Hi, I have perhaps the strangest problem that I don't know if has happened to you. I am an 18 year old girl. I have a new friend of about 4 months. In the beginning, my friend really wanted us to do it, but either I was in pain down there or he wasn't wearing a condom. One day we almost did it, but I don't know why his member failed to get into me, we changed about three condoms and it never happened, he wasn't erect enough or I don't know, but that's not the problem. From that day on, he didn't want us to do it, he just wanted it with his fingers. Several times I tried to hint to him that I wanted something more, and he only told me that he was tired when he hinted to us to continue in another way. I don't know if my property does something or? A friend told me he might be ashamed, he defended quickly, but I once talked to him and said I knew that the first time with the boys they end very quickly, three or four insertions, but he was super surprised to tell me that this was not the case (my friend told me that he had done it two or three times). Please help me if any of you have shared or if anyone can think of a reason. Probably many of you will tell me to ask him personally, but people are ashamed of me and I just can't ... and I really want to know the reason. Thank you in advance.
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What is this relationship where you are ashamed to talk to your partner .. Otherwise on the topic - make it nice and insert it yourself, there is hardly a man who would not be happy about it, especially if he is more shy
The reason is clear, he is small and can't push it hard enough to fix you, so he worries and avoids you.
Well, he can't do it and he's afraid of being exposed again. Not that he's tired.
100% does not work for him! Or there is another you are a reserve but he certainly has a problem! For whom he stubbornly hides and is silent, men are ashamed to share with their wives. He is much more ashamed of you ... Either change him or ask for a direct explanation for all this. Please write what happened. - Good luck
Exactly the problem is that it doesn't work for him and that's why he wants to replace his member with his fingers. Apparently he knew from the beginning that he couldn't but obviously he wants to have a boyfriend. But if you are normal, I would not tolerate this because if there is no sex in a relationship, then this is not a relationship but a friendship.
From the author: I forgot to say that I don't think my friend is small and I'm sure it works for him, based on what I feel :)
Because you've tried once and it didn't work out, he's worried about it happening again. For most men, it is important to be able to satisfy their girlfriend and accept sex as something they should be good at. Your worries that you will think of him as a bad partner in sex, that you will judge him or secretly laugh at him in front of girlfriends. This stops him, there is no way his desire has suddenly disappeared, and with his fingers it can still be tiring, so he was hardly so tired. On your first try, either you weren't wet enough and you were worried, this sometimes causes a slight contraction, or it wasn't firm enough to be able to get it. There is nothing shameful about talking about your intimate relationship, it is even advisable to be happy and not to guess what the other thinks and wants. Start telling him he's attracted to you, that the first attempt does not bother you, that there is no problem even if it takes a little longer until you succeed. Drink very little alcohol with a nice dinner and watch a movie, start kissing it, touching it, and then undressing it. When you're naked, don't rush, he may fall if he's worried, so be patient. If you see that it is not hard enough, it does nothing more than that, settle for another way, do not force things to penetrate. Repeat several times in the evening, if necessary, until he is excited enough not to think too much, then tell him that you want him in you and show initiative. Don't be ashamed, he wants to sleep with you and there is absolutely no problem, just let go of your worries. Drink very little alcohol with a nice dinner and watch a movie, start kissing it, touching it, and then undressing it. When you're naked, don't rush, he may fall if he's worried, so be patient. If you see that it is not hard enough, it does nothing more than that, settle for another way, do not force things to penetrate. Repeat several times in the evening, if necessary, until he is excited enough not to think too much, then tell him that you want him in you and show initiative. Don't be ashamed, he wants to sleep with you and there is absolutely no problem, just let go of your worries. Drink very little alcohol with a nice dinner and watch a movie, start kissing it, touching it, and then undressing it. When you're naked, don't rush, he may fall if he's worried, so be patient. If you see that it is not hard enough, it does nothing more than that, settle for another way, do not force things to penetrate. Repeat several times in the evening, if necessary, until he is excited enough not to think too much, then tell him that you want him in you and show initiative. Don't be ashamed, he wants to sleep with you and there is absolutely no problem, just let go of your worries. that it is not hard enough, does nothing more than that, be content in another way, do not force things to penetrate. Repeat several times in the evening, if necessary, until he is excited enough not to think too much, then tell him that you want him in you and show initiative. Don't be ashamed, he wants to sleep with you and there is absolutely no problem, just let go of your worries. that it is not hard enough, does nothing more than that, be content in another way, do not force things to penetrate. Repeat several times in the evening, if necessary, until he is excited enough not to think too much, then tell him that you want him in you and show initiative. Don't be ashamed, he wants to sleep with you and there is absolutely no problem, just let go of your worries.
Sex is not for children.
Because there are erection problems. Ž
Why do they allow such stupid topics to be uploaded? Only 8 topics above there is a topic with exactly the same title, only "Is this normal?" Is added. Kids, find some other activity and as long as you have covered the site with your fabrications!
He doesn't necessarily have an erection problem, he's more likely to worry because the first time you didn't succeed, at least I think so. When I had sex for the first time, I couldn't finish at the beginning and then I barely finished with the check because I was worried, and in general I don't have such a problem.
His condom may be small. I had such a situation - the wrong size and fell like a fallen German. Then I took measures and I have no problems.
Hi, I just want to tell you that the problem is not always with the boy, it may be with you. Maybe you don't excite him enough. ;)