Hello, at the age of 16 I am very confused. I just don't know where to start. It all happened during the winter holidays when I first met him, namely the boy I love madly. Our mutual friends introduced us and that's where it all started. I liked him the first time I saw him. He, he, and our friends went out together for a whole week, but nothing happened, even though I wanted so much. So by the time I realized the vacation was over, and I was so engrossed ... It was Saturday and we all agreed, as always to go to a disco, of course he was there. All night I tried to get his attention by stealing at least one look or a smile from him. It had already happened, around 4 o'clock in the morning and I had to leave, I was just saying goodbye to the others when he pulled me away and said: "right now you can't leave",
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If he told you it was a pea, then he didn't deserve it! Accept that you also make a mistake by wasting your time in tears. Your man is somewhere out there - just find him!
Hello dear! I have the same problem. You better give it up! Does not deserve you! There is no point in poisoning your life with such fools! I was poisoned for a long time and to no avail. I hope you don't suffer much and forget it, there will be others like him, there will be more and don't worry about him! GOOD LUCK!!!
I have experience in this. It happened to me recently ... but I'm glad it happened, because I realized how many times I've been so deluded ... that someone thinks of me, that he loves me, that there is hope, and in fact everything is a delusion .. I have encountered this several times and I have learned not to indulge in misconceptions about feelings and love, to be able to distinguish the real from the imagined by ourselves. Ie I want to tell you to really forget about this boy, another one will come. There is no point in pretending that he loves you, that he thinks of you and will return to you one day. Why do you have to suffer while he's having fun somewhere. And I can't completely forget my boy, but in time I've thrown him out of my mind. I see that there are much more valuable people around me who deserve my love :))) I'm sure there are such people around you,
Hi, you know I'm crazy in love too. But he doesn't even look at me! You probably know how it is. I recommend you dump this bastard! Fools like him don't deserve to have a girl like you! He'll probably say "what does she understand" because I'm only 11, but you know I know what it's like to love a boy who doesn't pay attention to you!
I also have this problem only that everything happened on New Year's Eve. We danced together all night and kissed like a real couple. The next day he pretended not to remember. I confessed my feelings to him, but now it's worse and we're just hello, he doesn't write to me or talk to me. This torments me and I can't give you any advice because I know how you feel. After all, I myself feel that way, maybe we should listen to the advice of others that we should forget them. Although it may sound easy, getting older will certainly be a very difficult task. I wish you luck !!!
And I'm so he doesn't pay attention to me and I don't have the courage to tell him what I'm feeling for him.
And what is the lesson, girls - think first of all about yourself. Rejoice that you got rid of only kissing and writing, because when you grow up, boys like this (if you don't start thinking rationally) will take more and dump you. I'm sorry it happened, but life goes on. There is nothing you can change - his heart is probably broken at the moment and he is afraid of another relationship. He did well to end the contact, he's obviously more mature than you. It sounds cruel and banal - but you will overcome it, time heals. Concentrate on other things like learning, friends, family and STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM. My sister from such a childhood love affair ruined her life, there are girls who get anorexia ..... be careful
You know what, you better really forget it, there's no point in wasting your time with such an individual!
I am in love with an Italian, I am 26 years old, he is 24, with whom we became friends. Because I have a health problem and I let him read about it and then I asked him what impressed him, because he said something interesting after reading it. His answer was to talk about such personal things only with men. And now I don't know if we will continue to be friends.