I'm not talking about sex only, but about a relationship in general and dating men. I've read a lot of topics where women are annoyed to talk to them on the street and so on, others who hate annoying men. I agree with the situation of the ladies because I was in the same, but I also agree with the gentlemen that they are obliged to try. However, I wonder one thing, why do we have to wait for someone to talk to us and be Ivan's choice, for example, like Georgi, but we are afraid to talk to him? Should I give any mixed idiotic signals? I am not a child, I act directly. I am a woman, I think I am naturally beautiful, definitely intelligent and with a great general culture. When I like someone, I take the first step. I will not blame my soul, I like good, intelligent and handsome men for me (kindness later of course, but to say polite and kind). However, these men, let's say, like women more because they are more than others. Then how I will wait for him, I will act first, and I will impress him (without pushing and annoying). I'm not ashamed to meet, to show that I like it too. He should already take steps there, but the first one is not a problem to be mine. I tolerate refusal, I have not descended a goddess, so as not to tolerate. But that's how I choose my men, not me. My three boyfriends that I have had so far, I spoke to them first. One I knew from FB and I wrote to him. The other was in mutual friendly company. And the current one I met in a restaurant, as we were both friends. As far as the more active sex is concerned, it is the 21st century. I agree that there are women who prefer men to talk to them, but I am not one of them.
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I like it, act!
Because a lot of women like to be wanted and liked and when a man speaks to them, they feel significant that they have been noticed by him. Women flirt and so attract men. In my opinion, it does not matter who will take the first step. If a woman likes a man then she can take the first step if she wants.
I will tell you that Geori doesn't like you and if you let him go and you are attractive, he will take advantage of the easy prey, he may even form a relationship, but this person will not have made a gram of effort to win you over and he will never hold on to you in the same way as if he fought for you. Separately, there are men who do not know what they want or are uninitiated, go with the flow, do not fight in life and you do not need one. If Ivan likes you, but you don't like him, you don't have to be with Georgi, who you like, but he doesn't care about you. You will search until you find someone who is crazy about you and you are crazy about him. And you will wait for him to show courage and invite you, no matter how tempted you are, to take the first step. Believe me, these men are not worth it.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who shows a keen interest. Men accept it as a compliment and there is no wonder "but you only talk to me out of courtesy". Even if it's not talking, but gestures ... a look, a smile. At least some signal. So few women express their interest in any way ... it's not true. I've had cases of being with women I thought I was more than indifferent to, but it turned out that they liked me the whole time we saw each other ... that's ... stupid. Brother.
"I'm not ashamed to meet ..." That's it. Elementary. No normal person will approach a person who likes them even sexually and say "do you want to have sex, hello" At least a little bit of getting to know each other. Ie the mistake most people (especially men) make is that instead of just wanting to meet the girl, they rush from the door to their feet. They do not leave the woman the option "to be just friends". Ie I'll either fuck you or leave. Very primary somehow. We are human, not animals. Well, I'm a man too ... but lately I've started to loathe the approach of young people. To your question, author, I will tell you one of my cases, of which I am ashamed. At the time when I was 16-17 I had spotted a girl G. in a disco (then we called him that). However, I saw that a boy was dancing with her and frankly painting her ass. However, she did not pull at all, a clear sign that she liked him. I left the place and on the way out a girl was literally running to catch up with me. When he caught up with me, he said "Hey, wait ... can we meet?" ... I was angry at the front and in anger I shouted "oh, look at your work" ... And to this day I can't be I'm sorry I was so rude. The girl in question at the time wasn't ugly, she just wasn't anything special. Anyway. Subsequently, 2-3 days later, I gained G.'s attention. We even got engaged. But M did not give up. She met some of my friends who introduced me to her. She told me "I know you have a boyfriend and I won't bother you, I just wanted to be friends" So we stayed. We saw each other often. I introduced her to a friend of mine with whom she left. My G. It turned out to be complete rubbish (this is what happens from disco dating). The bad thing is that my friend also turned out to be like that for M. (I've known him for a week). So he and M complained to each other about their love troubles. That brought us a lot closer. We saw each other over coffee and then went out for about a year or two. It was amazing and we really liked it from everywhere. But I went into the barracks, and she went to another city to study. Then she turned around with some mutters for something, maybe past her brother ... I lost track of her. One time when I went on vacation, I accidentally saw her on the street. She had become the most beautiful girl on the planet. I fell in love .... it turned out to be engaged and so on. .. Conclusions. While we saw each other 1,500 times, I had told her how sorry I was to have been rude. However, her answer was " I will never do that again. It is not right. And it is not natural ... The mistake was mine and I regret what I did. Don't worry, I'm not angry with you. "So, author, draw your own conclusions and make a decision.
I always act first, so do my girlfriends.
