I'm not on my own and I can't take it anymore. I am twenty years old. I tried! I wrote to a dozen girls, provided I was the type of very shy boy. But a miracle happened and I relaxed. But because I am antisocial by necessity. I have listed all the dating sites I know. And I wrote ... I wrote to all the girls I liked. All as they suggest a ... so to speak character. But no and no. One "Hello" I did not receive. And I tried. I tried very hard! I approached delicately. And I don't know why the result was nothing? I asked them where the problem was but no hyphen. No answer. It was as if they had been paid to remain silent. Like I don't exist at all? I'm going crazy. From shame to rage of hopelessness, anger erupted from helplessness ... because I don't get an answer. What's wrong with me? In principle, I am very sensitive and I would do anything for a girl. Because I am a hopeless romantic. And the irony is that I can't practice. Because he doesn't give me a chance. They are no longer attracted by roses and lyrical words ... deep conversations and candles in the dark. Well, gilded perches ... torn jeans. shaggy beards and abdominal plates. I may not appeal to them. This is almost certain. But I just didn't get a "Hello" ... Am I an animal? Why so ... girls? Why are you like that ???
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Don't deal with dating sites. This worked 10 years ago, at least to some extent. It's full now and I don't know what ... they're definitely not human ...
They probably want you to see that you are interested in them and they make you interesting. And even without that, those on the sites are the biggest garbage, when someone writes to them, they don't answer, and when someone writes to them, they want to write to them, they answer. Such is the female nature.
Write to more modest girls and the result will be different, with 100 likes they consider themselves special and write only with selected rich people and their peers. And if you yourself do not have a picture of your even more difficult work
Whether they will answer you the first time depends on what you have written. If you offer them sex or a serious relationship from the first sentence, it would be difficult to succeed, although it may work for some girls. Vision is also important. Also, uploading photos where you are in the company of other girls will be more successful than uploading photos where you are in the company of boys. There are many fake profiles on these sites.
Man, don't look for a girl from various sites and such nonsense. Imagine how much *** people write to them a day? How does the girl know if you are aware or if you are the next one. Try to be among people, go out, socialize. That's how you get depressed.
And I was wondering for a while. Then I realized that half of the profiles are fake, and the other half come in just to boost their self-esteem and have no intention of dating. A small percentage are paychecks that are knocked overnight. But something serious to come out of such a site ... Fuck this job. Looking for a real girl in real life. The other is that it is physically impossible to meet everyone. Make a fake female profile and you will see for yourself what it is all about.
Boooje, sitting and wondering about some virtual profiles! Well, they can be fake, old, anything is possible! Eeeee, this generation will forget how to communicate with people LIVE !!! Get OUT and try there! F45
Many men write to women and girls with nice photos, you have to stand out with something. Drop the candles and romance, they are for a later stage. Put a cool picture and just write "Hello".
Brother, it's obvious why they don't answer you. You are illiterate.
My brother has been hanging out on these sites for 10 years and is constantly connected to him, but his messages are intelligent and intriguing. You can't write, "Hello, I liked your profile, do you want to meet me?" And expect to be answered. Try to stand out from the crowd and not look like you're desperately looking for a girlfriend. The latter will drive away 99% of women.
No health. With a serious approach. "Hi, I'm a super serious bachelor, I don't know jokes and I'm a cane." and if he will answer. 4-5% would answer if you are lucky enough to catch them at the right time of the month, unattached, fed, bathed and bored. Write to 2-3 thousand and then complain. Then go out a bit to see that it's not like this and talk there 2-3 thousand, trying DIFFERENT approaches.
Firstly, half of the profiles may be fake, secondly, even if there is a woman on the other side, she can just kill time at the moment instead of looking for a person to contact and thirdly, she can currently chat with 15 other people and it's not up to her to answer you. You better look for a girlfriend in real life. On the Internet, anyone can lie, and few people look at these sites as a place to start a real relationship. They are more for killing time or for a light flirtation and possibly if you are looking for a person for 1 night, but for a serious relationship-absurd! Do not waste your time, but find some activity that will encourage you to be among people. There you have a much better chance to find a girlfriend with interests close to yours. Because even if a muffin answers you on a website, what? In 5 minutes he'll cut you off when he finds out
The problem is only in you and your attitudes
From the Author: As I mentioned at the beginning - I try to be terribly delicate .. I do not suggest that I want intimate contact .. on the contrary - I wrote to them almost on {caps lock} that I am not interested in sex. Just a chat ... I don't make them touch me or touch them. I don't make them go out ... but I have "simplified" things as much as possible ... to a "hello / hello, how are you? What is your hobby?" But no .. it's like asking them "What's the weather with you" and they think you're telling them "Are here tonight..on that .. marriage children" nonsense .. NO! I write to them as I write to a child. Calm down. Clean. Understandable. As he needs with one person. Like a friend with a friend. BUT I've tried anyway. I tried with compliments. Although I think it's banal. And especially I would not use it against intelligent girls who just know that they are not the only ones with "beautiful eyes" .. it is worn out and I understand. I'm not clumsy. I know what to say and how to say it. E .. not alive but. Let's go back to the question - What prevents them from saying a damn "HELLO" wow .... that suffocates me straight. Crazy work. Have people become boring and emotionless or am I more sensitive? : D
When I was 16-18 years old I struggled on these sites but there was no use. Many people register just like that and forget to log in or look for nothing and don't care to write.
