There is a man who has interested me for some time. In principle, we are only hello when we meet outside. The rest of the time, everyone has their own environment of people and personal life. Anyway. What I notice is that there is some tension between us. We are super different as people. However, this does not repel me, on the contrary it attracts me ... but I don't know if it is the same with him. Every time we meet by chance outside, he looks me straight in the eye for a long time, but he looks at me badly and arrogantly. Heavier in a word. He behaves more normally with others, and he behaves arrogantly with me, he looks at me arrogantly and sometimes it's awkward when our eyes meet .... and when that happens I immediately look away while he continues to look at me. I've even noticed that sometimes he avoids me from getting caught. In his presence, I feel weak, because he projects his "manhood" on me. When I greet him and smile at him, he responds, but if I don't, he just looks me in the eye and that's ... I feel his attitude towards me in some way. In principle, I know that men would not pay attention to a girl if he does not attract them ... If I do not attract him at all, then why does he constantly pay attention to me I mean, he's constantly looking at me from the bottom up, he's looking at me for a long time. What is this sign of? Does he hate me Does he like me? My question is to the male audience. if he doesn't attract them ... If I don't attract him at all, then why does he keep paying attention to me? I mean, he's constantly looking at me from the bottom up, he's looking at me for a long time. What is this sign of? Does he hate me Does he like me? My question is to the male audience. if he doesn't attract them ... If I don't attract him at all, then why does he keep paying attention to me? I mean, he's constantly looking at me from the bottom up, he's looking at me for a long time. What is this sign of? Does he hate me Does he like me? My question is to the male audience.
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Don't deal with them. Imagine what a complex it is to pretend to be great in front of a girl. Such a man would only repel me. Well, if you're 15, the job is different ...
Tell us in what environments you are moving and maybe we will be able to give you a more adequate answer. What are your differences?
Oh, it's like you're talking about me. I treat a woman the same way because I love her, but I can't be with her. If he couldn't stand you, he wouldn't look at you at all, let alone look at you. This is something like a remnant of our childish behavior, when we express sympathy by teasing and pinching girls. Anger is at the fact that you can't figure it out and can't be with her for some reason, because it's really painful, not at the girl herself.
Abe darling, how do you know at a glance that he is behaving arrogantly?
He may have been left with the impression that women enjoy such behavior. There is a certain part of them where this absurdity will actually pass. For information only, this is not "I give it hard" and it is not masculine for sure. Really strong men, the so-called alpha males, do not need to behave arrogantly to show courage, it comes from within and even (in most cases) are kind and kind. Your task is easy - you have to decide if you like such behavior on the part of a man. It is clear that you attracted his attention otherwise, so it will not be very difficult to shorten the distance.
Author: Number 6 - yes, I attracted his attention, but my feeling is that rather in a negative way. I have the feeling that he doesn't like me at all, because I'm not as confident, proactive as he is, but I look weak and weak-willed. Number 2 - our differences consist of many things. For example, he is really very confident, enterprising, strong, a man in a word. I am the complete opposite of that. I think he likes much more confident women, and maybe he hates me because I don't have those qualities. That's how I feel ...
Number 4: not only is the look arrogant, but so is the intonation of his voice. It's like I'm round zero for him.
Familiar, and I'm the same, I would advise you to ignore him and if he looks at you arrogantly you look at him with ridicule and mockery, it will block him, I know from myself, because I behaved the same way with my girlfriend and I was arrogant, she suffered from this until at one point she dumped me and went with another boy who adored her and showed it to her all the time. Then I saw in her that look of ridicule that threw me and hurt me a lot, because I'm the loser, not her. So when you show that you don't care about him, he will want to be with you and it will hurt him, not you!
I don't know if it will help you, but I'm also trying to distance myself from a girl I met 6 months ago, trying not to show that I like her, even though I know she likes me. While the truth is, I'm dying for her, and even now that we haven't talked in a long time, I can't stop thinking about her. So you may have come across this type of man. Unfortunately, if I am right, he will never take the initiative.
Number 10, what's the reason you don't show her that you like her when you're sure she likes you too? Is she a stronger character, are you afraid of something? For me, the story is different and he is definitely the strong character, and I am the weak character ... that's why he crushes me with his behavior and makes me feel vulnerable and weak. He doesn't like my weaknesses and obviously that's why he behaves like that ...
If he doesn't like you, he won't look at you. He wants you. Behave like a man with a woman, what do you want? Is it like American movies? The man is aroused by a woman who is so dominated, He likes that. You like it too.
To 11: Everyone is subjectively filmed, most likely in my case the respondent thinks I don't like her when it's not. So don't jump to conclusions. You may be in a similar situation. Seeks the opinion of an objective bystander. If he treats you this way, he treats others the same way, or you imagine.