Oriental simplicity has its say here too! The other is on the western side of Kalotina, where civilization is and there were no Soviet comrades! THERE, if a woman likes a man, there are a thousand ways to show it to him, even if she tells him, without harnessing that he will think of her as EASY or even something more, but in our country this does not work, due to the innate simplicity of people
Number 3 is a great example of what toxic femininity is. For people who read this comment, especially men, if you meet a woman with the number 3, give her a fuck.
That's how I found the love of my life with me. I was very much in love with my very good friend, who, however, had a boyfriend and could not leave him. For a year and a half I was almost drunk, I was looking for other girls, but I still couldn't do anything. Then SHE appeared, at first I didn't pay attention to her, but she kept writing to me. I chatted with her, somehow the conversation turned out to be quite easy, but I didn't like something visually in the photos and I didn't look for her first. For more than 2 weeks she wrote to me first almost every day, I started to feel how I think about her during the day (we only wrote to each other in the evening, smartphones and social networks were just starting out). So at one point she added new photos, I saw that she was a super nice girl, things developed quickly after that. We have been together for many years, family, children, I still love her passionately and I can't imagine my life without her. So obviously I fully support the author and women like her.
I am a man, and I really like to take down women, and they take me down, I find it very funny and pleasant when a woman takes me down ... a woman first, she invited me on a date ...
Many explanations, even the biggest fan of reading will be too lazy to read it. I personally do not take any steps towards you, I am not a pedal, but your refusal and eternal friendship left me a virgin for 30 years. For me you do not exist, neither in a collegial environment, nor outside the office, nor anywhere else, I do not tolerate you, you made me hate my own gender and genitals, you made me start to indulge in work and sleep so-called domesticity, now do you understand that you are muttering unnecessarily for attention.
Well, because it hurts when they cut. Because if a man likes you and is not Putyo Marinkin / you don't want one, do you? /, He will take the first step. If he doesn't do anything, then he doesn't like you. It's not because the Martians are bothering him or anything. It's just like beans.
When I take the tape back over the years, I remember at least 20 girls / women who took me down and came to me alone. I'm talking about complete strangers. They sat directly on my table, invited me to a dance as soon as I entered the disco. They took the lighter from my hands to light my cigarette. At least a dozen have sent a boyfriend to tell me he likes me. My wife also showed me that she liked me - first with looks, and after I did not react because I was quite drunk - she came directly and met me. But the most striking case was when a woman we were at the same table (common company) asked me to go with her to the toilet to help her with the bag? !! Coming out of the toilet he asked me if I mind kissing me :) !?
Women will be released alone, because it is filled with quite soft keys, and they need men, and this is indisputably proven. There is already so much contrast that men are immediately recognized and stand out from the boys. Starting with manners and clothing and ending with facial expressions. Some men in their 30s look like 20-year-old boys, others look like 30-year-olds. Both 30-year-old students and older women descend at the age of 30. Especially if men are collared and strong.
What a lot of men don't understand is that women take off, but they don't take off in a row. That is, that jerk who roars about how unfair it was that men should take them down is never taken down, and there are men who take them down every day. Almost nothing changes in the scheme, if women become more active, most certain men to spin even more pieces. This is not the salvation of shy men. By the way, I myself have taken the first step many times. Once, however, he became quite embarrassed because I de facto invited him out, but because I didn't like him, I had to cut him off after the meeting. Bad emotion. Otherwise, someone attacked number 3, but she is very right. In principle, people in general, not just men, have to fight for something to appreciate it. It's like making your money with sweat and hard work and finding it on the street. In which of the two cases will you think more, how to spend them? And you really don't need men who are afraid to act, because that fear doesn't end with the first step at all. When you are a teenager and everyone is learning, such things can be accepted, but then one begins to want a secure and confident partner, not a student.
Who knows and can - acts, who does not sit and waits for his wife to come to his bed. Then he posts topics about how uninitiative women are and asks how to get rid of his 30-year-old virginity. It was as if the game had come looking for the hunter at home, because he was too lazy to go to the forest or he was afraid.
There is nothing wrong or unusual for a woman to show that she likes a man. This may be easy and delicate, but I think it's even better. Even if nothing comes out, it is unlikely to ruin someone's self-esteem. The author summed it up very precisely: Why wait for a bunch of downloaders to wonder which ones she likes and not be sure, as she can point directly in the right direction. Personally, it has happened to me many times that women show interest in me, and some of them more directly, which is great. Time moves, social contours and understandings will not be eternal and I see no point in making a sacrifice for something planted and so elementary. This can also be considered globally. Many people now in Europe are expected to be left alone and without families for various reasons, and in our country dozens of times worse, unfortunately. Probably, if women are so more open in their intentions, part of this negativity can be corrected. The topic is good and interesting.