away because of a few kind words ... So you just cross the line and the glass of cool mind runs out and you leave them no choice but to fall in love with you. Is there anything true in my assumptions? and if it is not sincere, then it is a crime. This means millions of moments of lies, falsehoods, untrue feelings that very few people can imitate. And why do it. This is a burden .... Why don't you try to stop in time after it becomes clear to you that one does not excite you more than the others. Or do you still have a thrill that makes some women fall in love? Apparently you don't associate with stupid girls. That's what I understood. So they hardly get carried away because of a few kind words ... So you just cross the line and the glass of cool mind runs out and you leave them no choice but to fall in love with you. Is there anything true in my assumptions? Why not try to stop in time after it becomes clear to you that one does not excite you more than the others. Or do you still have a thrill that makes some women fall in love? Apparently you don't associate with stupid girls. That's what I understood. So they hardly get carried away because of a few kind words ... So you just cross the line and the glass of cool mind runs out and you leave them no choice but to fall in love with you. Is there anything true in my assumptions? Why not try to stop in time when it becomes clear to you that one does not excite you more than the others. Or do you still have a thrill that makes some women fall in love? Apparently you don't associate with stupid girls. That's what I understood. So they hardly get carried away because of a few kind words ... So you just cross the line and the glass of cool mind runs out and you leave them no choice but to fall in love with you. Is there anything true in my assumptions?

   It is much more painful for someone to deceive you that they are feeling feelings than for someone to openly use you for sex. If you experiment, wanting to know if you're going to "feel" something, pretending to be, you're hurting a lot more.

   I don't think you're emotionally intelligent.

   See the 6th post I wrote - you are left with the wrong impression. I don't hurt them. I also come across a little crazier women who want revenge, but what do they care about me having more men around them?

   First check in the dictionary the word "sociopath" what it means: A sociopath is a kind of psychopath, a person who has abnormal or pathological behavior in the field of social relationships. Such a person has a clinical inability to adapt and adapt to the human environment. In his relationships with other people, he creates conflict situations and does not learn from mistakes or unpleasant experiences. He does not show loyalty even to his relatives. Such an individual is incapable of respect and does not observe the generally accepted norms of behavior. The sociopath never feels guilt, anxiety or remorse, these feelings are unknown to him, he behaves as if he has no conscience, because his notions of critical perception of behavior and good and evil are strongly distorted. Sociopaths usually do not have a value system and treat it with contempt, as well as to the cost of human life. Completely selfish, they try to satisfy every spiritual or physical need and need. They easily fall into states of anger or rage, are difficult to control, easily explode, and this manifestation of them has the signs of ordinary psychosis. This is what Wikipedia means. In my opinion and my life experience you are not a puck and I understand you in part. Since you haven't met the woman you fall madly in love with, it's normal that you don't care very much about what happened to the girls you abandoned. It has happened to me and I do not see anything wrong - after a while you realize with someone that it is not for you and you part without drama, tears and snot. And you don't have to feel guilty for not loving someone. By what criteria do you require yourself to experience feelings by force. Why are you raping yourself? What's wrong with you? I am a woman of 26, Leo. you must be a lion too. I just want to tell you that a person cannot provoke his feelings by force if it does not come from within.

   Your time will come. And it will be unexpected, so unexpected that you will not feel how you will fall into the trap. To me, you are also a narcissistic person and egocentric. Basically when you don't want to give love and you don't receive it. There is simply no one-sided love, it must be given on both sides.

   From what you've written, I see you're not a bad person. Maybe you have never been "caught" by love, sooner or later and it will happen, then you will not imitate any emotions and you will feel winged. I wish you true love in the new year. P.S. I'm pretty sure I know you, and I was like you, but that's another story. Success!

   I don't think you're a sociopath, you're more of an emotional invalid, which is definitely naughty.

   You are insensitive because you have not found the master ... and on the question why women liked sociopaths ... but because when there is a dose of insecurity in the other person, it makes you want him more and I think it is the same with men, not only in women. Something that is tied in a towel, as they say, is not very interesting. Doriana

   You hit the jackpot, that's the only way you'll fit into reality. Not that it's good, but it's just that no one will be able to shoot their poison arrows at you and then writhe. Otherwise, women like bastards, they want to be trampled, dominated, they want the male to possess them. And let the gentle, kind and understand fool be a wife who carries bitten prey in her mouth and feeds her and her parasites and children, potential criminals and drug addicts.

