Hello, I ask the above question and let people with more and more diverse experience answer me. I want some normal dialogue to take place. We don't need to involve moralists to spit on us or others who don't have a job and wonder what to do. And so. I am 50 years old and have been married for 23 years. My wife and I have a wonderful sex life, we have sex about three times a week. We also practice anal sex. I manage to satisfy her well, I always make French love. On average, the act between us lasts between 30 and 50 minutes. For our years, this is good. She gets both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm. We practice anal sex once a month at her request, I do not mind and it always goes great. After the birth of our 2nd child, my wife put on a mascara and I have been cumming in it for many years. I have had a mistress for a year. Here the case is more special. She has been a widow for 8 years. We are the same age. She is still your first girl in life, and I am her first boy, ie we have known each other for years. My relationship with her is purely sexual and at her insistence. She felt sorry for her husband for two years and then went looking for a relationship. She has twice dated men on the Internet and no longer wants to deal with "freaks", as she puts it. When I have sex with her I end very quickly and she has a hard time reaching orgasm. I don't know why this happens, as I said at home, I don't have these problems. We always do it with a condom. I prepare it well enough with caresses, caresses, oral love. However, when I penetrated her within 10 minutes, I was done and I filled the condom quite a lot. After 15 minutes we repeat the same thing. For the third time, it is already completely dry and we don't do it anymore. I tried to interrupt the act, ie before I emptied to get it out, but that doesn't help either, because then it comes to me again quickly and I finish. So we change positions, but the result is the same. I did something else: I finished before the act, when she gave me a whistle or a Turkish chick. Then, however, the same thing happened again and within 15 minutes I was done again. She did not give birth naturally, but only by caesarean section, so the bottom is quite narrow and her pelvis is smaller. This is my first mistress, I have not cheated before. And from this point of view they are not on any mental basis. I offered to find another one, but she refused and wanted us to try, saying that she felt very at ease with me. We only see each other once a month. We both don't have more time. I will be happy to read reviews. Thanks also to the editors.
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Congratulations on having the capacity for both!
Author, ask your wife about the problem with your mistress. She will give you the right advice. :) I wish you success!
It's a little weird that this is written by a 50-year-old man (if the story isn't fake). Since you write that you and your wife have a wonderful sex life, why is she your mistress?
I only answer the title because I can't read it down. In my opinion, because with a woman you feel more confident in yourself, you do not worry about your body, about how you will present yourself, etc. While with your mistress, as you have some such worries.
Since you have a good sexual relationship with your wife, why are you cheating on her ... WHY !? What do you miss...
Ask your wife. Success! PS - To come back to you. :)
Yes, I have a problem, some people your age can't lift the plane, let alone go to bed with a stopwatch and a weight for a full condom. In fact, the age of the author is in doubt - I still want to believe that men in their 50s do not write such things here, but does anyone know who is slapping what. Your job looks like the old joke about the director where the balls hurt.
You worry with your mistress subconsciously or you have a great thrill for her and you get very aroused.
You just know your wife's body better, as well as her sexual desires. For the mistress, I can say that it depends on how you perceive her body, the sex positions you prefer and how she predisposes you to sex. You need time to adjust. It is good that you have the capacity for two women, and I will tell the villains "to look after their wives", as they cannot give useful advice to the author.
11 - what advice should we give a 50-year-old old stick how to knock aside, huh? Even if it ends in 1 hour? Well, like in a joke - to eat 2 waffles and drink 1 lemonade. Learned and tested in practice by one student.
You came to the conclusion yourself - it is narrow and the feeling is of something new and different. With the mistress you feel safe and leave yourself in the throes of excitement. On average, sexual intercourse lasts 7-15 minutes, but as with blood, there are exceptions.
The difference is always more exciting, that's the reason. Your wife hardly has anything to surprise you with after such a long partnership, while the mistress is still a provocation. In her place I would help you as after the act, when you have already finished, you reached orgasm on your own - with a vibrator or with your hand, to make sure that I also had pleasure. I have no problem with my husband and I usually finish first, but if he overtakes me I do just that and we are all happy.
At 50, once a week sex with your wife and once a month with the mistress, with whom you end quickly ??? But did you really take us for such canaries? Alive to pity you
The solution to the problem - because everything is in the brain, when you fuck your mistress, close your eyes and think about your wife, you seem to have had a lot to do with her, haven't you? The opposite is usually done, but you are the exception. :)))
Because you have to dump your mistress! Dragan Vitello
Because, in our opinion, you are already in the male menopause, both mentally and physically. And yes, ask your wife?
Try choking or slapping, it may work.
The gypsy woman who praises you has died, author, why not brag about yourself. A 50-year-old man who has 50 minutes of sex? That he repeats? That his wife is not enough, so he has a mistress? Hepten took us for canaries. Free advice from me - look after your grandchildren, instead of doing nonsense and taking pills for your blood - your age is risky, do not overdo it.
Author, after thinking for a while, I found another solution to your problem, that you can't show your mistress what a great tramp you are. The solution, like everything ingenious, is very simple - you make a castling. You take your mistress for a wife and your wife for a mistress. This will flatten them both for 1 hour. In general, you look like a well-fed rat to me, who, although not hungry, falls into the trap of the smelly cheese, just to click the door. And this will happen one day.
It's not bad to have sex here and there, but you do these things without your wife's consent, given that it's not known if she'll stay with you if she finds out. You live in a lie that makes everything else meaningless. I hope you and men like you don't mind and your wife cheats on you, so that the relationship is open and no one gets angry, otherwise you play unfairly! :);) Every man who cheats deserves the same from his wife if he wants to keep her or leave her to live.
I keep wondering ... this Darwin must have forgotten to tell us something ..., for example, that men come from pigs. Author, I sincerely wish your wife to arrange you with a pair of large, beautiful, branched horns. But to understand it in the most humiliating way and to stop lifting it at all.
So why swear and spit on a man? Lots of crazy comments. Doesn't he read you? His mistress was the first girl in her life and he was her first boy. There is sentiment here. In this case, we need you to be so mean.
If your wife becomes a mistress and the mistress a wife, the problem will be solved! ;)