I have a friend of 1 year with whom we live together, but lately our relationship is not going well. When I want sex he is constantly tired and does not want to do anything and this weighs a lot on me, at times I want to separate not that everything is sex, but without it I think it is impossible. I've talked to him a thousand times about it and every time he tells me we're going to do well, but after we go to bed he pulls away. What do you think is the reason, is there another Is it worth living with one or not? And by the way, he's very cool at times with me, and I don't want much as long as he kisses me and says a kind word to me, but alas, that's not it. What to do?
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I'm sorry to sound cruel, but there's definitely another one in his life, he's in love with her and he's in love. I've been in this situation ... It hurts a lot, so I prefer to tell you the truth in my eyes. I believe you are strong and do not deserve to be fooled. When a man refuses to have sex, there is no excuse other than a relationship with another (neither work overload, nor anything). Ask to speak honestly face to face without arguing, instead of being deceived. This is the best. From there, whether you forgive or not and how you continue your life is up to you. I wish you strength and happiness, darling!
It doesn't have to be another ... and mine doesn't want to, but I really know that he's tired and I don't want to, sometimes I just want to hug him, sometimes it's even more than 5 orgasms ... if he hasn't given you other reasons to think that there is another means everything is fine.
Sorry but there is another :)
Why do people like you live together at all. Answer this question for me. If you still can't figure out the relationship, I'll try to give you some advice. GS1
(From the author) I no longer know why I'm with him and whether it's worth it. I hated begging him for sex every time. He tells me sex is not everything, yes it is true but what is the connection when there is no sex? How do you think I can know that he cares about me and if there is another in his life?
Such a connection is meaningless, end it.
I'm number 5. I'm very sensitive to topics like "We live on a family basis." Tell us more about how you live. I love a woman who went abroad and has not called me for 6 months. I don't know what to think. I'm pretty sure he's in your position. Tell me the author, if a married man loves you and enjoys you sexually, she called him after 1 year of separation.
You better run on time. If he is tired from now on, what will happen in 10 years? I am in this trap from which it is too late to break free.
The unfortunate man can't lift him. Beat his penalty. DLK.
Or he has simply turned his sexual interest to the opposite sex ... If that's not the reason you love him, find a way to attract him again. Make him jealous, men are elementary beings and catch such baits :-)))
But I didn't understand ... and doesn't he want you to give him a blowjob? - Test it to find out everything ..
Whether or not there is another doesn't matter, don't waste your time with this "levent"! It's full of guys who break up in a relationship, and you're hardly 50-60 years old to compromise on that.
Well, I don't believe that's the reason. I had a period when I had sex with 3 women. It just happened to me once to have sex with all three in one day. Bad situation for the third. How to explain why I'm having a hard time, why I finished slowly and why there was almost no emptying.
The reasons can be very different - there may be another, you may just be tired of him, etc. In any case, it is best to lose it.
I think he's reassured that you're tied in a towel. Same here. There is probably no other. He's just like that. When mine caught a mistress, on the contrary, we broke up with sex. Don't be jealous of him unnecessarily to ruin your relationship. Your relationship hasn't been around for a long time, so either get used to this situation of the ever-begging for sex, or break up. After 20 years of marriage, I still pray.
It is best to dump it !!!!