Hello! My story is not very interesting, but it just happened and I want advice (I've heard a lot of opinions and I know that everyone is right and unfortunately against me). I've been in love with a married man for 5 years, but he doesn't know anything - we're just friends with him and his family. But this summer I was at work at sea, he knew about it, he was close to me and one night he called me to see me for a drink and a purely friendly conversation, as before. It was quite late and we went to bed in his hotel room - on one bed, due to the fact that there was no other. We hugged, he started to let go of my hands, we kissed and had sex. It was amazing ... (we are 14 years apart - I'm 24). We haven't seen each other since, we just rarely hear each other. What can I do - he's married and I'm dying for him Give me advice! Thank you!
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There is nothing you can do. The married man will always look to have sex with you and it will not have feelings for you in the sense of loving you.
It would be like a real fairy tale if he is madly in love with you and dumps his wife for you and you live happily ever after, but fairy tales come true in life. So think things through very well. However, if you really love it, don't give up. True love meets once in a lifetime. Don't miss it, but keep in mind that you are more likely to be hurt
I am very annoyed by such categorical comments as number one. Things are never just black or just white. And to you, darling, I will tell you that you are making a big mistake if you wait right here to get answers to your questions / if you have any /. I personally would not complicate my life with such a relationship. There are many interesting single men waiting for you.
Thank you number 3 for your advice, by the way thank you to everyone who wrote to me. I know there are many free men, but what can I do if my heart wants this man. I have tried many others, but only he is in my head and on the first date I end my "new" possible relationship. I also know that I can't expect anything from him, but I don't stop hoping that a miracle will happen, as it happened that night when we were together ... Love - I can't find another explanation, at least for me! :)
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From the author: Very "nice" written words, for which I thank you - this is your opinion! I'm not saying you're wrong. I am aware of my mistake and I am ready to bear the consequences, God forbid there are any. I love this man too much and will continue to be with him until he decides to end it. I don't want anything more from him, I know he cares about his family and I don't stop him from being with him, and I don't want a divorce or a choice between me and my wife. I don't think I'm to blame for that - he took the first step, and I let him get there, so we both carry our cross. I love him, I want him to become Turkish, if I will - I have been dying for more than 5 years for this very man and I will continue to make him as happy as I can once he has decided to be with me, although rarely and sometimes ... This is love, I'm powerless unfortunately or maybe I like it that way, no matter how bad it looks in someone's eyes. I understand perfectly well what I can do to my wife and children, but it happened and I want it, even though he is not my husband. If God said, one day maybe everything will come back to me, but I still say that I am ready to atone for my sin and guilt!