Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy. I have had a girlfriend for 4 months, who is 16. Our relationship is smooth in general, we have even met the other's parents. My chick is faithful and she is not a chicken or a scoundrel. There is only 1 small problem, if it can be called that: She is worried about doing anything on the mats where there are other people. For example, when we are in the tram and I put my hand on her breast, pinch her thigh or her ass pulls and she becomes uncomfortable and yells at me, don't let people look at us ... And what do our friends and parents know that we are boyfriends , we have not cheated on each other and we hold on to each other. Otherwise, when we are at home or with them or somewhere indoors, we completely slap, cuddle and press with pleasure. I just don't understand why she is so uncomfortable when there are 4-5 or more strangers around us ... Please for advice! :)
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The girl is absolutely right. Intimacy in public places is stupid and rude. Where will you put your hand on your chest and in the tram? You even deserve a slap for it. What do you want to show? You're a complex and you don't deserve such a decent girl. She is light years smarter than you.
The things you describe as doing are not decent for people. Just understand her. :)
you have a problem, not her :) it's perfectly normal for her not to want to touch her in public .. to pinch her ass, do it when you're alone, do you know how disgusting it is for the people around you to watch your hand you patterned on the body and .. ~ Ow
It is perfectly normal to worry. She is 16 years old and you are also a friend, it is normal to push and hang, but you do not need the whole world to look where you touch her and so on. You probably don't mind kissing or hugging her in front of others, and it's awkward to touch her. Besides, it doesn't work like you're sitting in a tram to suddenly start squeezing her breasts and squeezing her ass ....
It is perfectly normal to worry. She is 16 years old and you are also a friend, it is normal to push and hang, but you do not need the whole world to look where you touch her and so on. You probably don't mind kissing or hugging her in front of others, and it's awkward to touch her. Besides, it doesn't work like you're sitting in a tram to suddenly start squeezing her breasts and squeezing her ass ....
I'm 120% sure he'll dump you soon. It is very disgusting to watch a squirrel touch a girl in a public place. At least she has morals and doesn't want to look like a minor whore, and you ... you're just below the level, I'm sorry ... A little rude, but it's the whole truth ... Learn from her and try not to influenced by your behavior! I congratulate the girl for doing so, and the next time you reach out to touch her to slap you so that the collar can be heard! Girl, 14
Abe people, in what century do you live? I am n24 years old and I also did similar things at 17-18 ... I had 2-3 girlfriends and happy relationships. Even many of my acquaintances did it, of course not in broad daylight at rush hour, but at 9-10 pm it happened more than once and not only by me! It's just that the chicks I've been with have been less shy and more experienced. I don't see why you should hide such things specifically. This is part of any relationship. So I already have a master's degree and I work for very good money in a prestigious company, and I did the same things as the dude in history? Did I accidentally fail and fail? It's true that you shouldn't do it when there are really too many people and don't get into super passionate pressures, but when the public transport is half empty and you're just playing lightly, there's no problem. Some of the commenters are congested and limited people who have not lived their youth to the fullest with all its joys and sorrows, don't listen to them! This is from me, I hope I helped you and the girl won't dump you, talk to her! ;)
Author, tighten up. XII
Number 7 can also defend a PhD thesis, but that won't help. When a person is limited, rude and rude in nature, no titles and no universities help. In vain he experiences himself as successful, but he, my dear, trusts himself. A person who gives such qualifications to strangers just because they think differently from him has already said everything about himself and things are clear. And it would not be bad for the author not to consider the word "morality" a dirty word. Is not.
Author, it is normal to worry. And you control yourself! What and to whom do you want to show with such vulgar manifestations in front of an audience? What do you expect from her - to be touched by that job in front of everyone in the tram, while you carefully feel all the more attractive from a male point of view parts of her body? Being so intimate at home, but outside you are expected to consider the others who have not boarded the tram / train / even the plane to watch a 17-year-old pretend to be a big man. Look at the others and see how many of them feel their halves outside like that. Why do you think most people don't? For the same reason that exhibitionism is punishable by law - because it is not common to do it in public. Holding hands or kissing discreetly - maybe, but everything from a passionate kiss type " that we have yet to teach you how to behave in front of people? As you grow older, some things that you once thought were normal disappear. Babies use diapers and are not ashamed to fill it in front of an audience. Does that mean you have to feel your underwear in front of everyone because you've ever done it? And I don't want to think about the analogy of using a pot with your bus ride. You are not on an island in the Pacific Ocean, but in the middle of civilization among other people. Don't be like the only representative of a missing native tribe! that we have yet to teach you how to behave in front of people? As you grow older, some things that you once thought were normal disappear. Babies use diapers and are not ashamed to fill it in front of an audience. Does that mean you have to feel your underwear in front of everyone because you've ever done it? And I don't want to think about the analogy of using a pot with your bus ride. You are not on an island in the Pacific Ocean, but in the middle of civilization among other people. Don't be like the only representative of a missing native tribe! because you ever did it? And I don't want to think about the analogy of using a pot with your bus ride. You are not on an island in the Pacific Ocean, but in the middle of civilization among other people. Don't be like the only representative of a missing native tribe! because you ever did it? And I don't want to think about the analogy of using a pot with your bus ride. You are not on an island in the Pacific Ocean, but in the middle of civilization among other people. Don't be like the only representative of a missing native tribe!
To number 9: Hello, I'm number 7 :) First, I do not give qualifications, but specify who appears in the forum. Do you call me limited, friend? And I currently have a serious boyfriend, even after 5 months we are expecting a baby. I just reassure the author, because couples who touch or express their love in this way are not small, look around. The other thing I wanted to clarify is that even if a person appears as a simpleton 1-2 times in his teenage years, it does not mean that he is limited as a character for life. And all those who give definitions of the boy in history, what were they, number 9? And yes, I believe, I live my life happily bound and surrounded by a great family, friends and people who appreciate me. In short, I have what I need. The bad thing about the internet is, that gives free space for the expression of insignificant people like you! ;) Have a nice life!
To number 9: Hello, I'm number 7 :) First, I do not give qualifications, but specify who appears in the forum. Do you call me limited, friend? And I currently have a serious boyfriend, even after 5 months we are expecting a baby. I just reassure the author, because couples who touch or express their love in this way are not small, look around. The other thing I wanted to clarify is that even if a person appears as a simpleton 1-2 times in his teenage years, it does not mean that he is limited as a character for life. And all those who give definitions of the boy in history, what were they, number 9? And yes, I believe, I live my life happily bound and surrounded by a great family, friends and people who appreciate me. In short, I have what I need. The bad thing about the internet is, that gives free space for the expression of insignificant people like you! ;) Have a nice life!
On the subject, I can say that I am also 17, but I refrain from public places. I don't believe my girlfriend minds, but I still don't force my luck. It's not bad for you to try, I don't believe your hands will fall out if you don't hold on to something. At least it seems immoral. Number 12, I didn't like your penultimate sentence at all. I'm sorry if you're not interested in my insignificant opinion, but we're in spodeli. net though. I am happy with your success and your happiness, but even if you are a president, you have no right to judge anyone in this way, especially a stranger. Without a drop of sarcasm, I wish you a pleasant life; and Congratulations to the baby!