No. 6 is right. I would even say that 80% are fake. The creators of the site themselves create fake profiles for marketing purposes. The others who are actually are only entered for the rating ... ie for the purpose of competing of some sort. Digitists. For example, which one will you like more, diamonds, virtual gifts, etc. Don't be silly at all. You will be crippled emotionally. Ah! He doesn't look for them in the clubs either. There are only whores. Whores have requirements to the sky and are able to judge you from top to bottom for 1/4 second. Some of them look like smart girls, not just inflatable dolls - but they are the most dangerous. They will humiliate you and shake up complexes you didn't even think about. If you want to find a girlfriend, the best way is a colleague. If you work in one place, you will not only have time to get to know each other, but it will also mean that you are from the same rug.
As such a girl who does not answer, I will tell you. They write to many strangers a day and they only answer to their friends or possibly to some very cool dude.
I went this way with the sites and it used to be a nice chat, but recently I decided to go back to see the situation, but it's full of bots and fake profiles .. my advice is to repeat as above, do not waste time with these sites, because they no longer do this job from many years ago, try it on Facebook, but as long as you make an appointment ... don't despair at 20, damn it! M29.
I am a woman. I have profiles on such sites - I have never dated anyone from there. I'm just having fun. And why don't they answer you? Well, I go to a site and get 50 messages (I'm not exaggerating). What is the chance to see yours ?!
I am a 22 year old woman. When I was 14 I had a registration on a dating site, but ... I was a naive, pure child. I met two twin brothers. One of us is friends to this day, it's been almost 9 years. We have shared so much for a long time and widely. He experienced his first boyfriend and kept sharing with me, half a year ago he broke up with great love and kept writing to me. We met once in less than 2 hours, to meet .. Over the years he fell for me, but he delicately told me because he knows there is no chance. This is my only visit to such a site, I have always said to myself that dating is a REALITY. You live in a terrible delusion, so take steps to correct yourself. Profiles are a delusion ... In all sites. My fiancé has registered on such sites as 20 years old and younger ... He wrote at the age of 30. I can't believe it was such a complex, but it's a fact. Everyone go out, sign up for something, find a way to be outside. Meet live ..
I knocked a lot of women out of these sites. Years ago I fucked them from sites like Dir.bg or Mirc chat. But nowadays, Badu and Tinder do a great job. I can tell you, however, that nothing serious can come out of there! Rather just sex. There are two types of women who go there desperate for sex and desperate for a relationship, ie. seeking love after failures in real life. In the end, it's all about sex again. Although I'm almost done with this nonsense live it's live you like knocking, not to bloom some poop 100kg. with fake photos. I had amazing curiosities. The problem is in you and not only live but when I look at online dating.
15, there is your mistake. You go there for a date, sex, etc., not to talk about the weather. This is a dating site, not a forum. Of course, you have to be more interesting and inventive, because there are too many elementary people there and you have to stand out somehow, but also be direct. Still, 99% of them are fake or have no intention of going out at all.