   Well, it's not good to diagnose yourself like that. However, if you have a diagnosis from a psychologist, it is best to talk to him about your adaptation to the world as a sociopath. Women like to fight for their love, which of course becomes easier with someone who does not love them, does not pay attention to them, does not treat them gently and hurts them. And then, if they win a relationship with this person, they try to tame him, to make him an honest man ... They just want to experience 'Beauty and the Beast'. Of course, not all women do. And the fact that they claim to want a "caring man in a slipper" is what society, movies and books force them to want, and not since yesterday. People always fall in love with the one they least expect and in most cases the complete opposite of their fantasies ... Otherwise, if you really don't have such a diagnosis from a psychologist / psychiatrist, I think you have a problem that exists in many other men ... I personally think it's your own fault. Why are you in a relationship with a girl you have no feelings for over a year? And apparently the relationship didn't work out if you cheated on her. A relationship is made with a person who you at least like, respect and appreciate, as a person ... Not with every second person who wanted him. Just don't make connections of any type with people you don't like. And they have learned to respect themselves and others. Do you think that if I now fuck everything and everyone and decide to live as I want without considering anyone, I will not be in the same situation as you? You are not alone in this world, you have to be at least a little considerate of others ... At least, knowing that you will hurt someone not to do it. Not you, that you are a sociopath (of course, if you do not have such a diagnosis), and you simply do not have elementary values ​​and morals that will be difficult to acquire, but it is possible. Just become a better person and don't give in to the thought that you are terminally ill and nothing depends on you. If you really don't have a diagnosis, you just make excuses why you treat people badly ...

   I'm number 12 and I tried to ask the same question as 23. Why do you have a fake relationship for so long that the other person ends up feeling hurt? Communication and rapprochement itself, if it lasts more than a few months, any normal person would think is of genuine interest. You said it wasn't even about sex, you just occupied the women and sought their attention. Well, aren't we made of iron after all? As you are alone in your soul, be alone in life. Live simply and cleanly, do not force yourself to do experiments that will make others around you suffer. And when a woman appears who will really attract you with everything she wears, as she is, you will feel it, believe me.

   True love is described in the Bible in Corinthians 13. Make it hard to read it. One can experience it only if one accepts Jesus in one's heart and thus receives peace with God. It is not possible to deal with this problem alone. There are moral principles that God has created for our good, but when people go beyond these limits, harmony is disturbed and man remains empty.

   You may be a psychopath, the line is thin :)) if you are organized and manipulate people your psychopath if your actions are impulsive your sociopath: DD

   27, great nonsense. Except that a psychopath and a sociopath are one and the same, it's written in my psychiatry textbook. How do you mean these definitions sucked from the fingers do not know. Soul

   I have a terrible weakness for such men ... as I call them TTP (dumb, tattooed and simple) Why? I have no idea ... something in their self-confidence, nepotism attracts me. I am a Czech myself, I have always managed on my own in life, I am not one of those who are romantic, emotional, etc. and I am madly annoyed by such individuals because I do not feel like the woman in the relationship ... what can I tell you, I am also a sociopath and his ego against mine - although an unproductive result as a relationship, they do stunning things in bed. offf

   You may be a sociopath, but what will you choose? Years ago I was on the other extreme. Each of my days was full of emotions, feelings, love, anxiety, euphoria - I was as if intoxicated by life, but with the good things I experienced the bad and as if my soul was tired of experiencing strong emotions, now I have calmed down. For several years now, I haven't fallen in love the way I want to and I know I can. I think I'm going to your situation, but sometimes you need to rest from your feelings. The world as a whole has become cold and sometimes other people predispose you to such behavior, the important thing is not to be attached to them and to follow your own path, whatever it is ..

   I'm the same, and so far I think I've really loved only one woman who is the same sociopath: D like me. But I don't think much of that, the nasty really comes when you pretend you care. In this way, one that you are playing with the feelings of the other, that somehow nothing is real and somehow everything loses its meaning.

   The ugly are the sociopaths you describe. Beautiful people know how to truly love.

