Hello! I have a 4 year old friend, but I suddenly stopped feeling love for him because he didn't have time for me and I got cold from him. I cheated on him once, but we moved on and it wasn't about cheating. He loves me and doesn't want us to break up, and I don't feel anything anymore. What to do? Should I continue with him? Or make him give up on me in some way?
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Well, talk to him and tell him about the problem, but don't tell him directly. Say that you want it to be as it was in the beginning and that you want attention. In no case do not separate. You may come across a worse one and have been together for a long time after all. Don't waste this time.
Interesting ... I'm in the same situation, so I'll follow the topic
There is no point in making him give up on you and torment each other. Once the feelings have evaporated - leave. The earlier the better. There is no forced connection, there is no forced love. Obviously you are not for each other, go ahead and follow your personal happiness, it is not your person once the feelings are gone. But .. try to explain it to him directly and at the same time carefully, because .. you still have no feelings for him, but he has. there is no option in which he does not suffer, but do not part with hatred and unnecessary drama. Good luck
Why do you even ask what to do ... if you don't love him, you break up with him and that's it. But be honest and tell him as early as possible so he can recover and move on. to the next love that will await him. Because after each end there is a new beginning.
Make him give up? That is, to make him "dirty"? That's what a lot of people do. It's mean! If you are going to break - take responsibility, not wash your hands of "his" decision. If you are going to rebuild a relationship - this is a job for both of you to make an effort !!! G30
I'm in love with this line, especially said by a woman "Or make him give up on me in some way?" .. Honestly, all those who do not have an ass and valor to say things to themselves in plain text, and start playing circuses in order to annoy the other, to use the occasion to wag their tails and leave ... I spit on you!