In Elmaz, most profiles are not real. Some (mostly those of women with beautiful photos) were created by the owners of Diamond, in order to mislead and attract more male users to pay a subscription "Diamond Extra". These female profiles predominate, whose owners want to artificially inflate their lack of self-confidence. The fact that 20-100 tensioners per hour write to them makes them feel wanted and significant - something that is completely missing in their real life, because no one there shaves them for plums. It is no coincidence that there is a famous expression: "I know you personally and in real life you are not 130 likes in 20 minutes". :) Other of the deceptive female profiles are actually of men hiding behind the photos of women and the reasons for this are different, but still disrespectful and even perverted. There are also a number of pedophiles, psychics and rapists among them. There are also many aunts who are bored at work, lazy clerks, pensioners and / or ugly / fat male haters, who soak there with foreign female photos with the idea to unload their day and waste both their time and especially that of the writers. their men. A small part of the fake female profiles are also of women who are there with a foreign female photo in order to test how faithful their husband / boyfriend / boyfriend is to them. I know a few of them from Elmaz, and in fact I have the easiest time arranging meetings with them on a friendly basis, because they are looking for a vent. I even had a relationship with one, but she turned out to be pathologically jealous for not the slightest reason on my part and I decided not to poison my life with prejudiced people who half an hour ago changed their mood from friendly to offensive and vice versa. Otherwise she's supposed to be right, but with a broken psyche from her previous one, there seems to be no cure for her. I also went out with several women from Elmaz, who later turned out to be single mothers, looking for a payer to look after them and provide them with a home, food and everything else, plus caring for their child by another man (who is always talked about with a hater). language). So these don't shine either, because they are also very bad with the psyche and have allowed the whole male to blame their problems for being attacked by some mold. Well, so, author ... It is almost 100% certain that in Elmaz and its similar dating pages you will waste your very valuable time, which you will never be able to get back! Upstairs, several people have rightly advised you to dump this deceptive bottomless pit called the Web and move on to live dating. Indeed, the greatest opportunities are found among colleagues or in some common hobbies, clubs, etc .. You can also sign up to visit a gym (in English "fitness") - not so much in order to take off a chick there ( most of them fall in love and purposefully go there to look for dumps of the bigger and generously inflated types), enough to improve your shape and live and feel more confident in yourself! This will make you more liked, or at least much less obvious that you are quiet and shy at heart. Don't go behind the screen at home, but spend as much time outside as possible, which means both in society and among women in particular. While you are at home, no decent woman will notice you behind the deceptive wall of the Internet. You can watch the following videos, which are in English, but if you understand at least a little, they will help you answer some questions and be better prepared when communicating with women. Of course, it does not apply to everyone, but it applies in full force to the majority of young Bulgarian women: https: // www. youtube. com / watch? v = XQOCi0MMJ9s If you want, take a look at the topic "Why do most Bulgarian women have a very wrong opinion of themselves !?", which I created in this section months ago. http: // share. net / 4 / story-132765. html In it, a number of people have shared valuable personal experiences and advice that are worth reading by the still not very experienced men, still facing the illogical behavior of many of today's young Bulgarian women and wondering why this happens. We men are much more primary, consistent and logical in our actions, and maybe that's why we expect the same from a woman's naivety, but it is very rare for a woman (especially between the ages of 18-30) to act logically and not subject to public attitudes arising from the harmful influence of distorted music videos, magazines or the opinions of her friends. I will also write a new post in it shortly, which will partly apply to men like you, who are about to learn many, many new life lessons. I wish you success! :)
Why why, well go out into the real world and ask them. You don't remember that another 100 tins like you talk about them in the tinder.
I am a woman and I am registered on a dating site. When someone writes to me, I review the profile, photos, information and if I like it, I answer. I don't see it bad to look for a girlfriend on the sites. There are all kinds of them, but I also met a lot of intelligent and valuable people from there. Exactly from a dating site I have had a crazy love affair with a man for almost three years now. We have different types with him, different tastes for style, music, different companies, professions, etc. It was very unlikely to meet him in real life, in a restaurant, in a park, at work.
He is not looking for women there, but in real life. In these sites, half of the profiles are fake, the others are some 40-50 aunts, or bored married. All you have to do is see how long someone has been registered to make it clear to you. If her registration is over 5-6 or more years, it doesn't look for anything, it just kills time. Same with the men there. One has been on this site since 2008, another since 2006. Such people only seek sex and kill time. So before you write to anyone, look at when it's been there. They seem to want a relationship, children, and they have been hanging out on such a site for almost 10 years. Half of the men there are bachelors of 40, reverse, or married. Rarely are there decent people with whom you can have a normal conversation. Even a friendship from such a site is hard to tie. Look for women in real life, colleagues, or if you are studying with a fellow student. Go out more often.
Hello! :)Do you work? Are you studying? It is very likely that a girl will like you where you see each other every day, but you have your head on the screen and you do not see what is happening around you. Just look around and I don't think that in these sites you will find someone decent ... you better go somewhere to a bar, disco, restaurant with friends, you can meet someone everywhere. Think more positively, think that you are cool precisely because you do not have a perch, torn jeans and tiles, be positive. Then you will see how the girls will look at you on the streets and then just give them a slight smile, if they look long go and talk. I wish you success :)
When people like you write to me on Facebook, I don't answer them either. I only answer people I know from the real world. Alpha, w. 30 years
I answer people like him when they write to me and they are nice, because he can't write me some nonsense or offer me sex ... And if he can write spelling, it's great. Maybe the girls think you're a pervert and don't want to answer you. I wish you good luck and I agree with number 29, you probably don't notice that someone likes you.
I think you really need a little barracks for you, to harden your tender souls, to learn to resist yourself, to become men, and not at the age of 25-30 to consider yourself a boy. Around you full of women, you're sitting letters on the net to line them up? That you and the children will want to do in the virtual? And you are becoming more and more one where you are afraid and you cannot meet a woman.
TO NUMBER 4 "Also, if you upload photos where you are in the company of other girls, you will be more successful than if you upload photos where you are in the company of boys." is a womanizer and even more I would NOT answer him.