   The answer is extremely simple, you did not come across the right one and you do not go with someone because you already have feelings, but you go to have sex. So, if you base a relationship on sex alone, how far do you think you will go? So it's perfectly normal that after a breakup, you don't feel anything. Even if you call them girlfriends, your relationship is purely sexual, nothing more. This does not mean that you will not meet the right one day. But when you meet her, you will behave the old way. she will leave you and then your 'wish' not to be insensitive will be fulfilled. Pf, you do nonsense. Either say openly that you only want sex or be serious and take responsibility to build a relationship. Just what is required of you is to explain to the other person what you want. And another truth, number 2 was written by her.

   Once you care that it is possible to be a sociopath, then you show a conscience and a sense of guilt (though not strongly), which means that you are not a hopeless case. you say that women fall for sociopaths - no, you are wrong, they fall for the image that the sociopath builds for himself, and since this is something created, not real, it is like a fairy tale (image), ie. they drank and ate for 3 days and were happy for the rest of their days. But if you allow your true nature to be seen (if you really are a sociopath), I'm sorry, but you won't be tolerated for long. Even if you like the fact that you don't care, the result is always just total loneliness. I was with a typical sociopath, and I can tell you that only a woman with an IQ well below the minimum could not see your true nature. Here we are talking about an instinct for self-preservation. But, as I told you at the beginning, I don't think

   Hello! It's as if I wrote one part - I don't fall in love like the others, I'm more attached. Separation from a man I would not consider it a drama at all. Especially for psychologists, I will explain that I even know why - I am a child of a wonderful mother without self-confidence, but also of a father - absolutely cattle, who finally left her ... This ruined her, I guess I decided that no one will ever have something like this. to cause me. However, for emotions - joy, sadness, joy - I experience all this, I enjoy life. My true love turned out to be the children, as if only for them my heart was completely open.

   Another spent his childhood and adolescence in computer games young man. Read a few characteristics from psychologists of such children and adolescents and you will find yourself. A person for whom nothing is real, everything is in trouble, someone falls, falls away, dies - immediately another comes in his place, what real feelings, what love, what emotions? Death and life have no value outside of one game, people are just participants, and you are a bystander ...

   Women are looking for 2 different types of men in their lives - a strong and leading male for breeding and a weaker and more controllable man to help raise the offspring. However, civilization requires women to look for these two groups of contradictory qualities in a man and often remain dissatisfied but make compromises. This is a result of a woman's biology - when a woman is ovulating she is looking for sex with a strong male, and when she is not - she is looking for a good boy to protect and love her. It is possible for a man to combine these qualities, although difficult. Sociopathy is one of the qualities in the so-called Dark Triad, along with Machiavellianism (using others for personal gain) and narcissism (being narcissistic), which are very attractive to women, precisely because they show that the man is one of the strong who doesn't care and who sets the rules. However, attractive only to the level of "sex". After that, the woman is already looking for a better boy. n. n. search for dark triad in google.

   Hello everyone, I read the comments. Some of them were quite interesting. What particularly impressed me in the author 's text was the following: "Not so much physical infidelity as the fact that I like to see women who are smarter than my girlfriend to say, but for some reason I can't be with them for more than coffee (dinner) and possibly sex ... "Here the author has clearly said to himself, he has realized for himself what type of woman he wants for a girlfriend / boyfriend, but for a number of reasons he does not feel worthy enough for such type of women (except for sexual intercourse, as he says), does not have the confidence to build a deeper relationship with these women, does not feel confident in front of them .. ("but for some reason I can not be with them" - it would be good to write something more about these reasons, so just guess). That is why his relationships are with a more primary type of women, who satisfy him only physically, but not emotionally, because they are simply not his type .. / I would be interested to read a more detailed analysis of this very sentence of the author, because I think she has to start from here to feel better. /

   Without reading the comments - directly to the question. Why? Because every woman (well, I guess there are exceptions) has a developed maternal instinct. He makes her care, love and nurture values ​​in the other. When a woman sees a "sociopath" (or "bad boy"), a light comes on - he needs me to teach him to love, to show him that he is unhappy. Usually, however, the fact that the man does not care about these worries, although he feels caressed ego, flattered and pro. makes them attach. This attachment and the inability to cope with the mission they have set themselves makes them obsessed - which leads to suffering. I call them energy vampires like you. If you really want to change - stay alone! Loneliness is something very useful and constructive for the person and the comfort of the soul. But the desire for change in those of your breed is also only on the surface, it is just another vain pose with which to attract the next portion of energy. Usually in the life of such people something terribly painful happens at a later stage, which little by little opens their eyes or completely ruins and embitters them. They become emphatically cynical and are left alone! This is my opinion. Good luck, friend!

