I am a 15 year old girl. I have been dating a group of 3 girls for a year, and there were 4 of us in total. One of the girls stopped dating us 3 months ago (I will call her "X") because she was bored in our company. Shortly before this girl left one of my other friends (I will mark her with the letter "M") she started drinking, although she did not do it like the other two in the group, one of which is the girl who left 3 months ago (X) .. Leave to one side that "M" and smoked before. So about 4 months ago, "M" and I were constantly arguing, she drank, and I don't smoke or drink, and it was as if I wasn't human, she was shying away from me, she was snoring, at first I thought it was because we were going out recently , and she had been with the other girl since she was very young and I thought she didn't accept me yet, and that was because I didn't drink or smoke. Anyway. "X" left and the last girl left remained to go out because she had a boyfriend and was also punished for drunken stories. There was only me and "M" left, she behaved differently, we talked about no problem at all, as she behaved differently than before she was nagging. He even spoke against the others and yesterday the girl who was punished for drunkenness went out and broke her promise to theirs and smoked cigarettes, "M" was happy again started talking about alcohol and the old "M" returned. He was drooling, nagging, smearing himself on the girl, I'm a mat that she had used for while there were no others! I'm tired of looking for new friends and everyone to be drug addicts, drunks, smokers or to laugh at me that I don't drink or smoke and that I haven't had a boyfriend until now !!! I can not stand, what is this country with this young man !? It is better to stay at home and not have bad words and ridicule!
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Girl, I see that you are good and decent. The solution is one and that is to find a new company with which to have the same interests. I had company like yours, only my friends smoked weed, took amphetamines, made me take it, but I didn't. I just drank alcohol with them. I am much older than you at 23 and 2 years ago I stopped dating them. Now I'm dating 1, but a really good friend. With one of the boys I stopped getting together, we had known each other for 16 years with the others at 7, 8. A person changes over time. It is not a mistake to be deceived by them and to be attached to their minds. Tomorrow they may cheer you on for a boy like that, and there things are more serious. Separate and you will see that it is not so bad. And this friend of yours who changes her face is a double-edged sword from everywhere and can always stab you in the back. Beware of such people.
Приятелките ти са прости и ограничени. И в момента колкото и странно да ти звучи, ти мислиш по същия начин като тях. Разликата е там, че те виждат нещата наобратно. Ти не пушиш, не пиеш, не друсаш.. следователно си шматка в техните очи...! .. Едновременно с това ти се чувстваш засегната от този факт и подсъзнателно ги дискриминираш и делиш като ''наркомани''.. Проблемът е отчасти в теб.. Приятелите са на първо място приятели.. и след това пушачи, наркомани, алкохолици или забили.. Не приемай нещата толкова лично и в никакъв случай не се подвеждай по детските им мозъчета.. В днешно време не е модерно нито да пиеш алкохол, нито да пушиш цигари.. Това не е причината да си търсиш нови приятели.. Трябва да се научиш да излизаш в компании, където е важно разбирателството и това какво правят хората един за друг.. а това дали някой пуши или пие си е въпрос на личен избор.. Малко трудно ще ме разбереш на 15.. възраст в която е модерно да си 'много куха' ;)
I hope that by the time you graduate, you will improve your writing style, because I did not understand 50% of the story.
You're right ... My advice is not to lose yourself for the sake of some bastards. Better alone than in bad company! Find normal exemplary friends or go out with your family more often, but dump them and don't let them lure you!