Why Don't We Understand Each Other?

   Tell us how old you are to think about where these problems may come from! .....

   From the author: Well I'm 21 she's 20! I even think we've both outgrown our ages!

   Hi, that's how it was for me. And I'm 21. Looking back, the problem specifically between us was the relationship with each other. She put her "problems" above everything and wanted everything to go her way. I was bothered by work and a thousand other things and I couldn't pay 100% attention to her. I guess things are the same with you. From there we got a little nervous and then we fought. Otherwise, she was (and still is :) a great person, but the attitude towards me was like a person without problems, who should take care of her and please her 24/7. Unfortunately, we could not overcome this (and she is now outside Bulgaria). The only thing I would advise you is to talk, to make surprises, to diversify the relationship. If you can, take her out of town. Make her respect you as a person and not picky (the same goes for you). Your girlfriend should be a person to rely on, to share, to love, but not to get on your nerves. If you're both nervous about other things, get on your nerves before you see each other. The ideas here are - fitness, running, driving a car at night and listening to soothing music, seeing friends, getting drunk in a pub ... (I give the ideas to myself, I'm sure you have better ones). + this sport brings you serotonin in the brain, which is the hormone of happiness (I write from memory, it may not be true). So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) to share, to love, but not to get on your nerves. If you're both nervous about other things, get on your nerves before you see each other. The ideas here are - fitness, running, driving a car at night and listening to soothing music, seeing friends, getting drunk in a pub ... (I give the ideas to myself, I'm sure you have better ones). + this sport brings you serotonin in the brain, which is the hormone of happiness (I write from memory, it may not be true). So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) to share, to love, but not to get on your nerves. If you're both nervous about other things, get on your nerves before you see each other. The ideas here are - fitness, running, driving a car at night and listening to soothing music, seeing friends, getting drunk in a pub ... (I give the ideas to myself, I'm sure you have better ones). + this sport brings you serotonin in the brain, which is the hormone of happiness (I write from memory, it may not be true). So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) running, driving a car at night and listening to soothing music, seeing friends, getting drunk in a pub ... (I give the ideas for myself, I'm sure you have better ones). + this sport brings you serotonin in the brain, which is the hormone of happiness (I write from memory, it may not be true). So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important that there is a desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) running, driving a car at night and listening to soothing music, seeing friends, getting drunk in a pub ... (I give the ideas for myself, I'm sure you have better ones). + this sport brings you serotonin in the brain, which is the hormone of happiness (I write from memory, it may not be true). So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;) So when you see each other you will be so happy that you see her that you will not be annoyed with her :) These are of course just ideas, I do not know the specific situation. However, it is important to have the desire on both sides to overcome the problem. Good luck dude;)

   Be as much time together as possible, find a common language, common interests, comply with her opinion. Be by her side in difficult times, I don't see exactly where the problem is, but it's best to talk to her about your feelings and obstacles. This way the folds will be exposed !!! I don't know, brother: But I will wish you SUCCESS ... From № 1

   You are still immature .... This is it. And your love is not Love, but one of the many, but not the TRUE one!

   I have a girlfriend who regrets gular. Her mother and father want to go to London to work there, but she doesn't want to be separated from us and we from her. Without that, she doesn't know the language and they say something, she won't know who to study. I don't want to lose my best friend. If she calms down, I'm very sad. Please help me.

   My girlfriend and I have such problems. We are not from the same city. And when we have different opinions and I say something sharp, she gets angry, then gets angry, and if she doesn't reach her ground to cry anyway. And you keep saying you don't understand me. Well, there are no problems, but who can understand me, because when I say something, it follows - well, it's always my fault, you do everything right, you are the perfect one and tears again. He loves me very much, even too much, which makes me very happy, but lately I don't have a minute of my personal time and that's how he suffocates me. I have already stopped telling her that I go to coffee with friends because she is furious, I did not pay enough attention and accordingly she gives me an example - after work I go home immediately to be together on Skype, and I invent others reasons why don't I join Skype on Saturday or Sunday for two hours while I'm having coffee (and the rest of the time I'm constantly with her when I'm awake). Not to mention that for several months now my Skype has only been incognito, because someone wrote to me and her mood rotated 180 degrees. I don't know what to do if I'm not mistaken in still maintaining this connection. And one more thing - our last argument about what it was. Very bad Skype connection, she didn't hear me, she asked me 2-3 times what I said, and I shouted even though I was interfering with ours at home. I suggested we close - the plaque didn't stop all night. I don't know what to do if I'm not mistaken in still maintaining this connection. And one more thing - our last argument about what it was. Very bad Skype connection, she didn't hear me, she asked me 2-3 times what I said, and I shouted even though I was interfering with ours at home. I suggested we close - the plaque didn't stop all night. I don't know what to do if I'm not mistaken in still maintaining this connection. And one more thing - our last argument about what it was. Very bad Skype connection, she didn't hear me, she asked me 2-3 times what I said, and I shouted even though I was interfering with ours at home. I suggested we close - the plaque didn't stop all night.

   Same story! My girlfriend is selfish and sulks when I have fun without her or refuses to go out, sulks if I don't pay more attention to her than the others, she sulks yesterday because I was having fun with my family and I didn't go out with her !! I'm sick!! But damn it, when we go out we have an amazing time ... The point is that she thinks only of herself and wants me to be always at her disposal, to always take care of her, to do everything in my power to make her well, to succeed, and so on We love each other a lot, but sometimes we can't stand it! Help !!!

   so far I see that there are only male opinions. here is a woman's opinion now. I am a woman and my friend and I have the same problems, I had a long relationship before him and my previous friend did not behave like that, we were together everywhere and the new one does everything himself, he has his friends with them goes out without me and the old one took me with him. the new one has his hobbies - he goes fishing and the worst thing is that he argues a lot with me. whenever I want to discuss an issue about our relationship it becomes aggressive. many times I tell him to break up but then he starts with tears. and so I want to tell you, dear men, that your wives want nothing but intimacy. so next time just close their mouths with a kiss and listen to them