   On the contrary, women do not like sociopaths. learn what it is.

   I wonder what kind of man can work besides a security guard or a policeman because there are such people in these circles ...

   to number 41: Your speech is quite limited. I would say absolutely limited! You can meet such men everywhere .. It is stupid to make statistics on "your head", only according to your views .. It is terribly stupid to categorize different people according to what they do, according to what they steal their bread .. There is nothing more unfortunate than limitation!

   I love it when a layman starts diagnosing himself or others. Before you are diagnosed, go to a psychiatrist, only he has the right to make such diagnoses (I do not recommend a psychologist, because he may not be familiar with the types of personality disorders, and I think you have all become terrible "psychologists"). Yes, the behavior described is reminiscent of an antisocial personality disorder, but the symptoms are not enough. There are many unscrupulous people who are not mentally abnormal. So see a psychiatrist. And the rest - do not try to philosophize what a psychopath is, what a sociopath is, my sweethearts, thank you :)

   When I was a student I experienced a strong and great love. He betrayed me. We were together for 5 years. Finally he left with my best friend. I overcame it very hard. Then I vowed - I will marry a man who loves me madly, but I just like nothing more. And I did. Since then I have no emotions - no crying, no shivering, nothing makes me happy. Every holiday is like every weekday - an ordinary day. People like me - I'm smiling and radiant, strong and unwavering - they even admire me a lot. But the emotion - I lost it somewhere .... I recently met a man and something started to shake me again. What I deliberately left 20 years ago and never looked for more ... I realized that I was missing something only when I encountered it ... I think that you also had a breakdown some time ago and although not you realize subconsciously you try to protect yourself emotionally from injury ... And the connections you make are to find someone next to you again ... I just think you're wrong to continue them for so long ... The thrill is felt in the first minute, in the first second even - if it is not there, just go on. And don't worry, it didn't work out. Sooner or later love will find you with all its emotions :) I wish you success !!!

   Well done, 44, this is how unbalanced people with deficient motivation are created ...

   To the author of the topic: I don't think you are a sociopath. The fact that you have written this and are looking for a solution speaks of an interest on your part. You obviously think that there is a mistake in you that is uncharacteristic of a sociopath. I can only assume that you do not know what it is like to experience emotions and feelings, because you have not found yourself in a situation that would push you to do so. Advice to the author: Stop looking for excuses and excuses for your behavior. Just be yourself. Postscript: Everything written above can be ignored if we assume that I am also a sociopath.

   Hi, I found your story interesting :) But I was impressed by something: "Does this have anything to do with the word sociopath, or is there another term that suits me better?" I don't know why you want to give similar definitions for yourself or someone else. makes it. You seem to have been hurt in the past and it seems normal for you to be hurt now. Think more about what you want to be and you will be one step closer to him. :) "I guess there are people among you who understand more, but I want to learn to love and experience normal human emotions again." You experience normal human emotions and the fact that you ask yourself such questions makes you human ... - soon realized man! 1. You understand your mistakes. 2. You know what you want to be. 3. All that remains is HOW to achieve it? Emmy one piece of advice from me - step by step: ) Express yourself exactly the way you want to do it. If you want to do something nice, kind - do it. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and how you would make him feel a pleasant emotion and smile. I'm sure someone is doing it for you too, you just have to learn to notice it. :) And the last thing I want to tell you is that women don't like sociopaths, they just fall in love with the wrong person. And if it's not so much the physical infidelity you're doing, then you have relationships with the wrong girl, meet smarter and more educated girls, but just try not to hurt them. They, like you, have been injured and do you think they need more? Think about your words and actions because they have a series of consequences, some of which are irreversible. :) Put yourself in the other person's shoes and how you would make him feel a pleasant emotion and smile. I'm sure someone is doing it for you too, you just have to learn to notice it. :) And the last thing I want to tell you is that women don't like sociopaths, they just fall in love with the wrong person. And if it's not so much the physical infidelity you're doing, then you have relationships with the wrong girl, meet smarter and more educated girls, but just try not to hurt them. They, like you, have been injured and do you think they need more? Think about your words and actions because they have a series of consequences, some of which are irreversible. :) Put yourself in the other person's shoes and how you would make him feel a pleasant emotion and smile. I'm sure someone is doing it for you too, you just have to learn to notice it. :) And the last thing I want to tell you is that women don't like sociopaths, they just fall in love with the wrong person. And if it's not so much the physical infidelity you're doing, then you have relationships with the wrong girl, meet smarter and more educated girls, but just try not to hurt them. They, like you, have been injured and do you think they need more? Think about your words and actions because they have a series of consequences, some of which are irreversible. :) is that women don't like sociopaths, they just fall in love with the wrong person. And if it's not so much the physical infidelity you're doing, then you have relationships with the wrong girl, meet smarter and more educated girls, but just try not to hurt them. They, like you, have been injured and do you think they need more? Think about your words and actions because they have a series of consequences, some of which are irreversible. :) is that women don't like sociopaths, they just fall in love with the wrong person. And if it's not so much the physical infidelity you're doing, then you have relationships with the wrong girl, meet smarter and more educated girls, but just try not to hurt them. They, like you, have been injured and do you think they need more? Think about your words and actions because they have a series of consequences, some of which are irreversible. :)

