Hello. My question is more focused on men, but women can also get involved. In short, I have been communicating for a long time with a very fickle man, a little older than me (he is 22). Our relationship is built on constant mixed signals that leave me terribly confused. When we see each other, he behaves so wonderfully that if I didn't know him, I would have decided that he was in love. And here comes the impermanence - it suddenly disappears and does not look for me for a month. I reluctantly refused to write to him, disappearing like that - I realize that he has no serious intentions towards me. But one thing annoys me that I can't explain. As if he hadn't been looking for me for a month, he suddenly wrote to me. After "hello, how are you" he always tells me that he missed me and wanted to see how I was. Well, that's the end of our great conversation, at most we can exchange one or two more sentences and leave me alone. Naturally until next month at this time, when the same story is repeated. I don't even want to communicate with this person anymore and I'm better off not looking for me, but because of some empty feelings when he writes to me, I'm responsible every time, which makes me angry with myself. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not. My question is why does this whole thing do it? Checks if I forgot it by accident or? I will be happy to see what you think about it and if you can give me advice if it happens again what to do to see that I am not interested in it even if it is not.
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Just don't answer. Point. You still have weak angels, but just don't answer. To burst with wonder.
He just keeps you in the gold reserve - if he wants something and there is no other alternative Tip: It's up to you how long you will last it, if you don't want to waste your time anymore, just block it. Life is too short to be complicated by another guy who is not aware of himself, G40
I don't think he has any serious intentions towards you. He probably has a basic connection and is just scratching his ego with you.
One frivolous word ... Block and move on, don't waste your time ... Without that, he doesn't waste his time with you.
There are many options to behave in this way, but for whatever reason, one thing is clear - you excite him enough, neither emotionally nor physically. What you can do is stop wasting your time with such a person, and so that you are not tempted to answer his stupid "ZDR, how are you, or do you remember me, or how do you drive it", or whatever is there, you just delete it from all the places you've communicated so far. You don't say anything about the other side of things, and I'm not a fortune teller - you've probably had sex before, he probably hasn't promised you anything, but now he's checking to see if you've found a new boyfriend to stop bothering him. I also admit there was another one (even before he met you), he tried, he didn't like it, he came back and keeps trying elsewhere.
Because he's a tailor ... not a serious man with whom you should have cut off all communication a long time ago. You can see for yourself that he is fickle, such men think themselves irresistible and are used to almost every woman responding to their urges. But only that ... when they decide ... around them, there are always at least two - three who turn them and whose turn it is. If he is intrigued by something more, he will be more regular with the demand and the other, of course. But still, after a week, two, three ... he gets bored and it's the other's turn. That's why it may not reflect on you for a whole month. I find such men very funny and pathetic. But they don't grow with me. I can smell them from afar ... You better not answer him at all as he writes. let him wonder why you are doing it ... to hurt his ego the most ... and to become more insistent, even though it will be day to noon. Complete ignore and that's it.
The conclusion is one, he has an interest and he shows it to you unequivocally! The question is what do you do with this information? The answer is nothing! You're not doing anything! Once you like him and it is clear to you that he has an interest in you, after writing to you month after month, it is obvious that he expects you to show interest as well! Instead, you pretend to be a nun, difficult and inaccessible, and show no signs of life! Act girl, things will not end on their own, if you want a good relationship take personal responsibility and accept that you have to make things happen instead of waiting for things to happen to you and waiting for happiness to fall from the sky. If you just wait, they only expect disappointments.
He scratched his ego, and I think so. And most likely you really are a backup option for him. The question is, author, what do you want - to stop all communication or to play with it. If it's the first one, just block it - the monthly messages will stop and you'll calm down. If you want to play him - do not block him, but stop answering him. If you have the opportunity, upload a photo like this - from a party, with friends and some cool dude around, with a sexy outfit ......... and just stand and see what happens. However, keep your emotions under control and do not expect serious relationships - this type of men are not suitable for a relationship, but only for a game - the trick is to play with them, not you with you.
Hello. This individual you described is an absolutely sick brain. The best solution is to block it. If you can't block it, let someone else block it for you. Such sick brains should not be given a gram of chance or hope for anything more. I wish you health and success !!!
There may be another reason for his behavior. How well do you know him? Because drug addicts often have similar behavior in their intimate life. I know from experience.
We haven't had sex, and he's not a drug addict, he just deals with a lot of girls, he didn't tell me, but I know. It was foolish of me to think anything would happen. Thanks for the advice!