I will try to be as brief as possible. I met a boy a few weeks ago, along with some mutual friends and classmates. He impressed me from the beginning, because he was hellishly funny and cheerful, he didn't talk nonsense and he didn't pretend to be the big deal like the others. He took my Skype on the first day, we wrote to each other for a while, a few days later we saw him again - and the company we had met. He started hanging out with me, hugging and hugging me, tickling me, you know what this is about. He gritted his teeth at one who showed his aspirations for me and then fed him to me, as if he were really jealous. And this whole story is repeated several times. See you, never just the two of us, always with company, walking in the gardens or left and right, he - always next to me, holding me either by the arm or over the shoulder, he hugs me all the time, we hug for a hundred hours for "goodbye" and "hello" ... but he doesn't do anything. He doesn't try to cross the border in question, he doesn't try to invite me out, he doesn't even push me. We are both free, I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, I need something more non-committal. I wouldn't deal with it because it's damn frivolous, but the problem is that I'm attracted to AWFULLY. And it is precisely his contradictory behavior that makes me want him even more ... So my question is the following - does it make sense What does this man want from me? Why is he pretending to be jealous and constantly looking for physical contact, and not doing anything like that? Measure in advance for the allotted time. he doesn't try to invite me out, I don't even feel pressured. We are both free, I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, I need something more non-committal. I wouldn't deal with it because it's damn frivolous, but the problem is that I'm attracted to AWFULLY. And it is precisely his contradictory behavior that makes me want him even more ... So my question is the following - does it make sense? What does this man want from me? Why does he pretend to be jealous and constantly look for physical contact and not do anything like that? Measure in advance for the allotted time. he doesn't try to invite me out, I don't even feel pressured. We are both free, I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, I need something more non-committal. I wouldn't deal with it because it's damn frivolous, but the problem is that I'm attracted to AWFULly. And it is precisely his contradictory behavior that makes me want him even more ... So my question is the following - does it make sense? What does this man want from me? Why is he pretending to be jealous and constantly looking for physical contact, and not doing anything like that? Measure in advance for the allotted time. So my question is this - does it make sense? What does this man want from me? Why is he pretending to be jealous and constantly looking for physical contact, and not doing anything like that? Measure in advance for the allotted time. So my question is this - does it make sense? What does this man want from me? Why does he pretend to be jealous and constantly look for physical contact and not do anything like that? Measure in advance for the allotted time.
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Look for exactly what you are looking for - a non-committal relationship ... And you yourself answered your question: "What does this person want from me?". The answer is: "I am attracted to AWFULLY a lot. And it is his contradictory behavior that makes me want him even more .." Obviously he has achieved his goal. The question is what is your goal from here on out? "follow" him! If you don't want to, keep more distance for a while. Good luck
I think he likes you, but he wants you to ask him if he wants you to be together.
Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. And if he curls up - see how he will behave. I guess he is not shy when he hugs you in front of others and is a cheerful person - the center of attention;))
... I read this and saw myself: D and I was such a boy a few months ago ... I met a girl who attracted me and I started to get under her skin. I wasn't looking for anything specific, just to have fun; and we kept pushing, but I never reached out to her. I won't hide that I've sunburned enough: / but I didn't want her to draw any empty conclusions from our sleep and that's why I distanced myself. we meet again from time to time through mutual acquaintances and talk, so at least we remained friends :) M.
In my opinion, this is a specific type of boys - "insecure guys". So he pretends to be interesting, he is the soul of the company, funny, witty, seemingly brave, handsome, but when it comes to intimacy he gives up. You have no idea how many boys are like that. I was also one of them for a long time before I got rid of this shortcoming. Don't worry - it's just waiting for you to take the "second step". FerNando