   I'm antisocial too, but I hide it. I pretend to be a cheerful, funny, freely communicating person, but deep down I am a lonely, sad and very quiet person. I used to show who I am. That is, a temerut who is not interested in others. After a girl who made me for 5 stotinki, things turned 180 degrees. I became what I described myself to be in the beginning - an extremely lively, impudent, nonsense-talking individual all the time, but that's only when I'm in front of people. If I go home or am left alone, "my old self" returns. I'm starting to get scared because hiding my nature and "changing faces" won't do any good. I guess that's how the pain from the girl in question killed me. I'm kind of a clown. I paint my mask, I deceive others, but in fact I remain a man deeply closed in on myself. Another fact is that I experienced betrayals of friends and the terrible relationships of my parents, which continue to this day. Apparently all this cougar has killed in the form of a fake face that hides the real thing, but why I have no idea. Probably you, my friend, have experienced something very low to turn you into what you are. I would say it's not that bad. Don't care makes you more productive, more ambitious. Such people succeed. Separately, no one tells you what to do - I watch colleagues and colleagues are like pets, if they do not call, buy or say something to the "beloved" the world is over. And since you know that no one cares about you and it becomes easier for you. which continue to this day. Apparently all this cougar has killed in the form of a fake face that hides the real thing, but why I have no idea. Probably you, my friend, have experienced something very low to turn you into what you are. I would say it's not that bad. Don't care makes you more productive, more ambitious. Such people succeed. Separately, no one tells you what to do - I watch colleagues and colleagues are like pets, if they do not call, buy or say something to the "beloved" the world is over. And since you know that no one cares about you and it becomes easier for you. which continue to this day. Apparently all this cougar has killed in the form of a fake face that hides the real thing, but why I have no idea. Probably you, my friend, have experienced something very low to turn you into what you are. I would say it's not that bad. Don't care makes you more productive, more ambitious. Such people succeed. Separately, no one tells you what to do - I watch colleagues and colleagues are like pets, if they do not call, buy or say something to the "beloved" the world is over. And since you know that no one cares about you and it becomes easier for you. that it's not that bad. Don't care makes you more productive, more ambitious. Such people succeed. Separately, no one tells you what to do - I watch colleagues and colleagues are like pets, if they do not call, buy or say something to the "beloved" the world is over. And since you know that no one cares about you and it becomes easier for you. that it's not that bad. Don't care makes you more productive, more ambitious. Such people succeed. Separately, no one tells you what to do - I watch colleagues and colleagues are like pets, if they do not call, buy or say something to the "beloved" the world is over. And since you know that no one cares about you and it becomes easier for you.

   Oh yes, you have nothing to do with sociopaths - they avoid both sexes, and the term that suits you better is "complex";)

   I agree with 50, you are not a sociopath, just a disillusioned Yuoshek, with certain problems. The sociopath is born that way, he doesn't analyze himself, he just does what is ok for him.

   Because they are dumb ducks.

   Your story is old, but I will comment anyway. You explain yourself too much, and as I look, most people don't seem to understand what you're saying. I personally would like to be insensitive just like you (I envy you;)) Because .. people just hurt you .. they don't even realize they are doing it, and it hurts .. Be who you are and don't change .. Because love is a very strong thing, and after it comes the pain, which in many cases can ruin you .. 2 years have passed since your story .. I wonder how you have developed in the last 2 years and what has happened to you ... -C :))