Have you noticed any tendency to "want" more male children? This, of course, is not a concert of choice and there is no way to conduct this process, but I have a lot of acquaintances who want to have boys. They have a second child just so that this time the "miracle" of having a boy happens, and when a girl is born again, they say "well, if we can't make a boy, we will look after the girl". Then they complain that it is difficult for them with two children and if they knew what it was, they would have had only one song with one. Why do mothers with boys look much more sullen than mothers with girls? And this is noticeable, obviously women want girls, some part of them, big. In general, many people have pretensions and are not ready to accept what they "fall". No one judges I'm just trying to explain to myself mostly why they want a boy and why children are born just to "achieve" a certain gender. Do you have an explanation?
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You yourself recognize the fact that some want boys, others girls. Yes, it may be inclined to the applicant's own gender, but this can be explained by the desire to have a "second chance" to do everything right for your child, which was not for you. It's like living a life just like your minus the negatives. Maybe ... we can't know, but that explains it somewhat. As for perhaps the slightly more common desire for a male child, I think it may be for several reasons, and before I list them, I ask you and everyone else who will read the comment not to consider them my personal position on the matter, but simply for my guesses as to why someone would want to have a boy and would not stop trying until it happened to him. First, it may be desirable to continue the name, the genus. This is a bit of an obsolete notion, and not all women accept their husbands' names anymore, nor are children automatically baptized with only their father's surname, but there are families who are proud of their long lineage and name that has existed for perhaps several hundred years. It may be from the idea that boys are "easier" to watch. Some parents see having a girl as a lifelong "bodyguard" job and think that they will always have to worry about not doing something to her, no matter how well she is raised and does not get along with bad people. Or they may just see raising a boy and the phases he goes through as an interesting aspect of the life they have been waiting for and dreaming of. Or maybe it's for a completely different reason .. who knows ... SAD who are proud of their long lineage and name, which has existed for perhaps several hundred years. It may be from the idea that boys are "easier" to watch. Some parents see having a girl as a lifelong "bodyguard" job and think that they will always have to worry about not doing something to her, no matter how well she is raised and does not get along with bad people. Or they may just see raising a boy and the phases he goes through as an interesting aspect of the life they have been waiting for and dreaming of. Or maybe it's for a completely different reason .. who knows ... SAD who are proud of their long lineage and name, which has existed for perhaps several hundred years. It may be from the idea that boys are "easier" to watch. Some parents see having a girl as a lifelong "bodyguard" job and think that they will always have to worry about not doing something to her, no matter how well she is raised and does not get along with bad people. Or they may just see raising a boy and the phases he goes through as an interesting aspect of the life they have been waiting for and dreaming of. Or maybe it's for a completely different reason .. who knows ... SAD that they will always have to worry about not doing something to her, no matter how well she is raised and does not get along with bad people. Or they may just see raising a boy and the phases he goes through as an interesting aspect of the life they have been waiting for and dreaming of. Or maybe it's for a completely different reason .. who knows ... SAD that they will always have to worry about not doing something to her, no matter how well she is raised and does not get along with bad people. Or they may just see raising a boy and the phases he goes through as an interesting aspect of the life they have been waiting for and dreaming of. Or maybe it's for a completely different reason .. who knows ... SAD
Now look at these excitements that you are talking about, and you have started a whole topic about them, are inherent only in the PROSTOLYUDIE - only the simplest and limited people. There is no point in thinking and thinking about them, because apart from wasting your time, you will achieve nothing else, absolutely NOTHING! There is no point in "explaining" anything to such people. Watch your happiness and prosperity. Understand that these people do not deserve attention.
From a genetic point of view, things are simple. Genes want to spread as much as possible to future generations. If you are poor, it is better to have a daughter. If you are rich, it is better to have a son. A poor daughter has a chance to find a rich husband from whom to have many children and to be able to raise them all with his money. A rich son has a chance to sleep with many women and to have many children from different women. A poor son will not be able to sleep with many women and will not have many children. A rich daughter will find a man and have children, but they do not have the potential to be as many as they could be if he were a rich man who sleeps with many women.
It is a very old tradition to ask for a man. After all, boys continued the lineage, and girls continued the lineage of their husbands. Accordingly, the boys remained in their father's house and cared for their parents as they grew older. Even now, sons care more about their parents than their sons-in-law.
One of the reasons I broke up with an ex was that he told me directly that he would not love a girl. We were going to work for a boy, he was going to raise him, to study him ... He told me about the girl "you will give birth to her, you will look after her, if she becomes a bitch you will think so, I don't want to deal with her" . You will be surprised how many men think so ...
And I'm a man and I want a girl. You're talking nonsense here. Complex men want boys, and you get along with them. The normal ones stand alone
To number 3: March to a psychiatrist !!
Some of my neighbors hated their daughter-in-law because she only gave birth to their son's girls. To my explanation that the sex of the child depends only on the sperm (ie their son), they looked at me smartly. Especially the grandfather lamented that their lineage would not be continued and that the female lineage did not count. So far they have two granddaughters, I recently found out that their daughter-in-law was pregnant with a third and would still be a girl .... By the way, the young barely connect the two ends, but it seems they will try until finally the dream heir appears. By the way, in India it is an expensive pleasure to have a daughter, because there the groom is paid to take her. Many girls are killed as babies (or aborted) for this reason. And suddenly it turns out that there are no women and the gypsy can't find brides ...
Isn't it more important for your child to be born alive and healthy? But it was a girl, but it was a boy ... Very important! For me, gender does not matter as long as the child is healthy and developing well.